Topic: The Art of Seduction
panchovanilla's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:01 PM

Suddenly, I'm looking forward to next winter.
Just gonna find me a nice chunk of ice,
Climb onit,
And push out into the arcti ocean.
I fond fairwell from this old fart.waving


Had a beautiful day for granny's sendoff.

panchovanilla's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:04 PM

Oh gawd...I'm a fossil too....ughhhhhh

Some old bones are hawt.drool waving

no photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:19 PM


Oh gawd...I'm a fossil too....ughhhhhh

Some old bones are hawt.drool waving


blushing flowers smile2
Thank you ((((Pancho)))):heart:




Esmeralda08757's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:25 PM


Lake, you might be on to something.

I'm the eternal optimist, I guess.

This guy has told me that he has been with women who did not know what a penis looked like because they only had sex with their husbands in the dark. (I told this to my ex, who is around the same age. He just shook his head and said, "My generation.")

Now, our friend Q always refers to me as a "hippy chick". So I think he wants me to enlighten him.



I know! You're the Woodstock generation, flower child, free love and hippies!

Maybe that's his problem. He grew of age with just hey mama, let's get it on, turn on and tune in, and no effort on his part, because it was all groovy, man, just be, don't let the establishment tell ya nothing, mama!


That was my generation, not his. His was no sex until marriage or if you do, don't tell anyone. My generation was rebelling against all that.

Gioia63's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:32 PM
It's easy to joke about this subject. But, it's really quite complicated.

It's difficult to define what makes a person seductive. It's even more difficult to state exact actions that are seductive.

If Nathan Fillion is staring into my eyes and grinning boyishly, it's seductive. If Don Knotts does the same, not so much.

laugh

But, it's not just about looks. For example, my mother was always besotted by Telly Savalas, NOT a traditionally handsome man.

It's that elusive chemistry. Without that, nothing a person does is going feel seductive.

JMHO

lake17's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:39 PM
How much older is he? He came of age in the 50's, and you did in the 60's?

How is he at conversation about it?

lake17's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:41 PM

It's easy to joke about this subject. But, it's really quite complicated.

It's difficult to define what makes a person seductive. It's even more difficult to state exact actions that are seductive.

If Nathan Fillion is staring into my eyes and grinning boyishly, it's seductive. If Don Knotts does the same, not so much.

laugh

But, it's not just about looks. For example, my mother was always besotted by Telly Savalas, NOT a traditionally handsome man.

It's that elusive chemistry. Without that, nothing a person does is going feel seductive.

JMHO


Speaking of not traditionally handsome, is admitting that if it was Danny Kaye, if he were still alive and in his prime, I'd be all besotted?


I gotta stop watching old movies.

Esmeralda08757's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:42 PM
Hi there G.

To my mind there are two types of men that attract me. One, I feel a connection right away. The other kind of grows on you. I suspect that this one might be the latter.

My ex has great hair. He told me that if he ever started to go bald he would shave his head. But that is not very like to happen.

Now this guy has amazing blue eyes. But he has this awful comb over. I'm really tempted to take a razor to his head.

lake17's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:44 PM
Will he let you run your fingers through it? or does he shy away when you get near that combover?

Esmeralda08757's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:45 PM

How much older is he? He came of age in the 50's, and you did in the 60's?

How is he at conversation about it?


He is seven years older, so yes he came of age in the 50's and I did in the 60's. The weird thing is that we are both from the same area. My ex is nine years older but I always felt like he identified more with my generation than his own.

I think we have talked about it online quite a bit but so far have only met in person once. He admits that he is pretty clueless when it comes to the opposite sex.

Esmeralda08757's photo
Wed 05/28/14 12:47 PM

Will he let you run your fingers through it? or does he shy away when you get near that combover?


I haven't tried that yet. We'll see what happens at our next meeeting. If there is one.

stan_147's photo
Wed 05/28/14 01:28 PM
It's an art?

Why didn't I get THAT memo? frustratedfrustrated

lake17's photo
Wed 05/28/14 01:31 PM
Evidently, you weren't the only who didn't.

I read an article awhile ago about a woman in France who was starting a seduction class for men.

I need to Google it and see if I can find it again.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Wed 05/28/14 01:41 PM
*laughing* Oh hun, I've just bought some new lacey underwear. You might wanna come in and check it out ;)


Singlelifeseasy's photo
Wed 05/28/14 02:11 PM


Okkkk... I am going to go..
. POKE MY EYES OUT WITH A SHARP STICK NOW..winking .. old people having sex.ill

.. how am I ever going to get that visualslaphead out of my head..frustrated


Obviously you have no idea how many twenty and thirty somethings think you are a fossilohwell ....Ignorance is bliss?....Try a higher wattage over your bathroom mirror hot stuff....laugh laugh


Tee hee this is worth repeating.happy

gnorance is bliss?....Try a higher wattage over your bathroom mirror hot stuff....laugh laugh
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no photo
Wed 05/28/14 02:30 PM
depends on the canvas.

no photo
Wed 05/28/14 02:31 PM
Would finger painting be considered art?

Esmeralda08757's photo
Wed 05/28/14 02:35 PM

Would finger painting be considered art?


This reminds me of something that I did when I was in my thirties.

Esmeralda08757's photo
Wed 05/28/14 02:35 PM

Evidently, you weren't the only who didn't.

I read an article awhile ago about a woman in France who was starting a seduction class for men.

I need to Google it and see if I can find it again.


Lake, please do Google it. I need ideas.

Singlelifeseasy's photo
Wed 05/28/14 03:37 PM
Hey E,
Are you going to teach him anything?happy