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so i quit my job in mid november.. why? cause i could that is why i dont have food stamps nor do i have any state help.. well since then i realized i need to do some things for me.. i mean ME! i have all my life really provided for myself and im no dumbie lol! well i thought i could maybe date after i did a few things for myself... i do not feel bad for once in my life doing things for "myself" however i have found people to judge me for not having a job... ha ha well i have never in my life relied on anyone else! nor do i want to! im seeing how shallow people really are... just because im not an idoit and can care for "myself" thank you i see a whole different side of human beings.. i see the shallow whom have never struggled.. and judge those that do struggle.. i see the shallow that even at a low point in their lives judge others before even knowing them at all... i see the shallow with low paying jobs that judge others cause they have the money to retire for a few yrs.. <only because of their self> i guess what i am saying.. is shallow people just dont have much knowledge of anything.. if they open their eyes perhaps they may learn something.. i just think people should travel to the own lil world they dont know about... and get a real life!
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so i quit my job in mid november.. why? cause i could that is why i dont have food stamps nor do i have any state help.. well since then i realized i need to do some things for me.. i mean ME! i have all my life really provided for myself and im no dumbie lol! well i thought i could maybe date after i did a few things for myself... i do not feel bad for once in my life doing things for "myself" however i have found people to judge me for not having a job... ha ha well i have never in my life relied on anyone else! nor do i want to! im seeing how shallow people really are... just because im not an idoit and can care for "myself" thank you i see a whole different side of human beings.. i see the shallow whom have never struggled.. and judge those that do struggle.. i see the shallow that even at a low point in their lives judge others before even knowing them at all... i see the shallow with low paying jobs that judge others cause they have the money to retire for a few yrs.. <only because of their self> i guess what i am saying.. is shallow people just dont have much knowledge of anything.. if they open their eyes perhaps they may learn something.. i just think people should travel to the own lil world they dont know about... and get a real life! You are so right. I used to work very hard, and if I could, I would still be working hard. Im so used to being judged, it doesn't bother me anymore. It's funny how people think that more money and fancy clothes and cars means more class. They just have more stuff, and newer stuff, not more class. Class comes from the heart, and from where in sitting, your oozing with it 
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so i quit my job in mid november.. why? cause i could that is why i dont have food stamps nor do i have any state help.. well since then i realized i need to do some things for me.. i mean ME! i have all my life really provided for myself and im no dumbie lol! well i thought i could maybe date after i did a few things for myself... i do not feel bad for once in my life doing things for "myself" however i have found people to judge me for not having a job... ha ha well i have never in my life relied on anyone else! nor do i want to! im seeing how shallow people really are... just because im not an idoit and can care for "myself" thank you i see a whole different side of human beings.. i see the shallow whom have never struggled.. and judge those that do struggle.. i see the shallow that even at a low point in their lives judge others before even knowing them at all... i see the shallow with low paying jobs that judge others cause they have the money to retire for a few yrs.. <only because of their self> i guess what i am saying.. is shallow people just dont have much knowledge of anything.. if they open their eyes perhaps they may learn something.. i just think people should travel to the own lil world they dont know about... and get a real life! YOU GO GIRL!!!!! 
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I'm really sorry to hear that. But remember, you're doing YOU now! Who cares what others think :P Your life is yours to live! Way to go! I'm proud of you.
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judging others is never right... no one knows what he/she is going through, so what gives anyone the right to judge.
the old saying( if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all) should be used more often. Buttons: do what feels right to you and the heck with what everyone says. |
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to note i have met some of the richest people too in Oregon... and ill say this some have much class in their minds than others!!!!!!!! stuck up and treating others less like are just not in the mind of someone with higher iqs.. rich or poor.. i know one grand inventor.. in Oregon whom shared a lot with me.. and i really dig him as a human being! and yes he is one of the richest in Oregon...did he have book smarts i doubt it but he was much smarter than most! and many book smart people here! i think its all within a person.. on what they want to learn rather it be from book or not.. true intelligence does not come from reading but it comes within a brain.. individualism.. the desire to learn.. and how much they desire that.... it certainly does not come from anyone else but their self! for true intelligent people do have a mind of their own.. rich or poor.. rather it looks they are needy or not... if you take the time to learn a person you are intelligent enough to know the difference... and i don't know there is a book for that lol! all i gotta say is quit assuming...
