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who would date a married man and who would not
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Why would anyone want to be 2nd?
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I was thinking more of sloppy seconds, too....gross.....
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No way. You can date a man/men just for having a good time together, but the risk of falling in love and getting nowhere because he's married, is too big a risk for me to take.
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No way, not today, not tomorrow, not next year or ever!
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WOW!!! I will give "btvs..." props for being so bold as to ask that question. Now, BT, here are the rules. You ever notice how many women get "outed" in extramarital relations versus men? Why is that? Trust me, the ladies here know that answer, and so do you. Think about it. And for just a subtle ear-whisper to you. A married man/woman should always seek another married man/woman for relations outside of their marriage. For the ladies who will want to castrate me for such advice...it was a woman who made me aware of that little gem of advice.
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who would date a married man ... A foolish person ... and who would not A wise person |
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WOW!!! I will give "btvs..." props for being so bold as to ask that question. Now, BT, here are the rules. You ever notice how many women get "outed" in extramarital relations versus men? Why is that? Trust me, the ladies here know that answer, and so do you. Think about it. And for just a subtle ear-whisper to you. A married man/woman should always seek another married man/woman for relations outside of their marriage. For the ladies who will want to castrate me for such advice...it was a woman who made me aware of that little gem of advice. To avoid complications, I think it is sound advice. However, if the two happen to fall in love, or their secret gets out, the complications might be a lot worse! As in two marriages falling apart and four people really upset. |
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Its totally wrong LOL
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Edited by
bonjour469
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Tue 10/29/13 12:13 PM
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Edited by
msharmony
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Tue 10/29/13 12:16 PM
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it entirely depends
if he is married, as in going home to a wife, sharing a home with a wife, saying he loves his wife, 'sneaking' around on his wife NO if he is married, as in , never bothered to get divorced, living separately from a wife who dates or is in a relationship, having nothing else to do with a wife except their names on a paper yes time since last with that person would matter too,, married or not,, |
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I guess I don't fully understand the purpose of dating married people....there are tons of single people out there, why bother with someone who is already married?
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To avoid complications, I think it is sound advice. However, if the two happen to fall in love, or their secret gets out, the complications might be a lot worse! As in two marriages falling apart and four people really upset. Also if there are children involved... Life is difficult enough and complex enough without anyone willingly putting themselves in a situation that can only result in lots and lots of tears, hurt and remorse. I think the more responsible and mature person will deal with the relationship they have and if it's over, then deal with that before looking elsewhere to satisfy their needs. Don't we all want to be someone's number 1 and not share our partner with other(s)? I know I do. jmo |
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I guess I don't fully understand the purpose of dating married people....there are tons of single people out there, why bother with someone who is already married? depends upon when one finds out,, as in the case of someone who has been single in reality for over a year or two but not divorced living on their own,, etc,, may not find a reason to bring it up unless or until things were 'serious' |
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it entirely depends if he is married, as in going home to a wife, sharing a home with a wife, saying he loves his wife, 'sneaking' around on his wife NO if he is married, as in , never bothered to get divorced, living separately from a wife who dates or is in a relationship, having nothing else to do with a wife except their names on a paper yes time since last with that person would matter too,, married or not,, If the person never bothered to get a divorce, then perhaps the person is too foolish to take a chance on. |
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it entirely depends if he is married, as in going home to a wife, sharing a home with a wife, saying he loves his wife, 'sneaking' around on his wife NO if he is married, as in , never bothered to get divorced, living separately from a wife who dates or is in a relationship, having nothing else to do with a wife except their names on a paper yes time since last with that person would matter too,, married or not,, If the person never bothered to get a divorce, then perhaps the person is too foolish to take a chance on. The kitten-eater speaks truth here....again. |
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it entirely depends if he is married, as in going home to a wife, sharing a home with a wife, saying he loves his wife, 'sneaking' around on his wife NO if he is married, as in , never bothered to get divorced, living separately from a wife who dates or is in a relationship, having nothing else to do with a wife except their names on a paper yes time since last with that person would matter too,, married or not,, If the person never bothered to get a divorce, then perhaps the person is too foolish to take a chance on. I wouldn't be the one to judge I split from my husband in 1995, neither of us planned to be remarried and both were struggling so we didn't bother with the legaliies we lived apart from that time on, but didn't legally divorce for 9 ears, when I became clear to me I was in a relationship that was headed towards marriage,,, |
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it entirely depends if he is married, as in going home to a wife, sharing a home with a wife, saying he loves his wife, 'sneaking' around on his wife NO if he is married, as in , never bothered to get divorced, living separately from a wife who dates or is in a relationship, having nothing else to do with a wife except their names on a paper yes time since last with that person would matter too,, married or not,, If the person never bothered to get a divorce, then perhaps the person is too foolish to take a chance on. I wouldn't be the one to judge I split from my husband in 1995, neither of us planned to be remarried and both were struggling so we didn't bother with the legaliies we lived apart from that time on, but didn't legally divorce for 9 ears, when I became clear to me I was in a relationship that was headed towards marriage,,, My parents were separated for about that long, but neither dated the entire time. Then my mother met my late stepfather and she filed for divorce. |
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it entirely depends if he is married, as in going home to a wife, sharing a home with a wife, saying he loves his wife, 'sneaking' around on his wife NO if he is married, as in , never bothered to get divorced, living separately from a wife who dates or is in a relationship, having nothing else to do with a wife except their names on a paper yes time since last with that person would matter too,, married or not,, If the person never bothered to get a divorce, then perhaps the person is too foolish to take a chance on. I wouldn't be the one to judge I split from my husband in 1995, neither of us planned to be remarried and both were struggling so we didn't bother with the legaliies we lived apart from that time on, but didn't legally divorce for 9 ears, when I became clear to me I was in a relationship that was headed towards marriage,,, My parents were separated for about that long, but neither dated the entire time. Then my mother met my late stepfather and she filed for divorce. yeah, that's awesome we dated,, lol and then I met my second husband and we divorced |
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Dating someone who is married and messes around is picking your poison.
Pretty much goes for some one too lazy or selfish to file for a legal separation or divorce. People who tell me that "legalities" just are not that important tells me my rights are not that important and don't rate real high with me. Mostly because you know darn good an well their rights always matter to them. I can't say how it goes in other countries but in the USA all you have to do is go to the local magistrate and declare that you are indigent and you can file your own simple paperwork for a divorce for free. The only exception to that is if you don't want to, know how to, or have documentation that doing so is a danger to you then you have to have it done by publication. (It doesn't matter if it is some small town no name freebie for a few bucks or the cover of the New York Times.) Otherwise it is less than $50. My dignity is worth more than that. And I am sorry but there is no person on this earth that is worth me paying their way out of one marriage to marry me. Be enough of an adult to clean up your own mess and come to me free and clear or keep stepping. |
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