People are judging you? NO way!! I am shocked and appalled to think that grown-ups still act that way!!!

Here is the inside scoop. Ignore them. You are on a public forum, not safe in your mother's arms. Any thing you say or do, ( post or on your profile ) can and will be used against you. If you do not like it, or get tired of it, block them. It is either that or get thicker skin, and stand up for yourself. And for Pete's sake try and not take everything so personally. ( Unless it is against Mingle Policy, then report them. )

Not every one on this planet will like you, or me for that matter, and thank goodness. I would get bored to pieces if everyone was like me.

I'm sorry... I thought we are in a beauty pageant, and you are one of the contestant?

Hahaha cheer up! ignore them.

The bigger question here is why does everyone judge everyone else, it's human nature you might see a homeless person and judge them, but you don't ask yourself what got them in this situation? what happened to make that person the person they are? it could have been anything you don't know, but you will make a judgement based off appearence.

Like i said i think it is human nature to judge why is it human nature? well at some point during human evolution it might have become necessary for our survival to look at people and judge them, or maybe not honestly it doesn't matter what you think about someone or how you judge them unless you're willing to talk to and get to know them and learn why they act the way they do no one should have any right to judge anyone, granted that doesn't stop people from judging other people

Hi Kiddo,

If you hang in there you will get use to mingle and mingle will get use to you. There's a lot of different personalities on here and the more that grows I think the better. The private stuff I would put on the shelf till you decide who gets to know you and who doesn't. Carving your name into the mingle tree is done through posting on threads and in time that will make more sense too. Plus you've got good "Mods" here watching your back to make sure you don't get burnt in public.

It's a cool place you can make your own according to you if you take the time to invest in voicing yourself in different conversations.

To be honest it's different than any other hangout I've ever been in and not always my type of crowd, but there's that something somewhere sometime special moment or thing that happens that gives me deeper insight to someone else that I would have missed out on by not being here. And after being here so long I think I would miss that.

Hopefully for you there will be happy days ahead on mingle and it will become home as it has done so for many of us.

So irrelevant that you created a thread about it.

Take that!

why waste your time and energy worrying about what others think of you, be yourself and if they don't like it OhTheFu*kWell. "Two tears in a bucket, fu*k it!"

You do it, (judge) I do it, we all do it.

It’s part of the rational we use to figure out if someone is worth our time or not. It is at the very basic core of how we choose our friends, our lovers and yes, our enemies. There’s no reason to get in a twist over it, we cannot appeal to everyone. Just move on to more positive people…simple.

Spot on as usual Fear.