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Topic: CYBER SEX
wettimesoon Joined Sun 10/12/14 Posts: 1	Tue 10/14/14 10:52 AM
The best advice is DON'T unless you want some pratt to spread you all over the web.

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Tue 10/14/14 10:57 AM
Sorry if this seems personal I was asking cause I was thinking about trying it and thought I might get some good advice hello, well in my opinion, if that is all you are going to do without a means to an end (real body) to me its like you are always just with yourself, it depends on you and what you want to get out of it. i think its cool if you meet and you are hot for each and eventually all those fantasies you are building with that person can be done in person with them. that to me is the exciting part of it. Agreed,i think it would increase the passion with mental stimulation first if you have a good imagination and learn what your partner likes first yes the stimulation can be amazing so i agree with you Certainly,but that potential partner would have to be literate with a sensual imagination i think Hopefully that wont be too hard to find here dont you think????

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4958	Tue 10/14/14 11:27 AM Edited by Ɔʎɹɐx on Tue 10/14/14 11:32 AM
yes , once , but it was no fun so i didn't try that again . To have a good sexual relationship to remember you need to use all your senses , all of them with no exception , so what is the point of using only one ? Totally disagree...When you do it with the person you love, the person you know loves you, it can be extremely satisfying, incredibly hot, and very positive... ...FYI, you use more than one of your senses too...Think hearing, sight, taste, touch...And don't get hung up on "what" you're tasting or who you're touching.... ...Aside from the standard 5 senses...throw a little creativity (imagination) in there for good measure! theoretically , what you've just said seems really satisfying , but practically , unless i gently touch her soft skin .. smell the scent of her hair .. taste her unique body , look directly into her eyes and hear how every single cell reacts to my actions .... unless all of that happen , it's by no means considered love making .

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Tue 10/14/14 11:32 AM
yes , once , but it was no fun so i didn't try that again . To have a good sexual relationship to remember you need to use all your senses , all of them with no exception , so what is the point of using only one ? Totally disagree...When you do it with the person you love, the person you know loves you, it can be extremely satisfying, incredibly hot, and very positive... ...FYI, you use more than one of your senses too...Think hearing, sight, taste, touch...And don't get hung up on "what" you're tasting or who you're touching.... ...Aside from the standard 5 senses...throw a little creativity (imagination) in there for good measure! theoretically , what you've just said seems really satisfying , but practically , unless i gently touch her soft skin .. smell the scent of her hair .. taste her unique body , look directly in her eyes and hear how every single cell reacts to my actions .... unless all of that happen , it's by no means considered love making . yes but thats where good fantasy comes in. if you talked about already and know what your partner likes and that is what you are doing? sky is the limit. dont overthink it all just enjoy

FatFunGirl Joined Mon 04/07/14 Posts: 1	Tue 10/14/14 11:42 AM
Yep when I was a kid. It's not all that much anymore now. But I liked it at the time.

Fit4ever Joined Fri 10/10/14 Posts: 71	Tue 10/14/14 11:43 AM
Have you ever had it?? No. I don't see the point behind it. If two people are willing to cyber with each other then why not just get together and enjoy it in real life?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 10/14/14 11:56 AM
yes , once , but it was no fun so i didn't try that again . To have a good sexual relationship to remember you need to use all your senses , all of them with no exception , so what is the point of using only one ? Totally disagree...When you do it with the person you love, the person you know loves you, it can be extremely satisfying, incredibly hot, and very positive... ...FYI, you use more than one of your senses too...Think hearing, sight, taste, touch...And don't get hung up on "what" you're tasting or who you're touching.... ...Aside from the standard 5 senses...throw a little creativity (imagination) in there for good measure! theoretically , what you've just said seems really satisfying , but practically , unless i gently touch her soft skin .. smell the scent of her hair .. taste her unique body , look directly into her eyes and hear how every single cell reacts to my actions .... unless all of that happen , I do not considered it love making . Fixed it for you! ...Cyber (or phone ) sex is by no means preferable to sharing the same bed,,,,or floor,,,or tabletop,,,,or shower,,,,but it beats the hell out of nothing when the miles seperate you from the one you love....

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4958	Tue 10/14/14 12:04 PM
yes , once , but it was no fun so i didn't try that again . To have a good sexual relationship to remember you need to use all your senses , all of them with no exception , so what is the point of using only one ? Totally disagree...When you do it with the person you love, the person you know loves you, it can be extremely satisfying, incredibly hot, and very positive... ...FYI, you use more than one of your senses too...Think hearing, sight, taste, touch...And don't get hung up on "what" you're tasting or who you're touching.... ...Aside from the standard 5 senses...throw a little creativity (imagination) in there for good measure! theoretically , what you've just said seems really satisfying , but practically , unless i gently touch her soft skin .. smell the scent of her hair .. taste her unique body , look directly into her eyes and hear how every single cell reacts to my actions .... unless all of that happen , I do not considered it love making . Fixed it for you! ...Cyber (or phone ) sex is by no means preferable to sharing the same bed,,,,or floor,,,or tabletop,,,,or shower,,,,but it beats the hell out of nothing when the miles seperate you from the one you love.... miles don't separate me from anyone , i am blessed by a l___ ___ong ... . . . . . . . list of flights to get me where needed .

