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Topic: why am i still single?
kinkytim Joined Sat 03/24/12 Posts: 2	Sat 03/24/12 09:47 PM
i am on almost every dating site there is, and i still cant get a girlfriend, where am i messing up at?

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Sat 03/24/12 09:53 PM
It might have something to do with the word "kinky" in your user name. It's usually best to leave the kinky stuff until the second date.

ttujim Joined Sat 03/24/12 Posts: 6	Sat 03/24/12 09:53 PM
You may be coming on a little strong with your 'kinky'ness.

oualiegyal Joined Sun 02/26/12 Posts: 3	Sat 03/24/12 10:07 PM
I agree with both men. 'kinky' gives the impression that your focus is just on sex. A true woman will want you to see them for more than that.

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Sat 03/24/12 10:07 PM
Well, you are listed as looking for an intimate encounter... Aside from that being different from looking for an actual girlfriend, I've never heard any success with members on that.

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Sat 03/24/12 10:09 PM
I agree with both men. 'kinky' gives the impression that your focus is just on sex. A true woman will want you to see them for more than that. "True woman" is a bit unfair... but yes, women wanting a relationship will want more.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 03/24/12 10:13 PM
i am on almost every dating site there is, and i still cant get a girlfriend, where am i messing up at? Just lucky I guess?

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Sat 03/24/12 10:16 PM
Not an attractive profile in any way......just my opinion!

sexyfish2012 Joined Sun 03/11/12 Posts: 112	Sat 03/24/12 10:38 PM
your profile definitely needs to be worked on " always horny"? no woman wants to be riden like a horse 24/7 ,and the pic says alot too, u r one bold guy

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 03/24/12 10:41 PM
I agree with both men. 'kinky' gives the impression that your focus is just on sex. A true woman will want you to see them for more than that. "True woman" is a bit unfair... but yes, women wanting a relationship will want more. excuse me? as in wanting more what are you refering to for im not looking to have sex for that is not a important issue to me for a relationship is worth more

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Sat 03/24/12 10:42 PM
I still think "looking for intimate encounter" is a big issue if what you're actually looking for is a girlfriend. You do need more on there. While truthfulness is good, you need to be able to say more about yourself. Something someone can connect to beyond sex.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 03/24/12 10:43 PM
your profile doesnt have any info as what kind of job you have or what kind of relationship your seeking. but then sex seems to be on your mind sorry that doesnt thrill me

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Sat 03/24/12 10:46 PM
I agree with both men. 'kinky' gives the impression that your focus is just on sex. A true woman will want you to see them for more than that. "True woman" is a bit unfair... but yes, women wanting a relationship will want more. excuse me? as in wanting more what are you refering to for im not looking to have sex for that is not a important issue to me for a relationship is worth more Wanting more meaning wanting more than sex or more aside from sex. I'm re-iterating what oualiegyal posted. Shared interests, compatible personalities and lifestyles, being able to provide emotionally, etc.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 03/24/12 10:47 PM
your profile doesnt have any info as what kind of job you have or what kind of relationship your seeking. but then sex seems to be on your mind sorry that doesnt thrill me

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 03/24/12 11:24 PM
You may be coming on a little strong with your 'kinky'ness. Heya smile

doper Joined Fri 11/19/10 Posts: 65	Sun 03/25/12 12:50 AM
@ kinky . . We got the same prob in here mate. . . Btw . . Always horny cant b a turn on. . . My profile is nt appealin as wel but it doesnt bothr me coz i dont use it much as a sex tool. U shud try making some real frnds of da opp sex thru hangout places and mutual frnds

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sun 03/25/12 01:20 AM
If all you're truly after is an intimate encounter, then those are easily found in bars, or cheap nightclubs. Or hire a hooker for the night. Jmho.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sun 03/25/12 09:49 AM
You have a "Donation" truck behind you too... lol Looks like you are being off- loaded from a truck. All the dating sites?? WOW. There is such thing as trying TOO hard. Good luck.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 03/25/12 10:06 AM
i am on almost every dating site there is, and i still cant get a girlfriend, where am i messing up at? I was going to answer by the heading but when i read you're on just about all the dating sites,i drew a blank.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sun 03/25/12 10:20 AM
i am on almost every dating site there is, and i still cant get a girlfriend, where am i messing up at? That's not a clear profile picture, its obvious you are looking for sex and would probably expect that on the first date. Kinky says a lot too. Not much in your profile. This post registers as only your second post. Why should any woman go out with you? What do you have to offer? Only a sexual encounter? You at least have a sense of humor.