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Topic: High school crush...
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Sat 01/05/13 09:59 PM
...from almost 36 yrs. ago called me this evening! I didn't think he even knew I existed. We had a wonderful 2 hr. conversation and he asked if he could call again in a few days.

Felt so silly when I first answer the phone...that school girl giddiness took over for a few minutes...(at this age!spock whoa :laughing: )...even had to remind myself to breath. LOL

He was our Capitain of the football team and class president and is still as gorgeous as ever! drool

I will be going to sleep with this smile plastered on my face. biggrin

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Sat 01/05/13 10:20 PM
Im happy for you. Theres nothing like getting that special feeling again. Makes you feel alive. Good luck.

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Sat 01/05/13 10:23 PM
That is so awesome! Have fun! flowerforyou

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Sat 01/05/13 10:28 PM
A special wish?????:wink: :banana: flowerforyou

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Sat 01/05/13 10:45 PM

That is so awesome! Have fun! flowerforyou


Yep, what she said. :thumbsup:

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Sun 01/06/13 12:05 AM
Yep happy for you and hope all your wishes come true this year :)

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Sun 01/06/13 04:37 AM

A special wish?????:wink: :banana: flowerforyou



Would love the opportunity to get to know him as well as I know myself...but with me being in CO and him in OH, this could prove to be difficult.

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Sun 01/06/13 06:16 AM
Love doesn't know distance! :wink: The best wishes for you both!

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Sun 01/06/13 09:31 AM
Hey Cuties, I Am Here Just To Say:- First Crush Is Unforgetable Whether It's School Crush Or a College Crush! That's The Time When u Get a Beautiful Feeling. :) :)

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Sun 01/06/13 09:37 AM
Edited by navygirl on Sun 01/06/13 09:39 AM

Hey Cuties, I Am Here Just To Say:- First Crush Is Unforgetable Whether It's School Crush Or a College Crush! That's The Time When u Get a Beautiful Feeling. :) :)


Yep; it is hard to forget your first crush; and it still makes me want to puke thinking of it. It certainly wasn't a beautiful feeling. :angry:

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Sun 01/06/13 10:06 AM

...from almost 36 yrs. ago called me this evening! I didn't think he even knew I existed. We had a wonderful 2 hr. conversation and he asked if he could call again in a few days.

Felt so silly when I first answer the phone...that school girl giddiness took over for a few minutes...(at this age!spock whoa :laughing: )...even had to remind myself to breath. LOL

He was our Capitain of the football team and class president and is still as gorgeous as ever! drool

I will be going to sleep with this smile plastered on my face. biggrin



Maybe he suddenly remembered how great it was to be with you. :thumbsup:. I think everyone's experience with their first ever boyfriend/girlfriend can vary. Mine gives me a giddy feeling, too. After five years of not speaking, on his part, he realised that any new woman he had after me, just couldn't tame him. Oh aye. laugh. I tried to see if he seemed genuine enough about getting back together with me again, and he did. As our bond with each other is what makes us. I realised how much I missed his little quirks, like suddenly hugging me out of the blue, writing me little love notes, leaving me gifts and hiding them in places for me to find :). I think we force ourselves to forget them at first, as we think that we will never see him/her again, but little do we know, we sometimes do. lol. At least it's better to reconcile with friendliness, than let a break up be a heavy bitter burden on your heart. I think we both even get on better now, as we were only teenagers back then, and hadn't matured much.

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Sun 01/06/13 10:30 AM


...from almost 36 yrs. ago called me this evening! I didn't think he even knew I existed. We had a wonderful 2 hr. conversation and he asked if he could call again in a few days.

