I think that's a girl thang ese! well, mebbe a switch hitter-hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahhahahhahhaahhaa!

Because girls just want a trophy. They want someone who is gorgeous who will treat them like crap and dump them when someone better comes along.

They don't want someone who will actually care for them and love them and treat them right and worship the groud they walk on. Someone who will bring them flowers for no reason other then to see them smile. Someone who will call or text just because they are being thought about, someone who asks how their day went and actually care. Someone who will love honor and protect them.

Someone like me. I may not be the best looking person in the world, far from it actually but I do treat the person I am with with nothing but love, honor and respect.

Sorry, but that kind of attitude is a huge turn off. You just sound bitter and angry with women.

Not bitter, just honest.

nah I'd have to agree with singmesweet, bitter and angry. Would be one thing if you said "some" women but you said women, in other words generalizing all women. Yes there are some women like that, just as there are some men like that. I do feel sorry for you if thats your outlook on women though.

I am not an angry person at all probie.

I was just being honest and truthful Women would rather have some trophy guy that they can show off to their friends over a guy that would care and provide for them and would treat them the way they deserve to be treated.

LOL oh pardon me, I'm new to this particular site so you must know more about women then me eh.

And no, not all women would rather have a trophy guy. I'd guess you're not here to actually meet any women then right?

O O I smell a small war going on ...=)

Why are you making a generalization about all women? It sucks if some women have treated you badly, but until you realize that not all women are the same, you're going to continue being bitter and angry.

I made a generalization because that is exactly what it seems. You should see some of the emails and responses I get on these sites because of my pictures.

Plus every women I have ever been with has treated me like dirt when I have treated them with nothing but love, kindness and respect.

"I made a generalization because that is exactly what it seems. You should see some of the emails and responses I get on these sites because of my pictures.Plus every women I have ever been with has treated me like dirt when I have treated them with nothing but love, kindness and respect".

Lpdon you just proved their point by this statement. Many of us has gone through some ropes and then some, you seem to have a bit of internal pain, but know that the responses are correct not all women are the same neither the men. It seems that way to you because for some reason or another you continue to experience the same type of relationships and outcomes. If you continue to believe this when the right person does arrived you will pass her to be exactly what you perceive and lose the chance of real love....

Some people are externally mind conditioned on not just about people who are overweight, but about disabilities, race, etc. Some are just concerned about the overall health of an overweight person....

When the WANT to lose weight overides the Should lose weight, then youll do it. In the meantime remember that its eassier to do nothing than to do something. you will find a person that you like, then youll lose the weight because YOU want to not because others say you should...keep the faith bro'.

Wear your heart on your sleeve and youll get used like a dishcloth. Millions of people like me try to help others much to our own detrimant. Its in our nature to treat people with respect but we still get trod on...it will never end but then again neither will we give up being nice to people.

Didn't realize 6 months made u an "older member" and they guy has a point....maybe u should look at the attitude and the chip on ur shoulder from the past beforemake that generalization......bcs I see what he is saying....and instead of fighting back and forth learn how to take constructive crticism....u have an issue with constructive criticism have seen u react to it before LP.....just think about it bcs not all the women have the same attractions or find the samething attractive in other men...not a man I have ever dated would be consider an Adonis so to speak by other women but attitude humor and support were off the chain.....don't cut off ur nose to spite ur face

If it's every woman, maybe you need to look at what you're doing. What I see is a horrible attitude. I couldn't be into a guy who thinks so badly of women.

Last I checked anyone is free to post, pretty sure you're not the site owner. If the site moderator has an issue I'm sure they'll contact me. Myself and others are trying to be helpful to this guy well you're just basically telling him he's got no hope in hell of getting a woman.

I have ups and downs with ladies and sometimes it was thier fault atough times mine!!!! If U go into a relationship thinking its gonna end soon, U can Damn bet it probably will!!!Attitude and Humor will take a relationship a LONG way!!!

Definately hafta have humor. lol if I based all women on my exwife I'd probably turn gay. lol Live and learn is the way I look at it like anything else in life. If you don't learn you just keep going in circles.
All women are different.