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Topic: Is it natural?
jrt210369 Joined Sat 05/19/12 Posts: 69	Mon 09/29/14 03:04 PM
For older women to date younger guys and vice versa? I'm not sure I would have anything to talk about with a girl in say her twenties or am I missing the point entirely and its not about the 'talking'

Astrid Joined Tue 03/25/14 Posts: 7748	Mon 09/29/14 03:09 PM
Well for me, attraction is natural regardless of age. But, I will not go for a guy younger than me.

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Mon 09/29/14 03:13 PM
a 20 year old would run me in to the ground lol i wouldn't date anyone that young my g.f. is 30 i am 43 <shrug>

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 09/29/14 03:15 PM
.. if I was dating a 20 year old... ... as long as she's driving me into the ground... and doesn't talk...ok..

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 09/29/14 03:19 PM Edited by no1phD on Mon 09/29/14 03:19 PM
.. women your age are in the nursing home... ..jk..

valtheponytail35 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 264	Mon 09/29/14 03:19 PM Edited by valtheponytail35 on Mon 09/29/14 03:17 PM
For some reason it's hard to hook up with someone of my age. had some 10 years both ways younger and older and yes it felt natural cuz it's not the years that get you together but mutual feelings. And they dont care about the age. I totally wonder now what's it like to be with someone of my own age.

Astrid Joined Tue 03/25/14 Posts: 7748	Mon 09/29/14 03:27 PM
.. women your age are in the nursing home... ..jk.. You are so mean...

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 09/29/14 03:37 PM
For older women to date younger guys and vice versa? I'm not sure I would have anything to talk about with a girl in say her twenties or am I missing the point entirely and its not about the 'talking' It's natural to date a "person" you are attracted to, not an "age"....

coral2013 Joined Thu 11/14/13 Posts: 75	Mon 09/29/14 03:38 PM
For older women to date younger guys and vice versa? I'm not sure I would have anything to talk about with a girl in say her twenties or am I missing the point entirely and its not about the 'talking' I guess it is preference; however, for me, I do not want to babysit, enlighten or raise someone so I prefer experience and similar age group. Again, not judging, I believe its personal preference.

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Mon 09/29/14 03:39 PM
.. women your age are in the nursing home... ..jk.. You are so mean... aye but it was funny though : )

Astrid Joined Tue 03/25/14 Posts: 7748	Mon 09/29/14 03:45 PM
.. women your age are in the nursing home... ..jk.. You are so mean... aye but it was funny though : ) Hi Dat Yes it is, also thinking what's he like in a nursing home...

Dreadaye Joined Fri 03/29/13 Posts: 687	Mon 09/29/14 04:22 PM
For older women to date younger guys and vice versa? I'm not sure I would have anything to talk about with a girl in say her twenties or am I missing the point entirely and its not about the 'talking' It's natural to date a "person" you are attracted to, not an "age".... ditto

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48916	Mon 09/29/14 06:33 PM
For older women to date younger guys and vice versa? I'm not sure I would have anything to talk about with a girl in say her twenties or am I missing the point entirely and its not about the 'talking' Apparently you don't understand the difference between male Humans and female Humans. The males talk because they have something to say. The females talk because they have to say something. So, it doesn't matter what you say to a female as long as you are saying something. Now, excuse me. I feel a sudden urge to take cover.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 09/29/14 08:16 PM
For older women to date younger guys and vice versa? I'm not sure I would have anything to talk about with a girl in say her twenties or am I missing the point entirely and its not about the 'talking' the not about talking part would only go so far. it's natural for people to gravitate to someone who fulfills something in us, regardless of age.

jrt210369 Joined Sat 05/19/12 Posts: 69	Tue 09/30/14 03:54 AM
For older women to date younger guys and vice versa? I'm not sure I would have anything to talk about with a girl in say her twenties or am I missing the point entirely and its not about the 'talking' It's natural to date a "person" you are attracted to, not an "age".... I always listen to Leigh...she speaks sense!! I believe she is The Love Guru in disguise? The reason I asked this question is recently a very hot 26 year old came on to me and I was pretty scared and flattered and figured there was something wrong with the situation rather than just think wow, WTF

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 09/30/14 05:35 AM
For older women to date younger guys and vice versa? I'm not sure I would have anything to talk about with a girl in say her twenties or am I missing the point entirely and its not about the 'talking' It's natural to date a "person" you are attracted to, not an "age".... I always listen to Leigh...she speaks sense!! I believe she is The Love Guru in disguise? The reason I asked this question is recently a very hot 26 year old came on to me and I was pretty scared and flattered and figured there was something wrong with the situation rather than just think wow, WTF She came to you hoping you would be scared and flattered, silly...

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 09/30/14 09:20 AM
Eh, my girlfriend is 21 years younger than me. We never run out of things to talk about. It's not about age, it's about maturity, and a higher age doesn't guarantee that.