Topic: sex important
licklylick's photo
Sat 09/14/13 07:09 PM
making love is very important in a relationship with someone you feel affection for. If you have intimate affection for a person you would want to make love to that person. Be honest with yourself...if any human is in a relationship with another and they don't get any sex from that person...they will find it else where and/or leave you. if your fooling yourself thinking you can have a relationship without sex then you are really living in your dreams. its not the only thing that keeps a couple together but its one of them and is very important. you may go a year or so without but you will subside. its natural for us humans so have sex...denying that is only neglecting yourself...

TheShadow's photo
Sat 09/14/13 07:53 PM

you may not like it but yes. All men think about and want sex; difference is classy or slim.Do you realy think he cares about the flower or the brownie point for getting you one.


If you really think that way, what's the point of being here then other then conversation.

afriQueen22's photo
Sat 09/14/13 09:55 PM
You don't have to sleep with everyone you date, but since no.10 on the questions I ask myself before agreeing to pursue a relationship with someone is, "Would I sleep with him?", things generally lead there. The reason why I don't date my male friends is because I'm not attracted to them and have no desire to sleep with them.
In short, I wouldn't date a guy I had no intention of sleeping with.

metalwing's photo
Sat 09/14/13 10:00 PM

I disagree, Im friends with tons of females, that I don't sleep & Im not gay


Yep! Me too. Friends are friends.

licklylick's photo
Sat 09/14/13 10:04 PM


I disagree, Im friends with tons of females, that I don't sleep & Im not gay


Yep! Me too. Friends are friends.



the topic is not about having sex with friends...

doug2000's photo
Sat 09/14/13 10:18 PM
No I do not think it's important to have sex with every the relationship but it sure is nice to have it

no photo
Sat 09/14/13 11:35 PM
My former girlfriend wanted in every day, sometimes more than once.

One of the reasons she divorced her husband was because he wasn't satisfying her. She was lucky to get it once a week with him, and sometimes she'd have to go much longer. She tried to get him interested in sex, but he was indifferent about it. She'd lie in bed naked with lights on & he couldn't care less. With me, she got it when she wanted it.

Valcronis's photo
Sat 09/14/13 11:46 PM
Sex isn't important in the beginning of a relationship. Usually I found it pretty nice though when I was single to not really have to work for it. But in a true relationship sex is a highly intimate situation where two people are on an equal base. Both parties can look each other in the eyes, and know that what they are doing isn't a carnal desire, but one based on emotional desire. One to make sure the other is satisfied to the fullest.

I believe sex is important. It's a sign of commitment of the relationship based on emotional and physical desires rolled into one.

no photo
Sun 09/15/13 02:02 AM
U r right we must choose sleeping partner carefully. Apart good compatibilty u shud enjoy well while having sex

BrianLovesGuitar's photo
Sun 09/15/13 02:18 AM
Id have to say yes. If its reached the stage where you would consider it a 'relationship', then yes. Sex is a natural part of it, and I think that unless you are god fearing and wish to do everything by the book, ie no sex before marriage, then yes

hamza212's photo
Sun 09/15/13 02:31 AM
everybody derserves having sex!

opeyemi5050's photo
Sun 09/15/13 04:13 AM
I wish I was a teddy bear, layin on your bed, so
everytime you cuddled it, you cuddled me
instead.

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Sun 09/15/13 05:49 AM
I think this question depends on who you are, we are all different and have different needs and desires, now finding. Someone who is compatable with you, now thats the tricky part :wink:

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Sun 09/15/13 06:29 AM

I think this question depends on who you are, we are all different and have different needs and desires, now finding. Someone who is compatable with you, now thats the tricky part :wink:

Yea I'm guessing if he is a dynamite in the sack then that's a plus lol

4evababy's photo
Sun 09/15/13 07:25 AM


I think this question depends on who you are, we are all different and have different needs and desires, now finding. Someone who is compatable with you, now thats the tricky part :wink:

Yea I'm guessing if he is a dynamite in the sack then that's a plus lol


whats that got to do with anything she just said? Lol

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Sun 09/15/13 07:34 AM



I think this question depends on who you are, we are all different and have different needs and desires, now finding. Someone who is compatable with you, now thats the tricky part :wink:

Yea I'm guessing if he is a dynamite in the sack then that's a plus lol


whats that got to do with anything she just said? Lol

Nothing just saying if he is dynamite in the sack then this question don't matter at all lol

4evababy's photo
Sun 09/15/13 08:09 AM
Sex is a bonus not a must between 2 ppl who really love each other and without love the sex part is just meaningless and degrading

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Sun 09/15/13 09:44 AM

Sex is a bonus not a must between 2 ppl who really love each other and without love the sex part is just meaningless and degrading


While I can love a woman & not have sex with her, I know I can't be in love with a woman who does not love sex and want it frequently.

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 09/15/13 09:58 AM

‎​do u think its a must u have sex in every relationship u engage?
I guess it depends on what you consider a "relationship". I have many non sexual relationships with men I love but am not in love with or physically attracted to. I have to have both love and physical attraction to enter into a romantic relationship with a man. When I am in a romantic relationship...then yes, it's my hope that there will be sex. Lots of hot steamy sex! drool :laughing:

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Sun 09/15/13 03:05 PM


‎​do u think its a must u have sex in every relationship u engage?
I guess it depends on what you consider a "relationship". I have many non sexual relationships with men I love but am not in love with or physically attracted to. I have to have both love and physical attraction to enter into a romantic relationship with a man. When I am in a romantic relationship...then yes, it's my hope that there will be sex. Lots of hot steamy sex! drool :laughing:

Nothing better than hot steamy sex! But throw in a pair handcuffs whip n chocolate sauce n it will spice it up bigsmile