Hi. Plz leave your message if any1 interested. Thanks

is this about love or money

I am disabled too so no question of money. Only true love.

IF you are disabled as you say, then why isn't it specified on your profile?

Sorry for dat. I will update my profile now.

Ummmm...sorry, but I have to stick my nose in here.
Why do you think that if you're disabled, you must only date other disabled people? I'm just curious.

Coz in todays world only a disable person will understand the situation of other disabled person.

Out true I know of many people who would date have a relationship with a person with a disability. Not everyone is shallow.

May be, but i was not lucky. I am afraid of taking 2nd chance nw, coz its hurts very badly.

does any one say welcome any more?

Thanks kim

Yes Kim...thanks for reminding us.
Welcome hun. *kiss on yeer noze and a great big hug*

I can understand how your experiences may have led you to those beliefs, and my heart hurts for you.
Trust me though that not eveyone is like that.
Check out this link
http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/

This man is married to a beautiful woman and they just had a son. In order to believe that you deserve a smiliar love, you need to start with YOU. You are an amazing human being and are capable of giving so much.

Mayhap it's because I have a brother with a disability, and because I spent my career in caring for people recovering from traumatic injuries that result in chronic disabilities, but I always look at the person from the inside out, not the outside in.

Change your perceptions...cultivate a spirit of positivity and peace and love, and you will find a terrific mate where your primary criteria in searching for her was NOT her level of physical ability, but her level of love.

Hi. Having something in common is a good thing. Being upfront from the get go is commendable.

Thanks ruth74 for the link... If i have sweet people like u arround me may be one day i can change my perception. Hope ur brother is fine and in good health.

Welcome to the site. I hope you find what you are looking for.

Thanks Metalwing. Hoping atleast this site is lucky for me.

CVictor,
Welcome to mingle!
My dear,pain/hurt/disappointment from a breakup is NOT restricted to only disabled people alone!
But,
It all starts with YOU! Building confidence within you,accept all as is,have faith in self and dont lose hope,believe in yourself=Love yourself and know that you DO deserve to be loved as much as the next person!
My best friend is disabled and a wheel chair user,shes 54yrs old,BUT,her man is as normal as they come and,he treats her like a woman should be treated!
So,please,dont take it that you should date a disabled girl-she can be as mean as a non disabled,or as sweet and loving as any other!

It all depends on the person,who she is inside!

Solong as you indicate it in your profile that you have a disability,dont mimit yourself! I mean,i've dated a disabled man before....we didnt work out(because of other reasons),but we are good friends now!

Goodluck to you!

Welcome!

Why should someone have to disclose that they have a disability on their profile? Would you put a medical condition or other information that's very personal on your profile? What's wrong with just getting to know someone as a person first before you start judging them about that stuff?

I agree with u Tawstrat. May be some will feel uncomfortable to disclose their disability. But me i am totally fine with it. I am a disabled person and honestly it will be better to make it clear from 1st.