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Topic: Whens the right time to ask for sex?
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Tue 05/18/10 07:41 PM

i just let her rip my clothes off

sometimes i do the helpless hapless semi-resistance but it's useless

laugh


I have done that in the past. I guess some women like to do that maybe because its like unraping a present every night. lolsmokin

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Tue 05/18/10 08:26 PM

I'm still talking to the lady I was talking about in the post I made Monday night. I have learned that maybe she just wants to be a FWB and that I dropped the L bomb way too soon. When it comes to asking for sex I'm kinda shy because I'm afraid that if I asked too soon in a friendship or relationship she would think that all I wanted was sex and nothing else. There for I usually wait until she asks or starts making sexual moves to me, well unless I'm drunk. I kinda have a wild and crazy side that comes out when I'm drunk. Do women like that when a man waits untill they want sex and lets the woman make the first move?


You should not have to ask for it!!!

It should just be a natural emotional and expression.

If your having to ask then you need to evaluate the relationship.

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Thu 05/20/10 06:49 PM
I haven't had time to read the thread, but if u want a female opinion ~ and even if u don't ~

the best time to ask for sex is within the first 5 minutes of meeting. That way she can tell u r interested, and bring her suitcase, mother, and a priest on ur 1st date

namastaflowerforyou

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Mon 05/24/10 07:17 PM

I haven't had time to read the thread, but if u want a female opinion ~ and even if u don't ~

the best time to ask for sex is within the first 5 minutes of meeting. That way she can tell u r interested, and bring her suitcase, mother, and a priest on ur 1st date

namastaflowerforyou


Cool, thanks, I'll have to try that. But if she brings her mother and the priest I'll have to kick them out, my house isn't that big.smokin

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Mon 05/24/10 07:25 PM
Edited by Dragoness on Mon 05/24/10 07:26 PM

I'm still talking to the lady I was talking about in the post I made Monday night. I have learned that maybe she just wants to be a FWB and that I dropped the L bomb way too soon. When it comes to asking for sex I'm kinda shy because I'm afraid that if I asked too soon in a friendship or relationship she would think that all I wanted was sex and nothing else. There for I usually wait until she asks or starts making sexual moves to me, well unless I'm drunk. I kinda have a wild and crazy side that comes out when I'm drunk. Do women like that when a man waits untill they want sex and lets the woman make the first move?


When I read this I kinda cringed.

It is dangerous to wait for her to make the first move.

If she is like me, she assumes you are not interested in her sexually if you do not make the first move. Now after I know the guy better I will initiate sex but at first I am unsure of them.

I would say if you are spending time together touch her and stroke her while you sit together and see what kind of reaction you get. If that is a positive then kiss her lightly at first and then deepen it if she responds. If this goes well then get a little more intimate and passionate and see what happens.

If she is wanting FWB, she should have already told you so and she should be open to the sex talk.

I hope that helps.

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Mon 05/24/10 07:45 PM
That is how I feel too I think a confident man knows if a women wants to go a next step. She should also be able to be confident enough to say yes or no and not send mixed messages.

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Mon 05/24/10 07:49 PM
When is it ok?

..when it was natural for me to roll up to a hotel parking lot just randomly ot of the blue and all she did was giving me this look confirming what was about to happen.

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Mon 05/24/10 08:40 PM
I usually find that the best time to ask for sex is when I'm horny

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Mon 05/24/10 11:13 PM
If you have to ask for sex.. Then that first twinge of desire wasn't there

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Mon 05/24/10 11:16 PM
when shes dripping wet. just dont ask her when shes on the phone with her dad..lol

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Mon 05/24/10 11:22 PM
best time to ask for sex? frequently!

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Mon 05/24/10 11:28 PM

I'm still talking to the lady I was talking about in the post I made Monday night. I have learned that maybe she just wants to be a FWB and that I dropped the L bomb way too soon. When it comes to asking for sex I'm kinda shy because I'm afraid that if I asked too soon in a friendship or relationship she would think that all I wanted was sex and nothing else. There for I usually wait until she asks or starts making sexual moves to me, well unless I'm drunk. I kinda have a wild and crazy side that comes out when I'm drunk. Do women like that when a man waits untill they want sex and lets the woman make the first move?


As soon as she collects the money. laugh

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Mon 05/24/10 11:29 PM

I usually find that the best time to ask for sex is when I'm horny


...yer killin me!

rofl rofl rofl

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Tue 05/25/10 04:51 PM

I'm still talking to the lady I was talking about in the post I made Monday night. I have learned that maybe she just wants to be a FWB and that I dropped the L bomb way too soon. When it comes to asking for sex I'm kinda shy because I'm afraid that if I asked too soon in a friendship or relationship she would think that all I wanted was sex and nothing else. There for I usually wait until she asks or starts making sexual moves to me, well unless I'm drunk. I kinda have a wild and crazy side that comes out when I'm drunk. Do women like that when a man waits untill they want sex and lets the woman make the first move?
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So, Op did you say the L word because you wanted sex or do you actually have feelings for this girl? As for sex; to me it doesn't matter who makes the first move; just as long as you are both ready. We are all adults so we know the signals when someone is ready.

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