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 10/14/14 12:07 PM
yes , once , but it was no fun so i didn't try that again . To have a good sexual relationship to remember you need to use all your senses , all of them with no exception , so what is the point of using only one ? Totally disagree...When you do it with the person you love, the person you know loves you, it can be extremely satisfying, incredibly hot, and very positive... ...FYI, you use more than one of your senses too...Think hearing, sight, taste, touch...And don't get hung up on "what" you're tasting or who you're touching.... ...Aside from the standard 5 senses...throw a little creativity (imagination) in there for good measure! theoretically , what you've just said seems really satisfying , but practically , unless i gently touch her soft skin .. smell the scent of her hair .. taste her unique body , look directly into her eyes and hear how every single cell reacts to my actions .... unless all of that happen , I do not considered it love making . Fixed it for you! ...Cyber (or phone ) sex is by no means preferable to sharing the same bed,,,,or floor,,,or tabletop,,,,or shower,,,,but it beats the hell out of nothing when the miles seperate you from the one you love.... miles don't separate me from anyone , i am blessed by a l___ ___ong ... . . . . . . . list of flights to get me where needed . Then my editing job was correct....

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4958	Tue 10/14/14 12:07 PM
you are always correct , even when you are wrong

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 10/14/14 12:09 PM Edited by Leigh2154 on Tue 10/14/14 12:07 PM
you are always correct , even when you are wrong I've heard that chit plenty of times....

Justfun_1 Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 698	Tue 10/14/14 12:11 PM
Sorry if this seems personal I was asking cause I was thinking about trying it and thought I might get some good advice hello, well in my opinion, if that is all you are going to do without a means to an end (real body) to me its like you are always just with yourself, it depends on you and what you want to get out of it. i think its cool if you meet and you are hot for each and eventually all those fantasies you are building with that person can be done in person with them. that to me is the exciting part of it. Agreed,i think it would increase the passion with mental stimulation first if you have a good imagination and learn what your partner likes first yes the stimulation can be amazing so i agree with you Certainly,but that potential partner would have to be literate with a sensual imagination i think Hopefully that wont be too hard to find here dont you think???? I think i might have to get back to you in a year or ten

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4958	Tue 10/14/14 12:11 PM
you are always correct , even when you are wrong I've heard that chit plenty of times.... who could resist saying that over and over again

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4958	Tue 10/14/14 12:13 PM
how many times have you heard that one as well ?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 10/14/14 12:15 PM
you are always correct , even when you are wrong I've heard that chit plenty of times.... who could resist saying that over and over again You'd be amazed my dear....

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4958	Tue 10/14/14 12:16 PM
you are always correct , even when you are wrong I've heard that chit plenty of times.... who could resist saying that over and over again You'd be amazed my dear.... you always amaze me

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 10/14/14 12:19 PM
how many times have you heard that one as well ? Clearly, you are "one of them".....

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 10/14/14 01:30 PM
Have you ever had it?? Ummm,Noooo,I honestly and truthfully don't care about it,but good luck in trying it!

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Tue 10/14/14 01:32 PM
Sorry if this seems personal I was asking cause I was thinking about trying it and thought I might get some good advice hello, well in my opinion, if that is all you are going to do without a means to an end (real body) to me its like you are always just with yourself, it depends on you and what you want to get out of it. i think its cool if you meet and you are hot for each and eventually all those fantasies you are building with that person can be done in person with them. that to me is the exciting part of it. Agreed,i think it would increase the passion with mental stimulation first if you have a good imagination and learn what your partner likes first yes the stimulation can be amazing so i agree with you Certainly,but that potential partner would have to be literate with a sensual imagination i think Hopefully that wont be too hard to find here dont you think???? I think i might have to get back to you in a year or ten A year or ten???????? you plan on being on this site that long or just having cybersex here that long????? heehee

Justfun_1 Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 698	Tue 10/14/14 01:41 PM
Sorry if this seems personal I was asking cause I was thinking about trying it and thought I might get some good advice hello, well in my opinion, if that is all you are going to do without a means to an end (real body) to me its like you are always just with yourself, it depends on you and what you want to get out of it. i think its cool if you meet and you are hot for each and eventually all those fantasies you are building with that person can be done in person with them. that to me is the exciting part of it. Agreed,i think it would increase the passion with mental stimulation first if you have a good imagination and learn what your partner likes first yes the stimulation can be amazing so i agree with you Certainly,but that potential partner would have to be literate with a sensual imagination i think Hopefully that wont be too hard to find here dont you think???? I think i might have to get back to you in a year or ten A year or ten???????? you plan on being on this site that long or just having cybersex here that long????? heehee A definite no to the first one,but i may consider trying the second one should the person and opportunity present themselves