Well, obviously that implies that there's something wrong about it otherwise.

We've got SweetestGirl saying something about how women shouldn't try to seduce men and I assume that she's talking about before a relationship has been established. What about what I'm talking about where you've got someone telling you that it's just sex and not a relationship? When is the relationship established? People aren't going to agree about that on here but if I say that as far as I'm concerned it starts from when you become lovers and there's likely to be some seduction involved there, the relationship isn't even getting off the ground without it.

A lot of people clearly think that there's something wrong with seduction because it's about getting your way with someone and it's not necessary if they're already consenting. That's what I think about when people talk about seduction. It can be fun but maybe I don't want some woman saying in the morning that I seduced her and complaining that I took advantage of her or trying to say that it wasn't really what she wanted to do and that it doesn't mean that she wants to get involved. I've got no personal problem with it myself but I take responsibility for my actions and I'm not the one saying that men will think less of a woman if she does it.

Isn't the purpose of romancing,
SEDUCTION ?

just a few thoughts on the subject of being seduced

just give him the look from across the room

It could be the breathy voice spoken right in his ear about what you want to do.

it's foreplay and it's HAWT...

...I'm talking about two adults who want to indulge in some hot, erotic acts of seduction because they know or hope it will lead to having intercourse...or banging...or screwing...or balling...or humping....or what ever else anyone wants to call it...

Brought the OP along for reference...She is biotching about lack of romance, lumping it together with the art of seduction, and asking a question about how to improve (instill) that art in someone she feels is clueless....Some went lighthearted with their responses, some did not...When I talk about seduction (and romance), I am talking about my personal feelings...I like to be seduced and I like to seduce...I am referring to seduction between two consenting adults who are in complete control of their faculties ..I'm not talking about forced sex, sex with minors, sex with people under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol, or sex with the mentally challenged ...I'm talking about two adults who want to indulge in some hot, erotic acts of seduction because they know or hope it will lead to having intercourse...or banging...or screwing...or balling...or humping....or what ever else anyone wants to call it...This is not high school and I'm pretty sure the virgins are covering their ears and humming loudly....In my world, sex is a fabulous thing and foreplay, romance, and seduction all serve to make a fabulous thing even better...Vote yes for The Art of Seduction.....

Oh, come on. Saying that it was just because you were drunk is as bad as saying that you were seduced. You trying to tell me that I can't offer a lady a drink now or what? I'm just supposed to date teatotalers, am I?

I can see where we differ on this. For me sex is this mad crazy thing and it's about getting freaky and not thinking about it in some clinical manner. The seduction is persuasion and somewhat coercive. A person may or may or may not feel pressured by it. They may or may not act impulsively but sexual arousal is an impulse and it isn't just about foreplay to keep things interesting but about trying to get someone to have sex with you. It's about giving them signals that that's what you want and different people go at different paces. You can find yourself in a situation where you're thinking, "This is mad" and you aren't that sure about it but you have someone seducing you by making you feel like a million dollars and that they really want you.

But she seems a bit nutty you say. She's going through the menopause. She has issues. She's seeing a shrink. She's in an emotional state and isn't entirely in control of her faculties. She used me. Well, maybe I wasn't in control of my faculties either when I had sex with that woman. I failed to resist temptation and I didn't really see any harm in it. Her being a nymphomaniac made it more enjoyable, if anything. The sex I mean. I'm actually one of those guys that does like touching and not having them just lying there like a dead horse. You make a judgement about whether someone is mentally competent by seeing if they are functioning at the particular time. I don't necessarily consider it to count against her if a woman is a bit nutty. It certainly doesn't bother me if she likes to party a bit. Something like one in three people have had mental health problems in their lives and that's just the ones that want to admit it. Sometimes sex is an irresponsible sort of thing. I have no clue how a relationship's going to work out or if a woman is going to get all weird on me when we become romantically involved. I can make an educated guess about it I suppose but at the end of the day I'll have sex with her if I want to and worry about that later. Anyone can go nuts on you. I know a guy that had a wonderful wife and family and he got depressed and became an alcoholic for no apparent reason and walked out on them.

Now Miley Cyrus might think that folks over forty aren't interested in sex

What you don't seem to understand is I'm not trying to tell you anything Tawt...Run your life any old way you like...Do whatever works for you babe ....I'm talking about MY life and MY take on seduction....And "trying" is relative...Some have to try harder than others, know what I mean?