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I'm really sorry to hear that. But remember, you're doing YOU now! Who cares what others think :P Your life is yours to live! Way to go! I'm proud of you. |
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i do .. horzman and this thread is of no one in particular either.. at all... but i do see... my eyes are open <not that they havent always been lol> i do just see more.. perhaps i dont attract the losers as i did in the past lol!
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actually life hasnt been better! lol!
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Edited by
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Tue 07/06/10 06:27 PM
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let me say it this way... i guess now that i take care of myself.. <not that i never have had it any other way> but i dont have a job. and i dont give all the time.. to others whom make as much or more money than me... i see a difference.. they just arent around since i dont pay for their lunch or dinner lmao!<though i could> i really think.. the inventor made me see things for how they were! yea the rich guy! so dont judge people for what u think they are... for everyone is individual...rich or poor all individuals are just that. individual... learn before you judge
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let me say it this way... i guess now that i take care of myself.. <not that i never have had it any other way> but i dont have a job. and i dont give all the time.. to others whom make as much or more money than me... i see a difference.. they just arent around since i dont pay for their lunch or dinner lmao!<though i could> i really think.. the inventor made me see things for how they were! yea the rich guy! so dont judge people for what u think they are... for everyone is individual...rich or poor all individuals are just that. individual... learn before you judge 
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i guess this song says it all solo or not...
"I Believe I Can Fly" I used to think that I could not go on And life was nothing but an awful song But now I know the meaning of true love I'm leaning on the everlasting arms If I can see it, then I can do it If I just believe it, there's nothing to it [1] I believe I can fly I believe I can touch the sky I think about it every night and day Spread my wings and fly away I believe I can soar I see me running through that open door I believe I can fly I believe I can fly I believe I can fly See I was on the verge of breaking down Sometimes silence can seem so loud There are miracles in life I must achieve But first I know it starts inside of me, oh If I can see it, then I can do it If I just believe it, there's nothing to it [Repeat 1] Hey, cause I believe in me, oh If I can see it, then I can do it If I just believe it, there's nothing to it [Repeat 1] Hey, if I just spread my wings I can fly I can fly I can fly, hey If I just spread my wings I can fly Fly-eye-eye |
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Girl you will see or seems you have seen it.. True friends stick by ya even when your poor. Those that high tailed it when the money went were not friends to begin with...... Don't ever let others get you down over the way they act or do....
 
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so i quit my job in mid november.. why? cause i could that is why i dont have food stamps nor do i have any state help.. well since then i realized i need to do some things for me.. i mean ME! i have all my life really provided for myself and im no dumbie lol! well i thought i could maybe date after i did a few things for myself... i do not feel bad for once in my life doing things for "myself" however i have found people to judge me for not having a job... ha ha well i have never in my life relied on anyone else! nor do i want to! im seeing how shallow people really are... just because im not an idoit and can care for "myself" thank you i see a whole different side of human beings.. i see the shallow whom have never struggled.. and judge those that do struggle.. i see the shallow that even at a low point in their lives judge others before even knowing them at all... i see the shallow with low paying jobs that judge others cause they have the money to retire for a few yrs.. <only because of their self> i guess what i am saying.. is shallow people just dont have much knowledge of anything.. if they open their eyes perhaps they may learn something.. i just think people should travel to the own lil world they dont know about... and get a real life! I'm doing me now and couldn't be happier, though it would be nice to have someone else to do.  Seriously though congrats on be able to retire for a few years. May you continue to be happy doing you. |
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Edited by
LilithSkyy
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Tue 07/06/10 06:44 PM
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I'm really sorry to hear that. But remember, you're doing YOU now! Who cares what others think :P Your life is yours to live! Way to go! I'm proud of you. ...well you must care if you're on here talking about it. |
