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Tue 01/03/12 09:12 AM
how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.

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Tue 01/03/12 09:15 AM

how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.

"Gretta! You are not going to believe this! Your husband asked me out for a date. Isn't that just a hoot, you ole' girl? Haha, what should I say to him, aye or nay? Hahaha!!"

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Tue 01/03/12 09:16 AM
if you mean you want to tell your friend that her husband is asking you out on a date, then DON'T. people always kill the messenger. if you tell your friend, he will deny it, she will believe him, you lose your friend, and he finds someone else to cheat with. just tell him no thank you and i guarantee i guarantee that if he is cheating your friend will find out on her own (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

if it's that bad, have her contact joey greco at cheaters.com

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Tue 01/03/12 09:18 AM
Edited by teadipper on Tue 01/03/12 09:20 AM

how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.


First you make sure to tell her when he is adequately far away enough that she can't go break his face.

And the simply answer DO IT FAST before she invests any more in this loser.

My ex husband had TWO OF HIS BEST FRIENDS hit on me in one day. We were all hanging out. I waited until the day was over and everybody was gone to tell him.

I don't know if you watched Rock Wives when it was on but the guy from Jayne's Addiction's wife had a guy friend of his hit on her while he was on stage. The guy was drunk and had just broken up with his GF.

The lead of Jayne's was very very cool. He said something like "Of course, you're amazing. Lots of guys are going to think they are in love with you. If they are not totally inappropriate, just be nice to them as it hurts nothing. I trust you".

BTW with regards to my ex, I did NOT want him to say anything. I asked him to just please never leave me alone in a situation like that again AND HE DIDN'T.

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Tue 01/03/12 09:22 AM

if you mean you want to tell your friend that her husband is asking you out on a date, then DON'T. people always kill the messenger. if you tell your friend, he will deny it, she will believe him, you lose your friend, and he finds someone else to cheat with. just tell him no thank you and i guarantee i guarantee that if he is cheating your friend will find out on her own (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

if it's that bad, have her contact joey greco at cheaters.com


*smack.*

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Tue 01/03/12 09:32 AM
Edited by John8659 on Tue 01/03/12 09:32 AM

how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.


You look him in the face and say, "Let us go see your wife, and you ask her if it is okay."

When you are married, your body really is not your own in that respect, or so it would seem to me.

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Tue 01/03/12 09:32 AM

how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.
send an email or text message

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Tue 01/03/12 09:39 AM
Edited by teadipper on Tue 01/03/12 09:40 AM


how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.


You look him in the face and say, "Let us go see your wife, and you ask her if it is okay."

When you are married, your body really is not your own in that respect, or so it would seem to me.


JOHN SO TOTALLY TELL ME YOUR PHRASED THAT BADLY. You are going to get ripped.

Though I do agree to a certain extent and will get slammed by people for saying this. I have what I call "invisible signs" on my body that when I am in a relationship say "To Only Be Touched by (whomever I am with)".

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Tue 01/03/12 09:44 AM
Edited by John8659 on Tue 01/03/12 09:47 AM
Nope. I will stand by it.

Which shred are they going to rip anyway.

I have actually lost a great deal turning women down because I was married. That can happen when they are your boss. But it does not change my mind. My body is not mine when I am married. No exceptions.


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Tue 01/03/12 09:54 AM

how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.

Well as long as its not you he's cheating with then it should be EZ you just tell her.Things would be far worse if she finds out you new & didnt tell her.

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Tue 01/03/12 10:39 AM
Tell her flat out or better yet arrange where she is in another room while homie makes his moves on you. Let her catch him in the act. Then your hands are clean!

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Tue 01/03/12 12:18 PM
I think it’s just a matter of choosing your poison and accept the fact that you’ve lost a friend...if you tell her she will blame you and accuse you of being jealous.

If you don’t tell her and she finds out that you knew...she will blame you for not telling her...it’s a loose, loose situation whatever way you look at it...

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Tue 01/03/12 12:26 PM

how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.


Get it on tape honey...schedule a movie night for the three of you, your house...Make very strong drinks, start round two drinks and the movie at the same time and nail the little chit to the wall.....:banana:

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Tue 01/03/12 12:28 PM
flowers

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Tue 01/03/12 12:30 PM
I doubt he flat out asked you on a date ,


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Tue 01/03/12 12:31 PM

I doubt he flat out asked you on a date ,




Why?

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Tue 01/03/12 12:32 PM

how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.


why get yourself in trouble...video it with your cellphone upload it to youtube and send her a link

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Tue 01/03/12 09:36 PM

if you mean you want to tell your friend that her husband is asking you out on a date, then DON'T. people always kill the messenger. if you tell your friend, he will deny it, she will believe him, you lose your friend, and he finds someone else to cheat with. just tell him no thank you and i guarantee i guarantee that if he is cheating your friend will find out on her own (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

if it's that bad, have her contact joey greco at cheaters.com


I have to agree and disagree, if you tell her, she probably wont believe you and your friendship will be wrecked.

But eventually he will mess up and she will see that you really where her friend , maybe your friendship would survive..

If you dont tell her and she finds out later she may be hurt and blame you for not telling her, so your friendship may still be wrecked..

Who knows what is right.. Do what ever you feel is best.


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Tue 01/03/12 09:51 PM

how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.


smack him upside the head and tell him to back off & if he asks again OR u hear of him asking anyone else you WILL tell her

then stay out of it unless it is absolutely necessary to tell her - as in don't let him slide - follow thru if he messes up - & let him have it....just beware - u could lose your friend

but to see him fry might be worth it....flowerforyou

sweetly said by sweetestgirlflowerforyou

they don't call me sweetest for nuthin gents:angry:

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Tue 01/03/12 09:51 PM


how do one tell a best friend that the husband she so much loved and cherish is asking her out on a date.


why get yourself in trouble...video it with your cellphone upload it to youtube and send her a link


cripes I thought I was cold....laugh

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