Felt so silly when I first answer the phone...that school girl giddiness took over for a few minutes...(at this age!spock whoa :laughing: )...even had to remind myself to breath. LOL

He was our Capitain of the football team and class president and is still as gorgeous as ever! drool

I will be going to sleep with this smile plastered on my face. biggrin



Maybe he suddenly remembered how great it was to be with you. :thumbsup:. I think everyone's experience with their first ever boyfriend/girlfriend can vary. Mine gives me a giddy feeling, too. After five years of not speaking, on his part, he realised that any new woman he had after me, just couldn't tame him. Oh aye. laugh. I tried to see if he seemed genuine enough about getting back together with me again, and he did. As our bond with each other is what makes us. I realised how much I missed his little quirks, like suddenly hugging me out of the blue, writing me little love notes, leaving me gifts and hiding them in places for me to find :). I think we force ourselves to forget them at first, as we think that we will never see him/her again, but little do we know, we sometimes do. lol. At least it's better to reconcile with friendliness, than let a break up be a heavy bitter burden on your heart. I think we both even get on better now, as we were only teenagers back then, and hadn't matured much.



Let me explain further...

I just told this guy yesterday about the secret crush I had on him back in high school. We were never boyfriend/girlfriend...we never spoke to each other until yesterday. We were both pretty shy in school...so much so I had my sister call him posing as me, asking him to our senior prom. He didn't remember such a call and thinks his older brother took it pretending to be him. Anyway, we have both overcome our shyness, both are single and both interested in getting to know each other. Who knows what may come of it!? :thumbsup:

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Sun 01/06/13 10:37 AM
That's cool...My high school crush got a hold of me a couple years back on Facebook, apparently it only took one message for her to hate me again.

In all honesty though, she changed dramatically.

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Sun 01/06/13 11:01 AM
how cool is THAT huh?!! :thumbsup:

like Fear.. I got an email 2 years ago (during a momentary lapse of reason I was a facebook member) from a 'friend of a friend'.. a guy I dated when I was 17, and like you, adored him, but he just disappeared one day.. anywho in his very first email to me he wrote he still dreamt about me often and then went on to explain what had happened to him.. long 'n short is, he wanted to hook up BUT.. was still married and couldn't leave his wife..ohwell I simply said goodbye

you never do know just WHO is holding a torch out there for ya.. but in your case.. guess you found out huh!! GOOD for YOU! good luck!! flowerforyou

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Mon 01/07/13 08:23 PM



Let me explain further...

I just told this guy yesterday about the secret crush I had on him back
in high school. We were never boyfriend/girlfriend...we never spoke to
each other until yesterday. We were both pretty shy in school...so much
so I had my sister call him posing as me, asking him to our senior
prom. He didn't remember such a call and thinks his older brother took
it pretending to be him. Anyway, we have both overcome our shyness,
both are single and both interested in getting to know each other. Who
knows what may come of it!? :thumbsup:



Sorry, I got it slightly wrong I see. laugh. Yes, who knows? It's amazing what surprises us out of the blue. You get nervous after not seeing them for a long time. Always hard to know what to say at first. You end up stuttering. laugh. Good luck :)

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Sun 01/13/13 10:10 AM
Neither he nor I have been stuck on what to talk about...no stuttering either...we have 36 yrs. to make up for! winking We have been talking for 2 weeks now and I am still pinching myself.

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Sun 01/13/13 12:05 PM

Neither he nor I have been stuck on what to talk about...no stuttering either...we have 36 yrs. to make up for! winking We have been talking for 2 weeks now and I am still pinching myself.


That's pretty cool. Glad to hear you are having fun getting caught upflowerforyou

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Sun 01/13/13 12:52 PM
How wonderful for youflowerforyou Since everyone changes every so many years it will be fun for you to learn how the both of you have changed since school(hopefully for the better on both ends). Maybe fate decided that it took all those years (and changes) for the two of you to find each other.....you just never knowbigsmile

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Sun 01/13/13 05:53 PM

How wonderful for youflowerforyou Since everyone changes every so many years it will be fun for you to learn how the both of you have changed since school(hopefully for the better on both ends). Maybe fate decided that it took all those years (and changes) for the two of you to find each other.....you just never knowbigsmile


That's what we have concluded jemare. He mentioned something the other night about wishing he could have a 'do over'...I said no...life happened as it did so that we could become the people we are now, enabling us to 'do it right' THIS time.

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Tue 01/15/13 07:53 AM
That is so fantastic! What a joyful time for you! There is nothing like the feeling when you just "click" with someone. happy

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