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A previous post has brought it to my attention that:
I have absolutely no judgment of character when it comes to the opposite sex. I can't even tell the difference between a guy asking a simple question and a cheating jerk-off trying to send out feelers. I went out to kareoke night and a guy hit on me, but he talked a lot and was really philosophical. I thought he was intelligent. Later my friend, who is 10 years my junior, told me he was higher than superman looking for krypton. I never mess with drugs (I don't even smoke), so I had no clue. I married a guy who later told me he was gay and wanted to be a girl. When our marriage ended, everyone saw his problem but me. I never thought of myself as super smart, but lately I feel like a moron. I wouldn't like to think I'm an innocent in relationships, maybe I have no sense? I'm at the point where I am getting bitter and want to give up. I still want to believe there are good people out there; that there is still someone out there for me who wants to share my life. First post, I ranted. Now I want to cry. Maybe I just need a therapist. |
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There is no guarantee the therapist
is happy with their gender either. |
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 Thanks I needed that.
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A previous post has brought it to my attention that: I have absolutely no judgment of character when it comes to the opposite sex. I can't even tell the difference between a guy asking a simple question and a cheating jerk-off trying to send out feelers. I went out to kareoke night and a guy hit on me, but he talked a lot and was really philosophical. I thought he was intelligent. Later my friend, who is 10 years my junior, told me he was higher than superman looking for krypton. I never mess with drugs (I don't even smoke), so I had no clue. I married a guy who later told me he was gay and wanted to be a girl. When our marriage ended, everyone saw his problem but me. I never thought of myself as super smart, but lately I feel like a moron. I wouldn't like to think I'm an innocent in relationships, maybe I have no sense? I'm at the point where I am getting bitter and want to give up. I still want to believe there are good people out there; that there is still someone out there for me who wants to share my life. First post, I ranted. Now I want to cry. Maybe I just need a therapist. |
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You will blend in perfectly with the Mingletards honey.
You won't know when I am all throwed off (high) and I am pretty smart. No matter....Everyone here has good days and bad days Babydoll. You will be suprized at how accepting many of us can be. Sure, we will argue sometimes but, none of us have anything to gain or lose so we can lend an ear or shoulder when you need it. I personally strive to make chicks pee from laughing...(freaks me out how many chicks do that) We will be d!cks when we need to be. But, all in all...I think you may have stumbled into a group of people who will truly just accept you for you. No one here expects perfection ...I doubt any of us would know what to do with a perfect person except for trying to find what they are hiding...(which almost always turns out to be skid marks in thier underwear) So relax...be you. We can deal with it. Note....since I don't wear underwear you aint gonna find skid marks with me! :) |
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 Believe me when I say there IS someone for EVERYONE. Because on here,,,I have witnessed so many strangers,,becoming friends with someone and before long,,their announcing their into a relationship,,or went off and got married. NO,,this is not me saying YOUR find THAT.(maybe) Just me saying that I am positive your meet some great people,,like the ones here above me,,and Your make Friends with many as well. Life and living all come down on you liking YOU.. If you get down,and feel like crap,,,no where to feel good at. COME-ON HERE,,,and get into some posts and mingle,,,lol Just like Krupa said,,YOUR fit in here perfect with all of US. If you want to laugh,,check out some in the jokes thread.. Feeling down,,,ask in the depression thread,,, Its that simple and you will feel US,,ALL,,wanting to try and hear your thoughts and talk on here,,,hey,,,we're ALL bored.. |
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A previous post has brought it to my attention that: I have absolutely no judgment of character when it comes to the opposite sex. I can't even tell the difference between a guy asking a simple question and a cheating jerk-off trying to send out feelers. I went out to kareoke night and a guy hit on me, but he talked a lot and was really philosophical. I thought he was intelligent. Later my friend, who is 10 years my junior, told me he was higher than superman looking for krypton. I never mess with drugs (I don't even smoke), so I had no clue. I married a guy who later told me he was gay and wanted to be a girl. When our marriage ended, everyone saw his problem but me. I never thought of myself as super smart, but lately I feel like a moron. I wouldn't like to think I'm an innocent in relationships, maybe I have no sense? I'm at the point where I am getting bitter and want to give up. I still want to believe there are good people out there; that there is still someone out there for me who wants to share my life. First post, I ranted. Now I want to cry. Maybe I just need a therapist. Relax... You seem like a smart lady. |
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I usually trust people until there is a reason not to. Keep yourself out there and eventually you'll meet people to your liking. Just make sure to never blame yourself for how others act.
