At the end of the day both partners mind should be on the same level no matter the ages 70% of the time its not when the man is younger

perfect!! waste of vocabulary....

I would think that its USUALLY ( not always )going to be a serious mismatch

since women USUALLY will mature quicker than men,,,,most older women/younger men relationships probably wont endure the long haul past the initial taboo stage,,,,

of course, if the woman and man are at the same EMOTIONAL MATURITY level,, anything is possible

calm down - fact is granny could be pretty dangerous with her registered hands

I think older women are tried by youngr men jst fr one night stands nt relationships..

I think that should read older women are tired OF younger men who pester them for one night stands


closer to the truth

I love older woman!

Im48 my grl is 22

I'm actually looking to date an older women around 30 years of age :)

This may slip a little off topic here.

Just some observations,things I've noticed over the years. Most young men don't seem to have a problem dating older women. Not to many years ago young women were more interested in older men than younger men. They saw younger men as to immature. It seems now as more time goes by, A lot of young women now are more immature than they were just ten yrs ago.

I've noticed it myself. I'm a child of the 60's and 70's. I can still remember how mature young boys and girls were then. Compared to the ones now,I'm not sure what would make an older man want to date a younger woman,"Now". I can actually understand what a young man sees in a woman 30 to 45 maybe. But, In recent months, I've had a change of heart. I can't see why a man of lets say 45 to 50 would want to date a woman of 28 to 38. At least not in this day and time.

I don't mean to step on any ones toes here. But I have noticed that in a lot of women,not all,but a lot,the maturity level has dropped. They use to say that when a woman hit 18 she was as mature as she was ever going to be. It's not that way anymore in a lot of cases. Could that be why "some" older women are attracted to younger guys? Could it be the times we live in? So many young "kids" that have practically raised themselves with nothing, but a TV or video game to teach them how to be mature? And doing a mediocre job at best?

I know. Little off topic. Something to think about though.

I keep thinking that if a young man wants a much older woman, then he is merely looking for a sugar mamma.

that's probably true as often for younger women looking for older men


and not true as often for both. some just like those who are older, but I think it is more of the exception than the rule.

age is simply a number! and when theres a connection between 2 people and both are into one another and things seem right, those #'s no longer exsist! it is wat it is!

absolutley sweetie! nothin wrong with that at all!

right on!

im 44 missus is 65 best woman heart of gold you want to try it before you knock it

Alf, 99% of the time, When you see a young guy after an older woman, It's for one reason. And one reason only. SEX. The young guy is looking for his Mrs Robinson. Teach me how to please a woman. It's that simple.

It's something,as far as I know,most every young man did. And still does. Including me.For me it was summer of 77. It's one of those things that most young guys never forget.

Ya well, I dated younger because I have found that younger men are less likely to have ED issues. That is the down and dirty truth.

And some younger women are fine about dating an older man. In fact, I've met a few that looked way younger than their age. I'm not just saying that, either. I also don't mean that they were preened to death. It was normally down to genetics in their family. Sure, he may have had plastic surgery, but that's hardly anything to worry about, when you want a relationship with them. Anyway, back to my main point, not all women want to date younger men. Just like not all men want to date a younger woman. Heard about some TV show named 'Cougar Town'. I don't watch it, but I gaurantee it's probably influenced even more young men to want older women, but I hardly watch "girly" show's (I dress like a woman, but I think like a man)