Topic: I don't understand. :(
nixxierivers's photo
Tue 05/14/13 09:15 AM
Why do some people have to lie something about themselves? Couldn't they just tell the truth? I am always looking for the honest one, but I think I am fated with those who think that lying is a good form of loving. :(

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 05/14/13 09:20 AM
Nixxie, don't give up, when you find one like that they will be worth it.

I think lying comes from immaturity...but that's my opinion.

krupa's photo
Tue 05/14/13 09:21 AM
You have been here two days.....give it a chance.

I met a friggen awesome woman here.

Dani3082's photo
Tue 05/14/13 09:24 AM
Lying comes from insecurity and immaturity. U just met wrong ppl,the right one will come along :)

winrish's photo
Tue 05/14/13 09:34 AM
am trully aggree wid u........
i believe that truth creat trust and love b/w two people

ridewytepony's photo
Tue 05/14/13 10:27 AM

am trully aggree wid u........
i believe that truth creat trust and love b/w two people



Its definitely a insecurity or could be due to a very bad upbringing, you can be four years old
and be taught not to lie

Some its just a medical reason, more of a compulsive/ perpetual pattern.

They may feel shame and guilt for their actions but can not own up to their nature or mistakes

This would be common to those that have been unfaithful.

Some people may only lie about sex.

And some dont cheat or lie, we're out there!

Some only lie when they lie some only lie when their lips are moving..lol...whoa


MichelleLiane's photo
Tue 05/14/13 11:18 AM
I hope that you find what you are looking for. It just takes a little time and when you look into their eyes, the truth will be there. Just don't give up on love because it is there for the people that believe in it.

stevenct56's photo
Tue 05/14/13 11:45 AM
People tend to lie just to impress others. Or to keep certain things secret which could avoid something to get jeopardized.

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 05/14/13 01:46 PM

Why do some people have to lie something about themselves? Couldn't they just tell the truth? I am always looking for the honest one, but I think I am fated with those who think that lying is a good form of loving. :(


I have run into many liars Online but they don't fool me too quickly. I usually ask the right questions and they be Gone. laugh

leevice's photo
Wed 05/15/13 06:57 AM
why do you have to trusts?

mightymoe's photo
Wed 05/15/13 07:13 AM

Why do some people have to lie something about themselves? Couldn't they just tell the truth? I am always looking for the honest one, but I think I am fated with those who think that lying is a good form of loving. :(


the truth hurts peoples feelings, that's why everyone lies....

lwturkjr's photo
Wed 05/15/13 08:32 AM
Edited by lwturkjr on Wed 05/15/13 08:36 AM
i could try going through and explaining everything in my own way, but it would be easier just putting this link here, I feel it answers this question quite adequately

http://www.realsimple.com/work-life/life-strategies/truth-about-lying-00000000012669/index.html

gettinback2good's photo
Wed 05/15/13 03:33 PM
People that lie do so because they are immature, insecure and have low self-esteem. They feel like they aren't interesting or good enough, so they make things up to get or hold other's attention. They are also morons, because anyone with any sense or intelligence knows it isn't possible to keep up with all the **** they made up, the truth will always show itself at some point, and when it does they will be exposed as the nobody they tried to hide in the first place.

no photo
Wed 05/15/13 09:31 PM

Why do some people have to lie something about themselves? Couldn't they just tell the truth? I am always looking for the honest one, but I think I am fated with those who think that lying is a good form of loving. :(



And many more lies are coming!
There are so many of that same calibre here-especially since you are very new here!

Patience,patience,patience!