Topic: older women, younger men
corvettea's photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:17 AM

Is he a Virgin ???? Lmao
Honestly, a few young (virgins) men have told me that they want to learn from an older woman for several reasons. 1. she will be patient 2. older women in great shape are a turn-on 3. our confidence is hot 4. no mama want a baby drama 5.we DO know things! 6. some young ladies want to be "the Kardashians, expecting jewelry & outrageous stuff from young men. I got all my own bling & hot car.A man is not a walking bank. To me, I have the "cake" He's the "icing" Take Care.

corvettea's photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:19 AM


Is he a Virgin ???? Lmao


she will teach himlaugh
In some cultures, the young men/boys are taught by selected women of the tribe/village to teach them about the art of love, could that count for the low divorce rate in some cultures? What a cool job LOL!

corvettea's photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:21 AM
Edited by corvettea on Sun 11/02/14 06:21 AM



think wisely when one allow another to penetrate one self.
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uh hum...

this is the post YOU FIRST responded to...

and again, this post was CERTAINLY not AIMED at YOU!




did you happen to notice the post mine followed?

it was basically a sad dear gullible naive female soul bemoaning that a young had knocked her up and than ran off, and now she has a child to care for alone...

what you smokin...

please do share! YOU should be careful whom YOU "Penetrate" It's a 2-way street. Darlin.

corvettea's photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:24 AM

Depends on the character of each person, commited ness , and degree of each person in the relationship. So quick answer is "Maybe so, maybe not!"
Hi thanks for your view point, I agree with you, I'll be 60 in March, & I would date a man 45 and older. It is so nice to be appreciated by a gentlemen of any age LOL! You are a very pretty lady too, do young men ask you out, & what is too young for you?

bright4good's photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:28 AM
Yes it does work because its all about respect,understanding and communication. besides relationship is base on all the above no matter who u are with old or young.:wink:

no photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:03 AM
I agree with Bright4good! ANY relationship can work if there's mutual respect, understanding & Communications! however the chemistry has to be there in order for the relationship to survive long term! plus mutual goals are required.. and all the other stuff, deemed useful in "normal" relationships..

age is only a number.. it's all about attitude, and how old you actually allow yourself to feel :wink:

if one can't think outside the box.. yer just another corn flake bigsmile

no1phD's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:08 AM
Ohhhh... I want to be a bowl of icing right now...lol.. so badly..lmao...

.. can you elaborate on these things older women know!.. pictures and diagrams would help..lmaoflowerforyou

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Sun 11/02/14 07:19 AM

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 11/02/14 08:45 AM
Put me in the "pro" category.

Teachmewhatyouknow's photo
Sun 11/02/14 08:54 AM
All you need is God and Love. then you're all set.

Kindlightheart's photo
Sun 11/02/14 09:18 AM


Dare I say something back on the topic...hmmmm...why not...really any relationship has challenges, regardless of age,...too big of an age gap could be a problem,...if he is 21 and she's 41...unless she ages gracefully it could be a problem...in 25 years...she may be retired and he would be still working...most men I know seem to be going pretty strong at 46...but most women at 66 are kinda not...hmmm...but love is a strange thing...my dad always said love is a meeting of two minds...in the mental world there really is no age gap...lots of smart young ones and lots of dumb old ones...and vice-versa...


I totally agree with what you're saying but wonder how many 66 year old women you know, maybe you're right about 'most' women that age, I'm 62 and work out regularly at the gym. From my personal experience a person's lifelong lifestyle can have an enormous effect on their biological age compared to their chronological age - I'm sure I am fitter than most women (& men) in their 40s but that's also because a lot of people seem to totally let themselves go.



looking at you and reading what you wrote is refreshing... I am only 12 years younger than you and I certainly hope I carry myself as well as you... I should have used the word "some" instead of " most"..my sincere apologies if I offended you or anyone..flowerforyou ... I can say that when I was 42 I dated a man who was 27 for a bit...we got along great for the most part...but It was really awkward in public...I bailed on that one, mainly cause mentally we did not click...no regrets.. Best wishes to anyone that wants to give it a shot though:wink:

corvettea's photo
Sun 11/02/14 09:54 AM

Ohhhh... I want to be a bowl of icing right now...lol.. so badly..lmao...

