Community > 50 and over

Topic: Older men and younger women
SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sun 04/12/15 03:03 PM
Hahaha...where did this older thread appear from....hehe desperation I guess

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Mon 04/13/15 03:37 AM
But the guys my age [50s] are having [physical] health issues or mental health issues and i still have a younger mindset. So it all depends on what each individual wants, needs and is willing to accept. I agree with you. That's why I prefer to date men my own age in their 40s or a little younger down to their mid-30s.

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Sat 04/18/15 09:59 AM
In this day and age, it seems that the "till death do us part" does not hold up anymore. If a serious relationship nowadays lasts 20 years, that is pretty good. I have a different view on serious relationships than I did when I was in my 20's. Make the best of your current relationship because you never know how long it will last. With that said, I don't see a problem with older men getting involved with a younger woman. Even if a relationship was to only last for 5 years, as long as that relationship was a very happy one, why not? If her and I could be very happy and in love during those 5 years, that is a lot better than not being happy and in love. It does not matter if the woman is 50 or 30 years old. When you meet "that" person, both you and her will know it. That is where all serious relationships begin regardless of age difference.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10643	Sat 04/18/15 05:13 PM
To start off, I would get rid of the word "mate". Sounds like you are talking about dogs or other animals. I think it is up to each man and woman if they want to date and if age matters. The last relationship I was in was with a man 19 years older. Not an issue.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 04/18/15 09:01 PM
Is it wrong for older men(50&up) to want to date or mate with younger women.(30's or so) Who is the judge and what is the virdict. Maybe the question should be is it wrong for younger women to date and mate older men. whats your thoughts? well nothing is wrong if she was 30 i have a cousin that i think that needs to see a shirnk for hes in his early 40s and has a gf that is 19yrs old geeze just think if he had kids lol sounds like he does have at least one.......

Valeris Joined Wed 01/21/15 Posts: 453	Wed 04/29/15 07:38 PM
Is it wrong for older men(50&up) to want to date or mate with younger women.(30's or so) Who is the judge and what is the virdict. Maybe the question should be is it wrong for younger women to date and mate older men. whats your thoughts? Sure, why not? We've all seen the old man with the baby-stroller & innocently complimented him on having such a cute grandchild! Hell, with my current age of 50+-something; I'd need to look at the 80 yr.old chaps to find my old man! Wow- that's just too kinky visually for even, me to imagine;}

dashiell Joined Sun 11/22/15 Posts: 8	Thu 11/26/15 04:55 AM
I agree I am 51 yrs.old I am dating someone who is 31

donnajesus Joined Fri 01/08/16 Posts: 5	Fri 01/08/16 11:20 PM
I am looking for serious relationship with honest man

irishtippguy Joined Sun 01/03/16 Posts: 23	Sat 01/09/16 07:59 PM
I think a man should be older than the woman no matter the age gap. Men die quicker and women live longer so it makes sense.

Smartazzjohn Joined Sun 06/03/07 Posts: 4844	Mon 01/11/16 09:46 AM
Is it wrong for older men(50&up) to want to date or mate with younger women.(30's or so) Who is the judge and what is the virdict. Maybe the question should be is it wrong for younger women to date and mate older men. whats your thoughts? It's not wrong for people of legal age to date whoever wants to date them. Anything is possible and if that's what you want to do go for it but you better be ready to get rejected more often than not. The real question is how realistic is it for men 50&up to expect most women in their 30's to date them.

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Tue 01/12/16 07:23 PM Edited by mzrosie on Tue 01/12/16 07:33 PM
Is it wrong for older men(50&up) to want to date or mate with younger women.(30's or so) Who is the judge and what is the virdict. Maybe the question should be is it wrong for younger women to date and mate older men. whats your thoughts? It's not wrong for people of legal age to date whoever wants to date them. Anything is possible and if that's what you want to do go for it but you better be ready to get rejected more often than not. The real question is how realistic is it for men 50&up to expect most women in their 30's to date them. Right here, right now. There 50+ year-old men who are in relationships with 20-30 year-old women. They call it true love.

Smartazzjohn Joined Sun 06/03/07 Posts: 4844	Tue 01/12/16 10:03 PM
I was thinking about moving back to Canada and look for a woman a little older than me. But I reconsidered after I heard some of those women have a propensity for violence and relatives who are guns-for-hire.

Nick1957 Joined Fri 08/10/12 Posts: 3	Wed 01/13/16 12:52 PM
My ex wife was 17 years younger than her second husband. After they divorced he met and married a woman 40 years younger than him. They must be in love as they outlasted our marriage and are still going strong 3 years after our divorce. I guess if you connect age is no barrier. Now if I could just.................find a nice young lady

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Wed 01/13/16 04:51 PM
I was thinking about moving back to Canada and look for a woman a little older than me. But I reconsidered after I heard some of those women have a propensity for violence and relatives who are guns-for-hire. Hey smartazz, good one

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Wed 01/13/16 05:00 PM
My ex wife was 17 years younger than her second husband. After they divorced he met and married a woman 40 years younger than him. They must be in love as they outlasted our marriage and are still going strong 3 years after our divorce. I guess if you connect age is no barrier. Now if I could just.................find a nice young lady Hey Nick, welcome to M2 I'm sure you won't have a problem finding that nice very young lady. Here she is... she doesn't seem to like you. Maybe this one? omg! did you send her a picture of your wanger? Bad boy!

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Thu 01/14/16 03:27 PM
I think a man should be older than the woman no matter the age gap. Men die quicker and women live longer so it makes sense. Hey Irish guy, you mean this is ok?

Smartazzjohn Joined Sun 06/03/07 Posts: 4844	Thu 01/14/16 03:52 PM
I think a man should be older than the woman no matter the age gap. Men die quicker and women live longer so it makes sense. I think it makes more sense for women to be older so the relationship will last longer. Or are you suggesting it's better for the woman because there is a better greater chance he will die before they go though an expensive divorced and have to divide assets?

Razel30 Joined Sat 09/19/09 Posts: 113	Thu 01/14/16 04:06 PM
Well 50s and 30s are both old enough nothing wrong with that

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Fri 01/15/16 03:10 PM
I think a man should be older than the woman no matter the age gap. Men die quicker and women live longer so it makes sense. I think it makes more sense for women to be older so the relationship will last longer. Or are you suggesting it's better for the woman because there is a better greater chance he will die before they go though an expensive divorced and have to divide assets? Nah... he meant he likes 'em young. Studies show that one in nine girls worldwide are married before they turn 15, and one in three are married before they turn 18.