Topic: big girls don't cry
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Tue 09/24/13 05:49 AM
i do cry wen am heart. i just get speacheless n tears roll down ma eyes n wen am done crying...OMG!! da pain iz all gone n i feel much better. is it childish??

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Tue 09/24/13 09:25 AM

i do cry wen am heart. i just get speacheless n tears roll down ma eyes n wen am done crying...OMG!! da pain iz all gone n i feel much better. is it childish??


No; its just a release of emotions. I have dated guys that cry when they get hurt too. We all deal with emotions in different ways. Myself; I just seem to bottle them up, so men think I am cold and heartless. Oh well; such is life.

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Tue 09/24/13 11:28 AM
Big girls do cry. It take a lot of hurt to make me cry but I have got emotional on serveral occasions. :cry:

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Tue 09/24/13 12:35 PM


i do cry wen am heart. i just get speacheless n tears roll down ma eyes n wen am done crying...OMG!! da pain iz all gone n i feel much better. is it childish??


No; its just a release of emotions. I have dated guys that cry when they get hurt too. We all deal with emotions in different ways. Myself; I just seem to bottle them up, so men think I am cold and heartless. Oh well; such is life.
true its emotion but i even cry over small matters. at times i don't want 2 cry but i fell 2 control maself.

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Tue 09/24/13 12:38 PM
its healthy to feel your feelings....so many stuff there feelings,,,,,then they get sick or dump them on another.......whats important is it the matching feeling for the situation and how strong the feeling is......have you ever witnessed someone talking about something sad or painful and see them smile or laugh..?? its called a gallows laugh or smile....its covers the pain,,, they are pushing it down......sometimes some will cover one feeling for another..........YOUR OKsmile2 .............

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Tue 09/24/13 12:39 PM

Big girls do cry. It take a lot of hurt to make me cry but I have got emotional on serveral occasions. :cry:
2 mi this means u can control yo emotions but i feel da opposite...lyk i can't control ma emotions.

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Tue 09/24/13 12:46 PM

its healthy to feel your feelings....so many stuff there feelings,,,,,then they get sick or dump them on another.......whats important is it the matching feeling for the situation and how strong the feeling is......have you ever witnessed someone talking about something sad or painful and see them smile or laugh..?? its called a gallows laugh or smile....its covers the pain,,, they are pushing it down......sometimes some will cover one feeling for another..........YOUR OKsmile2 .............
i used 2 think its stupid n childish coz ma mum says dats ma character since childhood. thx dia

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Wed 09/25/13 07:25 AM
real men don't cry they drink when in pain and think of what makes them feel better again

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Fri 09/27/13 01:22 PM

real men don't cry they drink when in pain and think of what makes them feel better again

sorry am a woman...not man

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Fri 09/27/13 01:27 PM

real men don't cry they drink when in pain and think of what makes them feel better again


I could not disagree with you more.
I don't think drinking to take the pain away makes a man a real man, I think if he is able to express his feelings and face the situation ,that makes him a real man.
Real men do cry.