Topic: could use a rating
madex's photo
Mon 10/21/13 09:12 PM
positive and negative feedback welcome..
thank you

no photo
Mon 10/21/13 09:51 PM
dude why are you on here? With a profile and pics like that you could have your way with any chick you want imo haha

madex's photo
Mon 10/21/13 10:22 PM
its actually harder as you think
i am usually at work or gym and events and girls dont feel comfortable approaching me , so i always get judge by the cover . my friends have told me dating sites are better because some girls take the chance and will get to know me first.

or at least i am hoping for lol

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 10/22/13 03:36 AM

its actually harder as you think
i am usually at work or gym and events and girls dont feel comfortable approaching me , so i always get judge by the cover . my friends have told me dating sites are better because some girls take the chance and will get to know me first.

or at least i am hoping for lol

Why should girls approach you??? Why don't you approach a girl yourself?
You're in marketing so you should know how to sell yourself, provided you know how you want to sell it (presentation) and know your target group's wants and needs.
Right now you're trying to sell hot air (model pictures and showing off lots of six-pack). If that's what you want ... But I doubt it will get you a girl for a serious relationship.
Your presentation kind of tells me your self-absorbed: the first thing you show is your great body and the first thing you say is "I'm very fit"

"I always get judged by the cover": use personality to make the cover work for you!
Women don't want a cover for a partner, we want a real man!

no photo
Fri 10/25/13 09:02 AM
First you need a haircut. And then you need to delete some of your photos because I think they have a homoerotic look about them.

loovedoove's photo
Fri 10/25/13 09:59 AM
Madex

I am in no way agreeing with red6mist but you do need to rethink your profile and probably your profile name. Is it mad ex or is that your last name? Your profile name alone may scare some females away. By all means, be yourself, you know keep the hairstyle if it goes along with your personality. What I am saying just show more of your true personality within the writings of your profile, you know who you are from the heart. As far as pictures, you may want to delete the ones you have posed for and add some where you are living and interacting within you daily grind.

no photo
Fri 10/25/13 11:54 AM


its actually harder as you think
i am usually at work or gym and events and girls dont feel comfortable approaching me , so i always get judge by the cover . my friends have told me dating sites are better because some girls take the chance and will get to know me first.

or at least i am hoping for lol

Why should girls approach you??? Why don't you approach a girl yourself?
You're in marketing so you should know how to sell yourself, provided you know how you want to sell it (presentation) and know your target group's wants and needs.
Right now you're trying to sell hot air (model pictures and showing off lots of six-pack). If that's what you want ... But I doubt it will get you a girl for a serious relationship.
Your presentation kind of tells me your self-absorbed: the first thing you show is your great body and the first thing you say is "I'm very fit"

"I always get judged by the cover": use personality to make the cover work for you!
Women don't want a cover for a partner, we want a real man!



For some reason, guys now want the woman to make the first move, it's weird to me.

110184's photo
Sat 10/26/13 11:54 AM

its actually harder as you think
i am usually at work or gym and events and girls dont feel comfortable approaching me , so i always get judge by the cover . my friends have told me dating sites are better because some girls take the chance and will get to know me first.

or at least i am hoping for lol
why should girls approach you, have u forgotten you are the man

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/26/13 12:16 PM
I had to pay $5 each for mine. Actually, I think redlace charged me $10.

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 10/26/13 01:00 PM
Ok if you delete the last line of your profile the text isn't too bad.

I agree with the suggestion you may have picked a poor screen name. Most desirable women do not want to deal with Ex's on any level and a mad one would warrant a pass from many.

I can't believe I am saying this but you need to take down most of your pictures. They are sending a conflicting message to what your text says.

It is fine to have a rockin body that I am sure came from consistent hard work and probably good genetics. Hopefully not any OCD or drugs but lets face it few folks want to believe people really have that much personal discipline so you are swimming upstream against that so I would not over advertise certain assets until people get a chance to know the person who is smiling, articulate, professional first.

I get that someone and some places the photos you have are very good marketing but not on a date site where you don't want to be seen as only a hot body that will fade or be more interested in selling sports gear than being a friend, partner,or parent.

And like it or not most women over 21 are at least thinking about Daddy potential and between the long hair and teenage body it is hard to think you are ready for more than a playmate when the pictures contradict your words.

I would encourage you not to give up but maybe fine tune your presentation. Good Luck. Welcome to Mingle.

unsure's photo
Sat 10/26/13 03:11 PM
I think you need to put what you are looking for in a lady.
I will say one thing, when I first seen your pictures I thought, wow he is good eye candy but women are going to be afraid to approach him because he is to handsome!
I mean,God made good looking men and then God made men that are way to good looking...that would be you!
Welcome to Mingle and I hope you find what you are looking for!!!

madex's photo
Thu 10/31/13 01:23 AM
thanks guys for the feedback. i realised online dating is not for me ..
good luck everyone.