just agree with everything they say.
that should be enough
oh, and don't ever try to have sex with them and don't get jealous when they sleep with other guys and always let them have their way

basically, there's nothing you can do to please them.

watch a nature show on animal mating rituals and you'll see that it's always the male dancing around and fighting over the females. for some reason we're supposed to perform for their amusement so that they can then choose which one they want. if you don't have money, learn to perform.


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By being able to lick your eyebrows.

well dang i must be the perfict example for this ? i just got out of a 4 year relationship with a guy who had no job and no money i always took him out or got him stuf and i never got enythang in return except grate sexlol but then even that got boring and all im realy saing is if he would have been more creative or more adventuris thangs could have been funner i took him out with no money at times we went to the beach the mall the park the parking gurag lol i gave him dancelesons and shows lol just geting out of the house for a walk was a fight for us tho but after i won he liked it but wouldent rember it the next time and once agin fight lol men just be urself but add alittl spice in the scedual atleast once a month if not more and be creative women r all around just ask ur sister or mother or u have a girl thats just a frinds and i know alot of u guys do im a one of the boys girl the ? what do u thank would be fun for me to do this weekend with no money is a good ? to ask urself and others

ha ha ha...

Hmmmm could come up with PLENTY of ways for a man to please me that require ZERO money!

reply to 74 drue yes in most animal mating habbits the male does the prading but some r just the opiset like people women have more expectations then men like shaving tight bodys and cloths primping all men have to do is work out alittl and keep clean u do the math im one of the boys girl and i have seen the deph of men they dont want one of the boys kind of girl they want the prim and proper girls prade more for boys then men prade for the girls

But okcutie you are living with someone and not available.....otherwise......
Ron

True...for now...lol.

In my experience, it's not usually about money. It's about shutting your brain off and letting them lead you around like a lobotomized poodle.

"The llama."

Lobotomized llama could be dangerous -- falling off the Andes -- like Peru doesn't already have enough to worry about....!

i really need the foyer hall lightbulb changed, but am terrified to get up on a ladder and do it. (it's straight up to the 2nd floor).

i'd love it if a guy offered to do that for me.

First of all, realize that Money is an equivalent with which we can afford the necessities -- things that give us pleasure.
In that case, you've gotta assume the role of that equivalent for her -- so that she forgets about the matterial stuff:

Either that, OR realize your incapable of that, in which case a decision has to be made:
If she's worth it, then SHUT UP and continue putting up with her spending habits,
OR go ahead and follow any of the above advises!!!

Ok, time for me to chime in...

for all those guys that *whine* and *moan* about "awww, whaaaa, I have no money and she wont go out with me"... OR even better, "whaaaa, I gave her my credit card, and she left me in debt, then left me"... I have some news for you...

1. if you project the fact that you have lots of money, and you give a woman your credit card to act like the 'big man on campus' you get what you deserve. Likely it's the same poor decision making that let you give her your credit card as it is to lack your education enough to do so in the first place....

Women respond to confidence, intellect, drive and passion. Guess what? The confident, intellectual driven - passionate men... turns out they often make a lot of money... get used to it....

If you want a woman that likes nice things?? Uhmmm, go do the work and make enough money to buy her nice things.

Why should a woman settle for your un-achieving dumb *** just because you are "a nice guy"... ?? oh please... go see mama and borrow $200 for a date and see how far it gets you.

We live in AMERICA, the home of the capitalistic system... you go and get - or you loose out...

buck up, grow a pair, learn something and become successful... you just might achieve all that you hope for...

ME? I own a Benz, a jeep, a honda CIVIC, a big house and I am confident, educated and in my own mind - successful. When I go meet someone I go for coffee - I go dutch, and I drive my CIVIC. When a woman meets me it takes her all about 15 minutes to figure out that I have "stuff going on" -- it has nothing to do with flashing money, cash, cars or a house... it's all about WHO YOU ARE and WHAT YOUR CHARACTER is made of...

good luck to you! (for those like me, welcome to the party!!)...

*sigh*

$.02

I don't have a lot of money myself, but I have always been able to find available woman to date, you can always just take them to a nice modestly priced restaurant I like TGIF'S they have the under ten dollar menu and the food is pretty good, go see a movie, find a nice out of the way piano bar or lounge for dancing, haven't met a woman yet that don't enjoy dancing, you can go out and have a nice time and still keep the date under a hundred dollars for the two of you.

I've always paid my own way...granted, a simple life with little that I must have/do. I've got my own money - don't need some man's. Can't afford to 'keep' a man, but have never expected a man to 'take care' of me financially either. There is plenty to do around here that is either free or inexpensive...no need to spend exorbitant amounts wining and dining. I find nothing sweeter than a man offering to pump the gas for my car...he doesn't even have to pay for it! Just pump it. Now that is chivalry .

Also, I don't care how much money a man has, if he will still snuggle with me after 6 months of dating. Seems many men I've known/known of are only interested in the snuggling/cuddling stuff when the relationship is new. After a few months or so, sitting in the same room seems to be plenty close enough for some...well, provided the T.V. is on.

But surely this isn't the case with all men?

"How can a man please a woman without money?"

Give her some money.

Try being a friend

Silly me, I was under impression the OP was about maintaining the relationship with a "big spender", not picking one up!

Certainly, if you "pulled a wool over the girl's eyes" when you first met her, then you better live up to the image. However, after a year of living together, most of the financial "I's" better be dotted!

On the other hand, I would be very cautious before taking an advise from a 42-year Young (already-divorced) person -- regardless of how many cars he has!