Topic: things u dont do in a relationship
no1phD's photo
Wed 06/25/14 08:49 AM
whatever you do.. do not out of anger!!.. say to the other person.

.. YOUR SUCH A" LOSER"...

.. they don't tend to get over that one quickly..hmm.. ouch..frustrated

dcastelmissy's photo
Wed 06/25/14 08:22 PM
Never use the person for selfish gain whether emotional, physical, or monetary gain. JMHO

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Wed 06/25/14 08:24 PM

Joint bank accounts.... noway
yup

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Wed 06/25/14 08:25 PM
sleeping with his best friend?noway laugh

carteblanc's photo
Wed 06/25/14 08:29 PM

sleeping with his best friend?noway laugh


Ouch, that would be a double whammy for him.. laugh

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Thu 06/26/14 05:26 AM

what are things to void in a relationship


1) Bladders whenever necessary.
2) Checks w/o proper ID to cash.
3) Contracts with arbitration clauses.

That's all I can think of right off the top of my head... tongue2

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:30 AM
Abstinence... :angel:

mzmitzi's photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:51 AM
Lol...clever girl! I thought I read that wrong!!!

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Thu 06/26/14 06:07 AM

what are things to void in a relationship


Obsessing ...Too much of anything too soon is huge mistake...I think everyone goes through the obsession phase in the beginning, but hey, slow it down and breath!...You don't have to share everything, every minute of every day and every night!...Falling in love does not negate the need for balance...

Negativity ...Being down all the time, being critical of everyone and every thing...Angst and pessimism are big turn offs for most people...

Possessiveness ...Cutting your partner off from friends and activities previously enjoyed...Think!... They were doing all these things when they met you, yet they were still available and open to finding love with you!!...Let the relationship find its own equilibrium...Don't fence me in!...

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 06/26/14 08:08 AM


what are things to void in a relationship


Obsessing ...Too much of anything too soon is huge mistake...I think everyone goes through the obsession phase in the beginning, but hey, slow it down and breath!...You don't have to share everything, every minute of every day and every night!...Falling in love does not negate the need for balance...

Negativity ...Being down all the time, being critical of everyone and every thing...Angst and pessimism are big turn offs for most people...

Possessiveness ...Cutting your partner off from friends and activities previously enjoyed...Think!... They were doing all these things when they met you, yet they were still available and open to finding love with you!!...Let the relationship find its own equilibrium...Don't fence me in!...


:heart: Agreed with everything said. Especially the last one. Since we all more or less all have negative thoughts and create infatuations in the beginning. (((((((((Leigh))))))))) bigsmile smitten flowers

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Thu 06/26/14 07:39 PM
Seeing to much of each other, not making time for each other. Find the right balance

no1phD's photo
Thu 06/26/14 07:49 PM
Hmm. make eye contact... avoid eye contact at all cost...lol

Goofball73's photo
Thu 06/26/14 08:59 PM


what are things to void in a relationship


1) Bladders whenever necessary.
2) Checks w/o proper ID to cash.
3) Contracts with arbitration clauses.

That's all I can think of right off the top of my head... tongue2


Marry me. :tongue: laugh

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 06/26/14 09:29 PM
Never think that being a step-parent means anything. It is a non-status position and you have no rights unless a judge lets you adopt the kids.

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/26/14 09:32 PM

Never think that being a step-parent means anything. It is a non-status position and you have no rights unless a judge lets you adopt the kids.


what scared

no1phD's photo
Thu 06/26/14 10:04 PM
well I'm starting to think..
don't have them commenting on the same social site your on ..laugh laugh : rofl :banana: frustrated

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 06/26/14 10:16 PM
Edited by isaac_dede on Thu 06/26/14 10:18 PM

Never think that being a step-parent means anything. It is a non-status position and you have no rights unless a judge lets you adopt the kids.


Sorry i have to disagree with this wholeheartedly, my step-dad took on my mom's 8 kids, 5 of which were still living at home, plus he had two of his own, this was 25 years ago, he actually maintained a relationship/friendship with my biological dad, who still saw us, and was still our dad.

The courts may not recognize it, but because of my step-dad's character even though I don't call him dad, he is definitely a father. I think the character you display as a step-parent will mean something to kids, they may not realize it right away, but when they mature they will realize how much that step-parent actually means.

ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 06/26/14 10:22 PM
"things u dont do in a relationship "
very simple guys and girls
all of you say the right things but to sum it up I'd simply say you don't do to others what you don't want others do to you!!!

no1phD's photo
Thu 06/26/14 10:34 PM
Soo. no more backdoor sex with her then..lol..jk..

jacktrades's photo
Thu 06/26/14 11:11 PM
Lying and taking someone for granted.