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Topic: N.J. appeals court upholds dismissal of ex-girlfriend's laws
TexasScoundrel's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:15 AM
Full story here:
http://www.northjersey.com/news/NJ_appeals_court_upholds_dismissal_of_ex-girlfriends_lawsuit_against_Nets_CEO.html

So, This guy dates this chick, she becomes pregnant, he tells her that if she gives birth, he'll leave her and have no involvement with her or the baby other than what the law demands of him. Moreover, he tells her if she has an abortion, he'll take her on a trip.

She has the abortion, but he still leaves her. She tries to sue him, but her case is thrown out.

This guy is my new hero!

willowdraga's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:28 AM

Full story here:
http://www.northjersey.com/news/NJ_appeals_court_upholds_dismissal_of_ex-girlfriends_lawsuit_against_Nets_CEO.html

So, This guy dates this chick, she becomes pregnant, he tells her that if she gives birth, he'll leave her and have no involvement with her or the baby other than what the law demands of him. Moreover, he tells her if she has an abortion, he'll take her on a trip.

She has the abortion, but he still leaves her. She tries to sue him, but her case is thrown out.

This guy is my new hero!



Stupid case all the way around.slaphead


msharmony's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:32 AM
Im Anti abortion but that baby dodged a bullet

two stupid and selfish parents,,,,,

wux's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:36 AM
These are the people who are smart enough to have figured it out how to support the legal industry and lawyers, via voluntary personal contributions.

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:38 AM

Full story here:
http://www.northjersey.com/news/NJ_appeals_court_upholds_dismissal_of_ex-girlfriends_lawsuit_against_Nets_CEO.html

So, This guy dates this chick, she becomes pregnant, he tells her that if she gives birth, he'll leave her and have no involvement with her or the baby other than what the law demands of him. Moreover, he tells her if she has an abortion, he'll take her on a trip.

She has the abortion, but he still leaves her. She tries to sue him, but her case is thrown out.

This guy is my new hero!




The guy is a jerk, and so is the girl.

msharmony's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:40 AM


Full story here:
http://www.northjersey.com/news/NJ_appeals_court_upholds_dismissal_of_ex-girlfriends_lawsuit_against_Nets_CEO.html

So, This guy dates this chick, she becomes pregnant, he tells her that if she gives birth, he'll leave her and have no involvement with her or the baby other than what the law demands of him. Moreover, he tells her if she has an abortion, he'll take her on a trip.

She has the abortion, but he still leaves her. She tries to sue him, but her case is thrown out.

This guy is my new hero!




The guy is a jerk, and so is the girl.




drinker drinker

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:43 AM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Sun 10/14/12 10:47 AM

Im Anti abortion but that baby dodged a bullet

two stupid and selfish parents,,,,,


He's the CEO of the Nets. I hardly think stupid is the right adjective.

Edit:

He may be a jerk, but he avoided giving up 20% of his income to a one night stand for the next 18 years.

wux's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:45 AM
Edited by wux on Sun 10/14/12 10:47 AM
Full story here:
http://www.centralarkansasnews.com/news/kansas_woman_charged_with_marriage_fraud.html

Man marries woman at shotgun wedding, six months later she gives birth to healthy baby carp.

Arkansas High Court of Appeal dissolves marriage, gives man his freedom back.

Carp mother awaits trial in jail, denied bail of $10,000 by her church group and by her book club.


msharmony's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:51 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 10/14/12 10:51 AM


Im Anti abortion but that baby dodged a bullet

two stupid and selfish parents,,,,,


He's the CEO of the Nets. I hardly think stupid is the right adjective.

Edit:

He may be a jerk, but he avoided giving up 20% of his income to a one night stand for the next 18 years.



no, he was stupid to get someone pregnant that he obviously didnt love or plan to stand by,,,,,there are all different types of stupid


he could have avoided 'giving up' his probably over inflated ego(er, I mean income) by being responsible in the first place

Im not impressed that he saved money by taking a life,,,

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:57 AM

no, he was stupid to get someone pregnant that he obviously didnt love or plan to stand by,,,,,there are all different types of stupid


he could have avoided 'giving up' his probably over inflated ego(er, I mean income) by being responsible in the first place

Im not impressed that he saved money by taking a life,,,


For all we know he did everything he could including using a condom. Maybe he wasn't the father. Maybe she was already pregnant and went look for a rich man to take advantage of.

msharmony's photo
Sun 10/14/12 10:58 AM


no, he was stupid to get someone pregnant that he obviously didnt love or plan to stand by,,,,,there are all different types of stupid


he could have avoided 'giving up' his probably over inflated ego(er, I mean income) by being responsible in the first place

Im not impressed that he saved money by taking a life,,,


For all we know he did everything he could including using a condom. Maybe he wasn't the father. Maybe she was already pregnant and went look for a rich man to take advantage of.



but what we do know is he tricked someone else into a decision to take a life so he could save money

money, that if any of the other situaations were true, he wouldnt have had to pay anyway,,,


TexasScoundrel's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:19 AM
Yes he did. And everything he did was within the law. Abortion is a legal form of birth control.