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so i quit my job in mid november.. why? cause i could that is why i dont have food stamps nor do i have any state help.. well since then i realized i need to do some things for me.. i mean ME! i have all my life really provided for myself and im no dumbie lol! well i thought i could maybe date after i did a few things for myself... i do not feel bad for once in my life doing things for "myself" however i have found people to judge me for not having a job... ha ha well i have never in my life relied on anyone else! nor do i want to! im seeing how shallow people really are... just because im not an idoit and can care for "myself" thank you i see a whole different side of human beings.. i see the shallow whom have never struggled.. and judge those that do struggle.. i see the shallow that even at a low point in their lives judge others before even knowing them at all... i see the shallow with low paying jobs that judge others cause they have the money to retire for a few yrs.. <only because of their self> i guess what i am saying.. is shallow people just dont have much knowledge of anything.. if they open their eyes perhaps they may learn something.. i just think people should travel to the own lil world they dont know about... and get a real life! Speaking of judgemental... |
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Girl you will see or seems you have seen it.. True friends stick by ya even when your poor. Those that high tailed it when the money went were not friends to begin with...... Don't ever let others get you down over the way they act or do.... though i have not worked for 6 months or 5 yrs.. im sorry im not as "poor" lol just dont allow myself to be used that is the funny thing about it all... no more loans.. no more feeling sorry for them.. so now that i am like "them" well not.. they all have incomes coming in they have never offed to take me to many 100 dollar lunches that i had them .. i dont beg or choose to go to them though i dont have an income... guess what? bye bye! ill continue to enjoy my retirement that i CHOSE lol..if i was bill gates i would choose not to have these types of judgmental people around me is all im saying
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I'm really sorry to hear that. But remember, you're doing YOU now! Who cares what others think :P Your life is yours to live! Way to go! I'm proud of you. ...well you must care if you're on here talking about it.
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so i quit my job in mid november.. why? cause i could that is why i dont have food stamps nor do i have any state help.. well since then i realized i need to do some things for me.. i mean ME! i have all my life really provided for myself and im no dumbie lol! well i thought i could maybe date after i did a few things for myself... i do not feel bad for once in my life doing things for "myself" however i have found people to judge me for not having a job... ha ha well i have never in my life relied on anyone else! nor do i want to! im seeing how shallow people really are... just because im not an idoit and can care for "myself" thank you i see a whole different side of human beings.. i see the shallow whom have never struggled.. and judge those that do struggle.. i see the shallow that even at a low point in their lives judge others before even knowing them at all... i see the shallow with low paying jobs that judge others cause they have the money to retire for a few yrs.. <only because of their self> i guess what i am saying.. is shallow people just dont have much knowledge of anything.. if they open their eyes perhaps they may learn something.. i just think people should travel to the own lil world they dont know about... and get a real life! Three cheers for Buttons' individualist excellence!  ~applauds~ |
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so i quit my job in mid november.. why? cause i could that is why i dont have food stamps nor do i have any state help.. well since then i realized i need to do some things for me.. i mean ME! i have all my life really provided for myself and im no dumbie lol! well i thought i could maybe date after i did a few things for myself... i do not feel bad for once in my life doing things for "myself" however i have found people to judge me for not having a job... ha ha well i have never in my life relied on anyone else! nor do i want to! im seeing how shallow people really are... just because im not an idoit and can care for "myself" thank you i see a whole different side of human beings.. i see the shallow whom have never struggled.. and judge those that do struggle.. i see the shallow that even at a low point in their lives judge others before even knowing them at all... i see the shallow with low paying jobs that judge others cause they have the money to retire for a few yrs.. <only because of their self> i guess what i am saying.. is shallow people just dont have much knowledge of anything.. if they open their eyes perhaps they may learn something.. i just think people should travel to the own lil world they dont know about... and get a real life! Speaking of judgemental... |
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