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Topic: would you make the person your dating give up there pet????
Noella101 Joined Tue 07/21/09 Posts: 7032	Fri 08/26/11 10:29 AM
Hummm sooooooooo you had never met this guy but ya'll were discussing on moving in together First red flag Then he is telling you what you have to give up... Second red flag Then the text Big azz red flag..... But to answer your question....I have a cocker spaniel that is a resue I have had her 4 years..... If a man was to tell me that she had to go I would tell him real quick she stays see ya... I may comprimise and not let her sleep with me but she will remain. ya i'm ok with my cat in bed with me she's my baby i would do anything for her n because of where we live i wont even let her drink the tap water she gets the bottle water i drink but til they treat our water i'll never have anything to do with it... but ya i wasnt reading into the signs i messed up on that part tis why i am angry with myself for anther reason just glad i'll never have anything to do with him he can find someone else to play over but i did turn his account in i hope they will do somethnig with his account i know everyone should be able to have whatever but i am just looking out for whoever even tries to hook up with him next..

special_lady Joined Tue 07/27/10 Posts: 1	Sat 08/27/11 01:21 AM
OK, let's see......you rescued the cat. Which I commend you for. You seem like a loving, and caring pet owner. And the pic of your cat is adorable. If you give up your cat, and move in with your boyfriend, what is the next thing he is going to ask you to give up? Maybe he won't like your friends. Yet even if it doesn't come down to that, what if you two break up? What are you left with? No boyfriend, no home and no cat that you gave up for him. I would suggest that you find a place that allows pets. If he is unwilling to do that, well good bye boyfriend. Compromise is always the best route to take. Just some thoughts I had regarding your situation.

Noella101 Joined Tue 07/21/09 Posts: 7032	Sat 08/27/11 03:47 AM
OK, let's see......you rescued the cat. Which I commend you for. You seem like a loving, and caring pet owner. And the pic of your cat is adorable. If you give up your cat, and move in with your boyfriend, what is the next thing he is going to ask you to give up? Maybe he won't like your friends. Yet even if it doesn't come down to that, what if you two break up? What are you left with? No boyfriend, no home and no cat that you gave up for him. I would suggest that you find a place that allows pets. If he is unwilling to do that, well good bye boyfriend. Compromise is always the best route to take. Just some thoughts I had regarding your situation. um you should have just read what i have just wrote I AM NOT WITH HIM I FOUND OUT HE HAD A GIRL MEANING HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND I NEVER KNEW ABOUT SO I AM DONE I AM SINGLE N I AM NOT LOOKING NO MORE

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Sat 08/27/11 11:12 AM
No one comes between my dog Cherokee and I!!! "To err Is Human, to forgive Is Canine"!!!

thewaterbearer Joined Sun 10/25/09 Posts: 19759	Sat 08/27/11 09:45 PM
No one comes between my dog Cherokee and I!!! "To err Is Human, to forgive Is Canine"!!!

Chantilly1953 Joined Sun 09/13/15 Posts: 12	Tue 09/15/15 06:31 PM
I wouldn't tell anyone they needed to get rid of their pet! I have 6 rescued dogs 1 rescued cat and 2 Pygmy Goats. However I wouldn't like a male cat spaying on my furniture either. I met a man 7 yrs ago and he came with 4 cats and 2 dogs the cats were house outside in a pen with a screen on the top so they couldn't escape lol.

Chantilly1953 Joined Sun 09/13/15 Posts: 12	Tue 09/15/15 06:36 PM
And I recently talked on the phone to a guy who told me there would be no dogs allowed in the house if he came. Being who I am and from the north but living in the south, I just said well my dogs live here and You don't! I never heard from him again. But who cares, this is my home not his and I won't be told what I can do and what I can't!

Bootalicious Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 1	Fri 09/18/15 06:56 AM
No one has that right

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Fri 09/18/15 07:04 AM
What i am about to say will surely piss off some people I love animals more than humans so, u know my answer Definitely NO !!!! I would never trade my pet for a man

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 09/18/15 10:27 AM
OP, I can tell you love that cat. Keep the cat, ditch the guy. I love my cats.

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Fri 09/18/15 10:29 AM
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Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Fri 09/18/15 10:30 AM
No way Your pet is family. Ditch the dude to the curb.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 09/18/15 01:00 PM


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unpurrfect Joined Tue 02/17/15 Posts: 59	Sat 09/19/15 11:37 AM
Ha ha! Loved that post.

Sileia Joined Tue 04/07/15 Posts: 156	Sat 09/19/15 05:23 PM
Too answer your question I would never give up cat for a man. Or any animals.Sorry they were with me from the beginning where as most men pop into my life and well never leave it. I mean what can say you can actually trust your animals or cat more then that. I mean men come and go in your life.It sound the man himself want to give up everything he does not sound liked good man. If he really want you he would get job and buy house were you could keep your cat not asked you to a move apt and what not. That is if he real man he would do that. And not asked give anything up and allow him to a attach to your wonderful cat. He does not sound good guy if he not interesting in having wonderful cat of yours. I know I would not give up or dogs that I have.

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sat 09/19/15 05:25 PM
I'd ditch a man for a pet any day... but then again, a man could be my pet

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10655	Sun 09/20/15 12:23 AM
When I was a kid, I had a cat named Bandit. To me, she was the greatest cat in the world. She was all black and orange. I had her from the day she was born, since I also owned her mother, Wildfire. Bandit grew up with me from the time I was 12. she slept with me, and sometimes tried to walk to school with me. I would yell at her to go home because I didn't want her to get hurt. She went through a lot over the years. When I was around 21, I moved in with a boyfriend who was allergic to cats, so I left her with my father. I tried to visit her at least once a week but she, at some point, disappeared. I think she was mad at me, and I think she thought I gave up on her. I still feel guilty about that. There will never be another cat like her.

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 03:15 AM
hi i was just told i had to choose between a guy n my cat and the reason he told me i had to is because he got an apt that doesn't allow pets well nor does where i live i have a prescription wrote up to have my cat and if i moved i would try n see if where he wants me to live would allow it but i just don't think they would but who knows but how many would give up there pet to be with someone?? or would you give up on that person n keep your pet or would you try n see if could have both??? Hi Noella, i think its quite simple who do you care the most for ? I personally love dogs but i,m sorry to say don,t like cats...but i know people get very attached to them so keep your cat hun its clear you love it .....

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/20/15 03:16 AM
Meoww