Topic: how to kiss?
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Fri 04/19/13 08:03 PM

Ok,kartagane...but it shuld be performed well.....i know it comes naturally.....but if u strt licking her like a cannibal ,......it wont be good.......thngs.. Ur right in 1 way..but i need some help


Good grief, licking her like a cannibal would be about as far away from natural as you could get.

Are your lips separate from your body or something? Surely you can just go for it and learn as you go, virtually everyone of us did.

The first time I kissed a girl I was nervous as hell, and I am sure I pulled some sort of goldfish maneuver on her... but it is one of those things were in no time at all you feel your way through it. Of course kissing is an art in itself, and only by doing can you master it.

Nothing anyone says here will help you since no two people you will meet will most likely kiss alike and like the tango, it takes two.

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Sat 04/20/13 03:47 AM
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ok i got u....kartagane

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Sat 04/20/13 04:12 AM

love smitten
i m in love with a girl and when i imagine her coming closer to me and when she really come closer to me....i pull back......the reason is.......I DONT KNOW HOW TO KISS.....pleass somebody help me outembarassed

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Sat 04/20/13 04:16 AM

But..romeo...in porn..they do it out of lust...its not like smthng roamantic.....but still still thngs for ur idea


I thought that you said that you want to kiss her passionately?

Your problem seems to just be inhibitions and lack of experience. Most girls like kissing and think that it's romantic. Just do it. The passionate romantic part is doing it because you want to and not just because it's something that she expects like a bunch of flowers. She may not be very good at kissing either but if you want to romance this girl then you have to take the lead a bit. Be like a guy in one of those old movies if you like and tell her that you want to kiss her passionately. Don't worry about feeling a bit silly. It's supposed to be fun and she will probably think that your shyness is cute.

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Sat 04/20/13 04:19 AM
Edited by kdkarti2266 on Sat 04/20/13 04:25 AM
Kiss is one of the Romantic Scenes while you gave kiss to a girls first see her eyes for a moment because the eyes are the most power full for creating the Romantic mood after that slowly start to touching her lips in ur hand and in an smooth manner and another by using another hand win her cheese then she automatically come closer and her eyes become changes (Don't loose ur mind while touching her )after you may touch her lips by using ur lips the ur lips may close her lips the after u slightly suck their lips then after she will also do the same thing

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Sat 04/20/13 05:48 AM
*giggle* I had a couple of good chuckles over my morning coffee while reading this.
But Abe....I think I know why you are asking. I thought about kissing and in looking back that there were some fellows who just knocked me off my feet with one kiss, and others where I felt like I was being slimed.
You want to knock this lil' lady off her feet, right?
*smile*
I don't know what to tell you hunnybunch, except please don't slime her. noway

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Sat 04/20/13 06:07 AM
Edited by 1Cynderella on Sat 04/20/13 06:36 AM

Actually kissing should come quite natural if you are into the person you are with. It is not rocket science... you press your lips to theirs and go with it. I don't think there is anything that can be taught to it... it is something you feel not perform.


Just pucker up and blow....no...wait, that's how to whistle. noway


Yeah... whistle... that's it. biggrin

Sounds like someone needs lessons. flowers


No Kart, I think I've got this one ...laugh

Okay, Abesingh, here's my sage advice for you. flowerforyou

I think it's fairly obvious you care about this girl. I'm almost 100% positive that you have imagined kissing her in your mind. What you imagined you would do the first time you kissed this girl? DO THAT!

I think in our own minds we are free to imagine things with every ounce of emotion we feel going into it. In real life, we try to replicate that action, but let fear sift out some of the emotion. Don't let fear take the emotion out of your kiss. Allow her first kiss from you to show her exactly how you feel about her. If you can do that, you will not need to guide your kiss, it will guide you. happy

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Sat 04/20/13 06:21 AM
Just dont try to feel her up first!! that comes after the 2nd Kiss!!! noway drool oops

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Sat 04/20/13 08:37 AM
Tawtstrt...i luvd ur wrds ..u seem to vry experienced..thngs a lot for d awesome advice

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Sat 04/20/13 08:39 AM
Luvd it kdkarti...thngs a lot

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Sat 04/20/13 09:15 AM
Thanks...u ll get sum1 really awesome as u r...nice nd charming.....felt nice ....reading ur post

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Sat 04/20/13 09:19 AM
I liked it...nd it a lot true too....it gave me a lot of help...thngs..cynderella

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Sat 04/20/13 09:29 AM
I didnt get u...mikey

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Sat 04/20/13 09:52 AM
Edited by JDx216 on Sat 04/20/13 09:53 AM
But..romeo...in porn..they do it out of lust...its not like smthng roamantic.


I watched some when I was a teenager to observe the basics. I never mimicked their every move though lol. Still, it could help you get a start, as in having an idea of how to lean into it and begin. The rest will come naturally if you take it slow and respond to what she's doing. It's almost like a form of communication... just as you shouldn't yell over someone when they're trying to talk back to you, similarly, you should be slow and sensual enough to get an idea of how she likes it based on how she's responding to you. That is, if you're going for the "romantic" approach lol. The hardest part is starting, but after that it will come natural.

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Sat 04/20/13 03:17 PM
You have to start somewhere, just go for it.laugh

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Sat 04/20/13 05:04 PM
Dont be scared just do it lol

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Sat 04/20/13 05:11 PM
Okay, that's strange in this day and age you should have had kisses from at least your mother and maybe one on the forehead from your dad.

Start slow with putting your lips together and pressing to hers!

Granted if that prospect is scary then aim for the cheek!

Rule of thumb, no tongues on the first date, most girls will go yuck or pull back - same for guys I heard (someone close to me said that once after about 2 months going with this guy, they kissed passionately, well she did put the tongue in - the guy was surprised he did not know about those - he pull back but then said 'Wow that's knew - can we try that again?'

So, figure out where your relationship is and if you've never kissed her than try the Slow advice above - good luck!


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Sun 04/21/13 06:30 PM
Thngs jd

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Sun 04/21/13 06:32 PM
Ok...toddygirl...thngs for u wrds

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Sun 04/21/13 06:34 PM
Thngs ..clean bunny