Hi all.... I want to ask why people willing to start a relation wait for the other to approach???? N then when som1 else takes the chance they say i tried my best, i hope she/he didn't loved me.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Pretty much.

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Waiting or hoping for someone else to make the first move is one of the stupidest things people will do... unfortunately, it's also one of the most common.

its usually upbringing


I think people just have to be taught to communicate. I personally dont approach men except in general conversation, and then I read body language and pay attention to their conversation choices to decide if there seems to be an interest

if the interest is mutual, I would then elevate the conversation to a more personal one,,,,

some people prefer a partner who takes the initiative, others prefer to take initiative themself,, its really upbringing and personal choice,,,,IMHO

? Can you rephrase this? Not sure what you're saying.

Cause chicks hit on me.

He's basically asking why someone will wait for someone else to make the first move in a relationship

Part of it I think with a lot of people is fear to make a move and be rejected. Of course, nothing ventured is nothing gained.