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I usually trust people until there is a reason not to. Keep yourself out there and eventually you'll meet people to your liking. Just make sure to never blame yourself for how others act. 
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Sometimes you have to think the problem may not be with you,its with the other person,just try not to be so trusting right away, sometimes you need to sit back and watch,and trust me on this there is someone out there for you,soulmates are hard to find but worth the wait.
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I usually trust people until there is a reason not to. Keep yourself out there and eventually you'll meet people to your liking. Just make sure to never blame yourself for how others act. Thanks. Life's happening. The pieces may change, but the game remains the same. I'm always thinking out the next move. |
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A previous post has brought it to my attention that: I have absolutely no judgment of character when it comes to the opposite sex. I can't even tell the difference between a guy asking a simple question and a cheating jerk-off trying to send out feelers. I went out to kareoke night and a guy hit on me, but he talked a lot and was really philosophical. I thought he was intelligent. Later my friend, who is 10 years my junior, told me he was higher than superman looking for krypton. I never mess with drugs (I don't even smoke), so I had no clue. I married a guy who later told me he was gay and wanted to be a girl. When our marriage ended, everyone saw his problem but me. I never thought of myself as super smart, but lately I feel like a moron. I wouldn't like to think I'm an innocent in relationships, maybe I have no sense? I'm at the point where I am getting bitter and want to give up. I still want to believe there are good people out there; that there is still someone out there for me who wants to share my life. First post, I ranted. Now I want to cry. Maybe I just need a therapist. You are not a moron...like you said you just have no senses...you just don't see through people like some people can... |
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You are not a moron...like you said you just have no senses...you just don't see through people like some people can... Thanks to everyone, its really refreshing to hear positive people. I'm not being sarcastic either, I really mean that. My friends and family are constantly introducing me to their potential mates b/c i can sniff out character flaws. I don't get interested in their choices b/c I just put a wall there. However, when I meet someone I might be interested in, my brain goes right out the window. And the 'Fairy Tale Optimism Princess' shows up. EXAMPLE: My brother set me up with a guy. We met up for coffee, he talked alot about a girl he was still in love with. I thought he was sweet and we went out a few times. Nothing happened. Two weeks later I see a news report that the guy was on trial for the murder of that girl from a year ago. He was out on bail at the time we dated! |
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Edited by
Shayna1978
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Sun 02/06/11 01:48 PM
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You are all really sweet. oops! DAMMIT BRAIN COME BACK!!!
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You are not a moron...like you said you just have no senses...you just don't see through people like some people can... Thanks to everyone, its really refreshing to hear positive people. I'm not being sarcastic either, I really mean that. My friends and family are constantly introducing me to their potential mates b/c i can sniff out character flaws. I don't get interested in their choices b/c I just put a wall there. However, when I meet someone I might be interested in, my brain goes right out the window. And the 'Fairy Tale Optimism Princess' shows up. EXAMPLE: My brother set me up with a guy. We met up for coffee, he talked alot about a girl he was still in love with. I thought he was sweet and we went out a few times. Nothing happened. Two weeks later I see a news report that the guy was on trial for the murder of that girl from a year ago. He was out on bail at the time we dated! I think I'd advise my brother not to set me up with anyone if that happened! Your brothers judgment really sucks! And definitely not reassuring! Not a moron, but there may be an undertone of desperation there. Question why you go that way, what need wants to be so fulfilled that you overlook things that you wouldn't with your friends mates. |
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Ouch! Pretty Spot On Equus. I won't deny it, maybe I should alter my perspective with guys I get interested in... Treat them like potential mates for other people. hmmmmm.
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You are not a moron...like you said you just have no senses...you just don't see through people like some people can... Thanks to everyone, its really refreshing to hear positive people. I'm not being sarcastic either, I really mean that. My friends and family are constantly introducing me to their potential mates b/c i can sniff out character flaws. I don't get interested in their choices b/c I just put a wall there. However, when I meet someone I might be interested in, my brain goes right out the window. And the 'Fairy Tale Optimism Princess' shows up. EXAMPLE: My brother set me up with a guy. We met up for coffee, he talked alot about a girl he was still in love with. I thought he was sweet and we went out a few times. Nothing happened. Two weeks later I see a news report that the guy was on trial for the murder of that girl from a year ago. He was out on bail at the time we dated!  Oh gosh , did you kick your brothers butt. Most of us make bad choices and dont see the character flaws in our partners,  Thats why we are here. But don't give up on yourself, just look for friends and eventually the right man will walk in.. |
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