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Topic: open mindedness
s1eep1ess's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:02 PM
I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship...

I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so..

What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to?

Totage's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:11 PM
Its OK to be closed minded about things like that especially with all the STDs around today. If you're not comfortable with certains things, that's OK. And if people are making you feel pressured into opening to something you're not into, get away ftom those people. Don't change for anyone but you.

AndyBgood's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:14 PM
Ya gotta be true to yourself. If you are not into sharing then don't. Everyone wants what they want. if it does not coincide with what you want, well... You should be able to tell where this is going.

Open minded could include some sick fetish or include sexual practices that are both shocking and sick.

My mind is only open to so much. The rest? Yech!sick

Who wants to get coated in poo?

Not me!

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:14 PM

I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship...

I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so..

What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to?


Is that really considered 'close minded?' Honestly, just seems like preference differences to me.

s1eep1ess's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:25 PM

I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship...

I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so..

What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to?


I haven't had sex for a long time its just hard to find someone who isn't all about sex so I tend to shy away from those people..

I'm not compromising myself just since I've been single I learned why more thangs I needed to know about some thangs lol

Totage's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:28 PM
There's no need to rush. Take your time, work on you if you have to, enjoy life, have some fun. When you're ready it'll be better.

s1eep1ess's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:36 PM
Ya gotta be true to yourself. If you are not into sharing then don't. Everyone wants what they want. if it does not coincide with what you want, well... You should be able to tell where this is going.

Open minded could include some sick fetish or include sexual practices that are both shocking and sick.

My mind is only open to so much. The rest? Yech!

Who wants to get coated in poo?

Not me!



Oh yea not me either lol.. Yea I'm like you I'm only into so much too...

s1eep1ess's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:43 PM
Is that really considered 'close minded?' Honestly, just seems like preference differences to me

Yea that's what I thought but to some people your a prude and closed minded..

Rather be that way then to have sex with different people I don't even know lol

s1eep1ess's photo
Wed 08/18/10 06:52 PM
There's no need to rush. Take your time, work on you if you have to, enjoy life, have some fun. When you're ready it'll be better.


Yea that's what I think too.. Its been since 07 and until I find that one special man then I will have sex again.. I know a lot of people going without now days... Which to me I think its remarkable..

Goofball73's photo
Wed 08/18/10 08:52 PM
Goof says no to his butt ever being plugged!

kc0003's photo
Wed 08/18/10 09:02 PM

I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship...

I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so..

What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to?


tell him you would be willing to that if is willing to have one with another guy and see just how open his "mind" is

kc0003's photo
Wed 08/18/10 09:19 PM



I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship...

I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so..

What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to?


tell him you would be willing to that if is willing to have one with another guy and see just how open his "mind" is


Or if he's open minded enough to do the dishes and vacuuming aftah.


well that's just silly, everyone knows vacuuming has to be done first!

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/18/10 09:49 PM


I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship...

I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so..

What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to?


tell him you would be willing to that if is willing to have one with another guy and see just how open his "mind" is


:thumbsup: I've used that one often... I always seem to win that conversation rofl rofl rofl

Suzanne20's photo
Wed 08/18/10 10:10 PM
I am open only to my partner...not open to stdsohwell

Totage's photo
Thu 08/19/10 05:22 AM
I'm open to STBs (Soft T##ties Bouncing) shocked

ujGearhead's photo
Thu 08/19/10 05:28 AM
I'm open to it raining beer and hailing chocolate. drinker :banana:

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 08/19/10 05:31 AM
Well

when it comes to sex

I am EXTREMELY open minded

thank God

I found a man here who is also!!!

I'm not so openminded

about:

atheism
abuse
war
raising of children
etc:heart:

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 08/19/10 05:33 AM

Goof says no to his butt ever being plugged!



Lmfao!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh happy

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Thu 08/19/10 06:44 AM

Goof says no to his butt ever being plugged!


and I was going to send you a nudge....blushing

oldsage's photo
Thu 08/19/10 06:49 AM
People have to CHOSE their own paths.
What works for you, should be your main concern.
Find someone that means enough, you BOTH COMPROMISE, for eachother.
That is a relationship to me.

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