It's my opinion that as long as abortion is legal a man shouldn't be responsible for any more than half the cost of an abortion if a woman he's seeing becomes pregnant.

She has the right to end the pregnancy whether he wants the child or not. He, on the other hand is forced to pay her if she chooses to give birth. In other words, she can force him to do the "responsible thing." But, he cannot force her to do the "responsible thing."

This, I think, is unfair.

msharmony's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:23 AM

Yes he did. And everything he did was within the law. Abortion is a legal form of birth control.

It's my opinion that as long as abortion is legal a man shouldn't be responsible for any more than half the cost of an abortion if a woman he's seeing becomes pregnant.

She has the right to end the pregnancy whether he wants the child or not. He, on the other hand is forced to pay her if she chooses to give birth. In other words, she can force him to do the "responsible thing." But, he cannot force her to do the "responsible thing."

This, I think, is unfair.



not all idiots are criminals

the 'responsible' thing starts before they both decide to lay down with each other

the pregnancy is only the womans

the life belongs to both of them

however unfair things currently are, and I agree they are

it still doesnt bare on the fact that an adult talked another adult into ending a life over money,,,,

wux's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:25 AM

no, he was stupid to get someone pregnant that he obviously didnt love or plan to stand by,,,,,there are all different types of stupid


It's not stupidity that's ultimately required of a man to make a lady pregnant... it's quite something else in the repertoire of displays of his own powerful manlihood.

msharmony's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:26 AM


no, he was stupid to get someone pregnant that he obviously didnt love or plan to stand by,,,,,there are all different types of stupid


It's not stupidity that's ultimately required of a man to make a lady pregnant... it's quite something else in the repertoire of displays of his own powerful manlihood.



no, its not required,, but it is present often times when they disregard the long term consequences for the short term satisfaction,,,

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:29 AM

not all idiots are criminals

the 'responsible' thing starts before they both decide to lay down with each other

the pregnancy is only the womans

the life belongs to both of them

however unfair things currently are, and I agree they are

it still doesnt bare on the fact that an adult talked another adult into ending a life over money,,,,


So, if he'd said to her; "here's half the cost of an abortion. Now, go away and leave me alone" he'd have fulfilled his full share of the responsibility in your opinion?

wux's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:34 AM


the 'responsible' thing starts before they both decide to lay down with each other

the pregnancy is only the womans

the life belongs to both of them

however unfair things currently are, and I agree they are

it still doesnt bare on the fact that an adult talked another adult into ending a life over money,,,,

Again, something I don't understand from the point of view of the religious.

Until today I thought that in creating new life, the man donates his sperm, the woman donates her egg, and God chips in by donating a soul for the vessel to create a life.

Many, many pregnancies occur with no life: with natural abortions, miscarriages, fetal deaths. In these instances man gave his just share, the semen, woman gave her just share, an egg, the semen combined with the egg to produce conception, and yet life was not the outcome, since God willed it to not happen, god widthheld his own contribution.

So... why is the child's life half hers and half his. That's the part that I have real trouble understanding, given the Christian faith as a guide and measuring system.

The life belongs in its entirety to God, as far as I can see it written in the Christian ownership manual.

msharmony's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:34 AM


not all idiots are criminals

the 'responsible' thing starts before they both decide to lay down with each other

the pregnancy is only the womans

the life belongs to both of them

however unfair things currently are, and I agree they are

it still doesnt bare on the fact that an adult talked another adult into ending a life over money,,,,


So, if he'd said to her; "here's half the cost of an abortion. Now, go away and leave me alone" he'd have fulfilled his full share of the responsibility in your opinion?



IF she had been desiring an abortion, he should pay half expenses of ending that life, as he would have no choice(which is not fair)

If she had not, he should pay for the life he helped her create (and had FULL choice in creating )


msharmony's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:36 AM



the 'responsible' thing starts before they both decide to lay down with each other

the pregnancy is only the womans

the life belongs to both of them

however unfair things currently are, and I agree they are

it still doesnt bare on the fact that an adult talked another adult into ending a life over money,,,,

Again, something I don't understand from the point of view of the religious.

Until today I thought that in creating new life, the man donates his sperm, the woman donates her egg, and God chips in by donating a soul for the vessel to create a life.

Many, many pregnancies occur with no life: with natural abortions, miscarriages, fetal deaths. In these instances man gave his just share, the semen, woman gave her just share, an egg, the semen combined with the egg to produce conception, and yet life was not the outcome, since God willed it to not happen, god widthheld his own contribution.

So... why is the child's life half hers and half his. That's the part that I have real trouble understanding, given the Christian faith as a guide and measuring system.

The life belongs in its entirety to God, as far as I can see it written in the Christian ownership manual.



the flesh is donated by the parents, the soul is donated by God

neither have ownership of the soul, both have responsibility for the flesh,,,



wux's photo
Sun 10/14/12 11:36 AM

For all we know he did everything he could including using a condom. Maybe he wasn't the father. Maybe she was already pregnant and went look for a rich man to take advantage of.


For all we know we know nothing, and to gain assured knowledge, a simple dna test could have done the irrefutable revelation of the father's identity.

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