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There is happiness in rightfull marriage
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Hmmmm, let me guess, burnt toast.
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divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this? bacon
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divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this? IMHO: They got married for the wrong reasons, and were not compatible from the beginning, or they did not nurture their relationship - and it withered and died... they lied to each other, they cheated on each other, one grew in a different direction than each other, our society is a "quick fix" society where we consume, throw away - then look for something new.... thre are as many reasons for divorce, as ther are divorces themselves... Personally, focus on the positive, find a woman you are truly compatible with, be true to yourself - but yet be respectful and nurturing with your relationships and hopefully you will turn out to be one of the success stories! $.02  I like this to nurture a partner requires an understanding that it is time to put complete selfishness aside, and respect? well either ya got it or ya don;t. but without it relationships with any depth can't happen. I don;t think people have to be married to be happy. but they can't stay together w/o mutual nurturing & respect! well said |
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The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces. K. It is hard to forgive finding her in bed with others again and again. Oh my goodness; that is awful. Its not a wonder I have given up on meeting someone. Relationships can really suck!!! |
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Hmmmm, let me guess, burnt toast. is it ? Am waiting for you...
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Hmmmm, let me guess, burnt toast. is it ? Am waiting for you... I think it's to go with the bacon |
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People get divorced for sooo many reasons...yet they are all pretty much the same or all in one...when I got divorced it was difficult for I didn't understand like most some of us have felt what went wrong or where did we all go wrong..sometimes one person is to place and sometimes its not...I got divorced becuz there was no trust and he didn't love me no more he had another girl on the side while I was trying to help provide for our family...long story but oh well we all learn and hope for the best
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The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces. K. that and the inability to stop hurting each other, betraying each other, disrespecting each other, lying to each other, abusing each other,,,,etc,,,, and the inability to willingly be walked on,, forgiveness or not,,, |
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marriage |
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thought of another
making sex a life priority also ruins marriages,,, |
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Edited by
josie68
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Mon 10/03/11 04:38 AM
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The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces. K. Gotta respectfully disagree there Kman. Unfortunately alot of people think that being forgiven is a free pass to do the same crap again...cause you are cool with it. Seen it happen too many times to think otherwise. There is an end to forgiveness. yep I have to disagree as well, I find it easy to forgive people. However sometimes you can forgive but it would be very very silly to just stay and keep forgiving, I forgive my ex for playing up, for hitting us, even for waisting my money, but i am not dumb enough to go back..Although i would still be here to help him if he ever asked.  Forgiveness just gives you the peace to move on and be happy |
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marriage 
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Yes I would have to agree...Marriage is the leading cause of divorce.
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marriage I was gonna say this but it was already the second post. lol One thing I heard about recently. I think its Mexico that is trying to get a temporary marriage license passed into law. Couple can get a temporary license that is good for 2 years. They can then get it renewed after and have a full marriage or just let it expire and not go through a divorce. Personally I think its an awesome idea. |
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Reason people seperate is simple they have sex have kids, marry each other when they dont wait. Women sometimes think they know it all and want to be a female dog. Men think they are right.
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Reason people seperate is simple they have sex have kids, marry each other when they dont wait. Women sometimes think they know it all and want to be a female dog. Men think they are right.  Cant remember ever wanting to be a female dog
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Yes I would have to agree...Marriage is the leading cause of divorce. if what you mean was that without marriage people will not divorce you are right because marriage is joining 2 people together to live as one and if marriage is joining 2 people together then it's not the cause of divorcing because divorce means total sepration meaning opposite of marriage is divorce |
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Edited by
misswright
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Tue 10/04/11 03:54 PM
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From a sociological viewpoint, there are many causes of divorce these days but in general it's because we went from traditional marriage (man is bread winner, female stays home to raise kids, and this is a lifelong commitment...society disapproved of either party walking away from the marriage...the couple was seen as a failure.) to marriages of convenience, aka companionate marriage (either party can leave if they're not happy and society accepts this without question now.) This came about shortly after women were allowed into the workforce (during World War II) and the equal rights movement ensued. Once women were able to fend for themselves and no longer dependent on a man to survive, the playing field was leveled and the divorce rate has risen steadily since.
Well she asked! |
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What caused mine was the fact that my wife was taking serious amounts of seriously illegal drugs on weekend visits to her mother's house....
Among other things. But that was the clincher. |
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