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A quick question for all:
What's the easiest way to move on from being heartbroken? Your answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :-) |
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seems your doin' one of the ways just now...
and since the ways go to infinity and beyond, i'll limit it there... best lucks to ya... but don't seem as you'll need it with such great writing skills. smiles |
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A quick question for all: What's the easiest way to move on from being heartbroken? Your answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :-) For me it works when i stop all form of communication with the person that broke the heart.....no matter how hard it gets do not communicate at all until you completely healed....and keep urself busy with constructive things.....that worked for me.... |
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for me - there is no easy way - somebody told me, that I should use another relationship after breakup- nothing for me - it wouldn�t be fair to that other guy.
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thanks. :)
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for me - there is no easy way - somebody told me, that I should use another relationship after breakup- nothing for me - it wouldn�t be fair to that other guy. i get what you mean. having a rebound relationship is not good. my own conscience always tells me that. :( |
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A quick question for all: What's the easiest way to move on from being heartbroken? Your answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :-) For me it works when i stop all form of communication with the person that broke the heart.....no matter how hard it gets do not communicate at all until you completely healed....and keep urself busy with constructive things.....that worked for me.... that's the problem, actually. i can't seem to stop communicating with him. blocked him on all socia media accounts, but keeps on texting with him. :( |
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seems your doin' one of the ways just now... and since the ways go to infinity and beyond, i'll limit it there... best lucks to ya... but don't seem as you'll need it with such great writing skills. smiles :) |
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A quick question for all: What's the easiest way to move on from being heartbroken? Your answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :-) For me it works when i stop all form of communication with the person that broke the heart.....no matter how hard it gets do not communicate at all until you completely healed....and keep urself busy with constructive things.....that worked for me.... that's the problem, actually. i can't seem to stop communicating with him. blocked him on all socia media accounts, but keeps on texting with him. :( if you can get over your heartache that way then its cool but usually its best to stop communication til you heal....in a scenario like that it leaves oneself vulnerable to stop communication with the one that hurt them but put yo foot down and do what makes you happy. If someone is giving you pain and heartache eliminate them from the equation. i don't believe in rebound relationships...Ive never been in one and for peace of mind you can be better without one.....dont jump into a relationship just coz you feeling low or lonely etc....do it for the right reasons.... |
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for me - there is no easy way - somebody told me, that I should use another relationship after breakup- nothing for me - it wouldn�t be fair to that other guy. i get what you mean. having a rebound relationship is not good. my own conscience always tells me that. :( precisely, I would feel it like cheating and wouldn�t be able to look at my own eyes in the mirror. wish you very soon recovering and all the happiness you can contain 
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my heart is unbreakable
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There is no easy way... you will just have to go through it all..
It takes time. Try to not communicate with him anymore .. if you still find that hard, then don't reply straight away, wait at least a few hours. That way you 'wean' yourself, sometimes that's what it takes, sometimes it's too much to sever all ties in one go. But keep working on being in touch less and less. What always worked for me, is promising myself I could get in touch with him after two weeks. That gave me something to hang on to, knowing that I would allow myself to get in touch. And the good thing is, by the time the two weeks had gone by, I didn't need to get in touch anymore! That made me feel soooo good! And helped me to get over it and move on with my life. |
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There is no easy way... you will just have to go through it all.. It takes time. Try to not communicate with him anymore .. if you still find that hard, then don't reply straight away, wait at least a few hours. That way you 'wean' yourself, sometimes that's what it takes, sometimes it's too much to sever all ties in one go. But keep working on being in touch less and less. What always worked for me, is promising myself I could get in touch with him after two weeks. That gave me something to hang on to, knowing that I would allow myself to get in touch. And the good thing is, by the time the two weeks had gone by, I didn't need to get in touch anymore! That made me feel soooo good! And helped me to get over it and move on with my life. Perfect way to handle it, Crystal. I find it as a very helpful advise for me too - when it comes. Thanks 
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It sounds like a cliche,and i hated hearing it back then,but time is the only real cure.Sleeping around will either get you a reputation,make you bitter,or give you regrets later.New friends or hobbies can be a good distraction for the mind,but ultimately Crystal is correct,take it a week or two at a time,don't expect miracles,and one day soon you will wake up with a smile
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Surround yourself with great people who has great positive attitude. Do things you always wanted to do when you weren't able to do when you were in the relationship. Cut off all contact with your ex since its good to give each other enough space away fron each other. Cherish the great memories you had and let your relationship be another life lesson.
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There is probably no single answer.
For me it was not to find any hattered about our relationship. We both cared for each other very much, but grew apart. Nothing one can do if your love for each other has its own direction. Find peace in what you shared; is my best answer. 
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Find another man to occupy your time. If that doesn't work many people turn to drugs and or alcohol. You can even do drugs and or alcohol while finding another man.
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Find another man to occupy your time. If that doesn't work many people turn to drugs and or alcohol. You can even do drugs and or alcohol while finding another man. 
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I tried the re-bound friends with benefits...It simply does not work for me. I usually develop feelings for that person which is not the deal. Takes time to grieve and I made ammends for my part in the relationship which was not respectful. No cheating just lost desire after the verbal abuse.
I think just to process it and resolve it before another. It is not fair to you or the other man. Just my position. |
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one will never lead it self from the most happy path if it always remember one thing most...
NEVER EVER follow or seek out sympathy for one self in life or from any of one's relationship partners. for to be in love with sympathy in life preclude any from being in love with love in life. to love sympathy will always destroy any love that did exist. peace and good lucks matie |
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