How would you want to be approached by them?

Just about any way would be fine with me, just so long as there is no pain involved.

I wouldnt, I would be happy for them to smile or chat, but find it very embarrassing when someone comments on my appearance or indicates that they are interested in me. I would rather they just be friendly and say Hi

good question

Directly. I'm tragically unable to discern interest unless it's explicitly stated.

personally, if he just talked to me that would be a good start - yanno "hello my name is blankety blank, how r u doing - blah blah blah

and since I new in town it's a no brainer - great excuse to ask for my email - whatever I need a cute tourguide as well as a cabana boy

A simple hello would be nice!
If i find the guy attractive the conversation would flow. I can talk for two

from the front, arms outstretched, palms open.

well,,first a copy of their complete arrest records, then a complete job history profile for the last ten years and then their IRS statements for their lives,,and THEN,,a filled out completed date meeting permission Forma26351. filled out all the way,,and mailed to my Attorney for legal reasons,,,THEN,,if he says its ok,,WE CAN MEET somewhere for supper...

WHAT???















OHHHH,,ok,,JUST SAY HI!!!!!I'm EASY!!!!

i wanna a cabana boy!

This is the reverse of your recent previous post, I am wondering if you read those responses?

There was a lot of response to the other post on this topic.

Just saying.....


Stay with your posts a bit and you might get the hints you need.

that's fine just be sure to get ur own

Do you think we could get a group discount if we order 12 or more cabana boys?

talk to Stefy - I got my cabana boy all picked out - but if u get the group discount...yowsers!

it really doesn't matter

it takes mutual attraction to go somewhere

and you'll never know if its a hit or miss if you just let it pass you by.

Back to the topic...
I also like a direct approach....confidence is the key...what you say is less important than the way you say it.

If you are uncomfortable then she/he will pick-up on that and will also be uncomfortable...

Sign me up for two and call me greedy!!! It's been a long drought!

Personally, I would just want her (sorry....guys aren't my thing ) to talk to me normally, as if she was talking to a friend rather than someone she was trying to pick up. If in the course of normal conversation, her attraction eventually came up, then I would already had enough interaction to decide whether I might be interested.

I don't like the flipping the hair, rubbing against the leg, and so on. It makes me feel uncomfortable, like I am being rushed to decide if I want more.

ya I think most of us let too much pass us by