Topic: what if you fall in love with your best friend
sidpandey1121's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:32 PM
what if you fall in love with your best friend , even after knowing he/she is soon gonna marry ??????

JohnB86's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:40 PM
Bad thing bro,almost same story just we have some kind of relation while she was with that guy,in the end she choose him and marry him,happiness was not on my side. If I'm you i would tell her but it's not going to be easy,maybe you will have luck,who knows what life brings.

sidpandey1121's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:42 PM

Bad thing bro,almost same story just we have some kind of relation while she was with that guy,in the end she choose him and marry him,happiness was not on my side. If I'm you i would tell her but it's not going to be easy,maybe you will have luck,who knows what life brings.


awwwww , bro but here the story is little different , we are best friends since 6 years , and she is in relation since 3 years , her marriage is fixed

just few month ago i realized i am in love with her

kc0003's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:46 PM
if she is intent on getting married, fixed or not, there is nothing you can or should do.

tell her how you feel and get this over with, but respect her decision, either way.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:50 PM
just move on. it's hard at first but when you start to do it you will feel so much better.

willing2's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:50 PM
I prefer fixed or post-mentalpausal women.

sidpandey1121's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:52 PM

if she is intent on getting married, fixed or not, there is nothing you can or should do.

tell her how you feel and get this over with, but respect her decision, either way.


i would just like to stay quite , and leave out
actually since i met her i had no other female friend i never needed but now on date when i think she is moving on , a little away from me

i can't explain how i feel

supplayers's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:56 PM
Ok if. any she involve i step away sorry no drama

sidpandey1121's photo
Thu 08/14/14 07:58 PM

Ok if. any she involve i step away sorry no drama


sometime you cant follow what you want to , the duffer heart doesn't listen to me

Datwasntme's photo
Thu 08/14/14 08:20 PM


Ok if. any she involve i step away sorry no drama


sometime you cant follow what you want to , the duffer heart doesn't listen to me


don't matter if they are taken , step away

sidpandey1121's photo
Thu 08/14/14 08:26 PM



Ok if. any she involve i step away sorry no drama


sometime you cant follow what you want to , the duffer heart doesn't listen to me


don't matter if they are taken , step away


what dies this step away means

dreamerana's photo
Thu 08/14/14 08:42 PM


Bad thing bro,almost same story just we have some kind of relation while she was with that guy,in the end she choose him and marry him,happiness was not on my side. If I'm you i would tell her but it's not going to be easy,maybe you will have luck,who knows what life brings.


awwwww , bro but here the story is little different , we are best friends since 6 years , and she is in relation since 3 years , her marriage is fixed

just few month ago i realized i am in love with her

not to disrespect your culture or beliefs, but it's my understanding that to not honor an arranged marriage is to bring shame on your family and yourself.
if she didn't honor the marriage, wouldn't she be ostracized?
then, too, wouldn't you yreat her differently if she was considered a shameful woman.
im only basing my questions based on the experience of a close friend I have from eastern culture

cane1234111's photo
Thu 08/14/14 08:49 PM
If it was an arranged marriage I would try and find out if she is happy...If she isn't I would go for it and tell her how you feel you have nothing to lose! YOLO

sidpandey1121's photo
Thu 08/14/14 08:49 PM



Bad thing bro,almost same story just we have some kind of relation while she was with that guy,in the end she choose him and marry him,happiness was not on my side. If I'm you i would tell her but it's not going to be easy,maybe you will have luck,who knows what life brings.


awwwww , bro but here the story is little different , we are best friends since 6 years , and she is in relation since 3 years , her marriage is fixed

just few month ago i realized i am in love with her

not to disrespect your culture or beliefs, but it's my understanding that to not honor an arranged marriage is to bring shame on your family and yourself.
if she didn't honor the marriage, wouldn't she be ostracized?
then, too, wouldn't you yreat her differently if she was considered a shameful woman.
im only basing my questions based on the experience of a close friend I have from eastern culture


i can understand m surely not gonna do that but my heart
i dont know why the hell tears come out when she is in front of me
i just wanna run away but i cant just break our frdship
i cant stay am like , i got stuked

msharmony's photo
Thu 08/14/14 09:17 PM
makes me think of Jim and Pam of 'The Office'

HE told her how he felt, before she got married, but respectfully, because he felt she should know and it turned out she had felt the same for him

not saying that's how its gonna always turn out, but I do think there is a respectful way to be honest about your feelings before she is someones actual wife and it becomes irrelevant