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Topic: what do you think about him
minemine2013 Joined Mon 02/11/13 Posts: 85	Thu 02/28/13 02:10 AM
I'm not up to one month here and I meet a guy that claims to love me so much that he wants to marry me. He is not asking me any questions about my past or trying know me better.He siad he felt that I'm a good person so no need of asking questions. all he knows that he loves me so much. He told me he had his frist girl friend when he was 25years old and broke up since then till now he never dated any other woman and he is 33years now. I'm very uncomfortable with him and i doubth if he is real. What you think should I tell him off.

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Thu 02/28/13 02:39 AM
Im not good at this. Hehe. I didnt experienced a long term relationship. This is just my piece of advice. Feel free to disregard if its necessary. I think he is just attracted to you. If he doesnt asked you about your past then tell him. Ask him a question but if his elusive then you knew what to do..

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Thu 02/28/13 02:39 AM
By the way welcome mine.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 02/28/13 02:47 AM
Just block him, don't tell him off, you'd be wasting breath. I think he is either desperate or a scam. A man that truly loved you would want to know everything he could about you. I think he just saw a pretty face and said "She'll do." Either that or a scam. He'll try to pull you in and surprise! He needs a green card and money to come be with you. You're cute and a guy will come along who is real and will woo you. Don't rush into things, especially on the internet. It is buyer beware out here. Sorry I sound so harsh.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 02/28/13 02:47 AM
I'm not up to one month here and I meet a guy that claims to love me so much that he wants to marry me. He is not asking me any questions about my past or trying know me better.He siad he felt that I'm a good person so no need of asking questions. all he knows that he loves me so much. He told me he had his frist girl friend when he was 25years old and broke up since then till now he never dated any other woman and he is 33years now. I'm very uncomfortable with him and i doubth if he is real. What you think should I tell him off. huhm,weird guy.. First,engage in direst questions and see if he's elucive....open your eyes and ears and read between the lines! So many cases,your instinct is right! If you dont feel comfy talking to him,block him......safer than sorry! Goodluck and welcome to Mingle!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 02/28/13 09:33 AM
I'm not up to one month here and I meet a guy that claims to love me so much that he wants to marry me. He is not asking me any questions about my past or trying know me better.He siad he felt that I'm a good person so no need of asking questions. all he knows that he loves me so much. He told me he had his frist girl friend when he was 25years old and broke up since then till now he never dated any other woman and he is 33years now. I'm very uncomfortable with him and i doubth if he is real. What you think should I tell him off. Tell him good-bye as he sounds like a scammer to me.

MetalShadow6 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 924	Thu 02/28/13 12:08 PM
I have gotten some e-mail by girls the same way. They are usually scammers.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45334	Thu 02/28/13 12:28 PM
If you are judging new people by past people's mistakes you are unready for a good relationship. Talk to him more, get the skinny, maybe you got lucky and don't know it. Maybe he is full of it. Time will tell.

silver35 Joined Sun 02/24/13 Posts: 5	Thu 02/28/13 01:58 PM
Follow you heart it will tellyou. My 13 year relationship went sour and I wish I seen the sighns but I didn't and she hurt me 10 fold with anther guy I learned

minemine2013 Joined Mon 02/11/13 Posts: 85	Thu 02/28/13 02:42 PM
Thank you winlei welcome to mingle 2.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 02/28/13 02:51 PM
I'm not up to one month here and I meet a guy that claims to love me so much that he wants to marry me. He is not asking me any questions about my past or trying know me better.He siad he felt that I'm a good person so no need of asking questions. all he knows that he loves me so much. He told me he had his frist girl friend when he was 25years old and broke up since then till now he never dated any other woman and he is 33years now. I'm very uncomfortable with him and i doubth if he is real. What you think should I tell him off. huh... sounds a messed up in the head... i would steer clear of that one...

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Thu 02/28/13 03:02 PM
I'm sorry but I don't think that someone can be IN LOVE with out ever having met and with out knowing much about the person at all. Sounds like a scammer to me.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21391	Thu 02/28/13 04:43 PM
He wants to marry you, but is not interested in knowing anything about you???? I smell scam. Do not send him any money.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Thu 02/28/13 04:49 PM
I'm not up to one month here and I meet a guy that claims to love me so much that he wants to marry me. He is not asking me any questions about my past or trying know me better.He siad he felt that I'm a good person so no need of asking questions. all he knows that he loves me so much. He told me he had his frist girl friend when he was 25years old and broke up since then till now he never dated any other woman and he is 33years now. I'm very uncomfortable with him and i doubth if he is real. What you think should I tell him off. Trust your own instincts. If you doubt he is real, he is probably not real. It does seem strange that he does not want to get to know you better, yet wants to marry you.

Kennee77 Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 236	Fri 03/01/13 06:41 AM
I'm not up to one month here and I meet a guy that claims to love me so much that he wants to marry me. He is not asking me any questions about my past or trying know me better.He siad he felt that I'm a good person so no need of asking questions. all he knows that he loves me so much. He told me he had his frist girl friend when he was 25years old and broke up since then till now he never dated any other woman and he is 33years now. I'm very uncomfortable with him and i doubth if he is real. What you think should I tell him off. Tell him good-bye as he sounds like a scammer to me. He's not; just an inexperienced Strong Introvert

Kennee77 Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 236	Fri 03/01/13 06:44 AM
Oops! Just Checked Out Minemine's Profile. He's Prob'ly Scam, new 2 d Game

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4693	Fri 03/01/13 08:01 AM
I'm not up to one month here and I meet a guy that claims to love me so much that he wants to marry me. He is not asking me any questions about my past or trying know me better.He siad he felt that I'm a good person so no need of asking questions. all he knows that he loves me so much. He told me he had his frist girl friend when he was 25years old and broke up since then till now he never dated any other woman and he is 33years now. I'm very uncomfortable with him and i doubth if he is real. What you think should I tell him off. If you are "very uncomfortable" communicating with him, you don,t want that in my opinion, say goodbye as politely you can and move on.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14505	Fri 03/01/13 06:19 PM
He maybe real, only you could know for sure, by how his communication goes with you. Just trust your own judgement on that.

OkiHeadDoctor Joined Wed 12/19/12 Posts: 103	Sat 03/02/13 01:54 AM
If you are judging new people by past people's mistakes you are unready for a good relationship. Talk to him more, get the skinny, maybe you got lucky and don't know it. Maybe he is full of it. Time will tell. Not taking anything away from everyone's input, but this is the straightest gouge up in here. It is possible to have & find e-love @ first sight - just not likely. Pessimist via life experiences.