.. can you elaborate on these things older women know!.. pictures and diagrams would help..lmaoflowerforyou
This older lady can teach you some techniques that can drive a woman wild, even if you are good, there's always new things to learn. I;m just saying...

corvettea's photo
Sun 11/02/14 10:00 AM

Hi if I was with you I would never leave you sexy xx
thanks :)

corvettea's photo
Sun 11/02/14 10:02 AM
Hi, no virgins, but experience & being taught is always good for everyone. Young men are sometimes in a rush, they need to learn to slow down, & let both enjoy the experience. I think 2 days would be cool.

corvettea's photo
Sun 11/02/14 10:08 AM



Dare I say something back on the topic...hmmmm...why not...really any relationship has challenges, regardless of age,...too big of an age gap could be a problem,...if he is 21 and she's 41...unless she ages gracefully it could be a problem...in 25 years...she may be retired and he would be still working...most men I know seem to be going pretty strong at 46...but most women at 66 are kinda not...hmmm...but love is a strange thing...my dad always said love is a meeting of two minds...in the mental world there really is no age gap...lots of smart young ones and lots of dumb old ones...and vice-versa...


I totally agree with what you're saying but wonder how many 66 year old women you know, maybe you're right about 'most' women that age, I'm 62 and work out regularly at the gym. From my personal experience a person's lifelong lifestyle can have an enormous effect on their biological age compared to their chronological age - I'm sure I am fitter than most women (& men) in their 40s but that's also because a lot of people seem to totally let themselves go.
I understand what ou mean, no offense taken, I work out cause I love it, and the benefits are great, if a younger man wants to take me out & I dig him, then why not? Take Care.


looking at you and reading what you wrote is refreshing... I am only 12 years younger than you and I certainly hope I carry myself as well as you... I should have used the word "some" instead of " most"..my sincere apologies if I offended you or anyone..flowerforyou ... I can say that when I was 42 I dated a man who was 27 for a bit...we got along great for the most part...but It was really awkward in public...I bailed on that one, mainly cause mentally we did not click...no regrets.. Best wishes to anyone that wants to give it a shot though:wink:

davidben1's photo
Mon 11/03/14 12:06 AM
Older men younger women...

OMG!

Sooooooooooooooooooomebody stop me!


vegansoul's photo
Tue 11/04/14 07:52 PM
Edited by vegansoul on Tue 11/04/14 08:00 PM



Dare I say something back on the topic...hmmmm...why not...really any relationship has challenges, regardless of age,...too big of an age gap could be a problem,...if he is 21 and she's 41...unless she ages gracefully it could be a problem...in 25 years...she may be retired and he would be still working...most men I know seem to be going pretty strong at 46...but most women at 66 are kinda not...hmmm...but love is a strange thing...my dad always said love is a meeting of two minds...in the mental world there really is no age gap...lots of smart young ones and lots of dumb old ones...and vice-versa...


I totally agree with what you're saying but wonder how many 66 year old women you know, maybe you're right about 'most' women that age, I'm 62 and work out regularly at the gym. From my personal experience a person's lifelong lifestyle can have an enormous effect on their biological age compared to their chronological age - I'm sure I am fitter than most women (& men) in their 40s but that's also because a lot of people seem to totally let themselves go.



looking at you and reading what you wrote is refreshing... I am only 12 years younger than you and I certainly hope I carry myself as well as you... I should have used the word "some" instead of " most"..my sincere apologies if I offended you or anyone..flowerforyou ... I can say that when I was 42 I dated a man who was 27 for a bit...we got along great for the most part...but It was really awkward in public...I bailed on that one, mainly cause mentally we did not click...no regrets.. Best wishes to anyone that wants to give it a shot though:wink:


People say I look younger than I did 10 years ago when I was working full-time and still looking after children. I'm retired from full-time work now and work for myself so have hardly any stress and I'm happier than I have ever been in my life - that makes a big difference to a persons health and sense of well-being. I now have time to go to the gym/swim & and try new things like weight lifting. One thing I'm glad I kept up is yoga, I've been doing it since I was in my early 20s and I do 20 - 30 mins every morning - keeps you supple :) I used to do belly dancing until a few years ago when I moved to VA & my teacher was in her late 60s - you should have seen her body - so toned & beautiful - I want to take up belly dancing again because it really is a great work-out.

navygirl's photo
Tue 11/04/14 08:24 PM
I could never date a younger man. 10 years is the most I would ever go but not more. I think the statement that "age is just a number" is ridiculous. We can kid ourselves all we want but as we age; we have more health issues, we aren't as active, we are more prone to injuries; need more rest, can't eat the way we used to, don't like loud music, etc. May/September romances don't work. I have seen lots of people on here say yes they do but within a year after trying; they say never again. Me; I would be embarassed to be seen with a much younger man as I have a repuation to uphold not only as military woman but as a peace officer and teacher of children. I could think of a thousand reasons not to date a younger man but can't think of one reason why I would want to date them. I have no wish to be a "mommy" to a younger man. Ewww

no photo
Thu 11/06/14 12:51 PM
I never experienced that but friends did...
The women have kids who are at a difficult young age which can cause huge problems.
Interests or needs become different.
Or the woman just needs somebody to support her financially..

However no relationship is easy ;)

shenama's photo
Thu 11/06/14 05:50 PM
yes it works