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Topic: Listen up. Here's some turnoffs....
bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 01/05/15 06:42 PM
Okay. After social networking for a few years, I still can't seem to figure out exactly what I want? But, there's some definite red flags when I run into people. Here are some things I DON'T want..... 1. Commenting about being bored. This person needs to be constantly entertained. 2. Commenting about being lonely. This person sounds desperate, and desperation is NOT attractive. 3. Commenting with negative thoughts. This person will only bring you down. Anyone else get turned off by boredom and lonliness?.....

Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Mon 01/05/15 06:51 PM
Indifference...when there is no reciprocation. This person will make you feel invisible.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Mon 01/05/15 06:51 PM
* sorry, this person is sitting by himself staring at the ceiling and is unable to answer this thread. *

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Mon 01/05/15 06:55 PM
people who can only focus on what they don't want, instead of figuring out what they want and striving towards it, I see it as�lack of�ambition and passion

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 01/05/15 06:59 PM
Naked profiles. .those persons feels hot..lol

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 01/05/15 07:05 PM
Bragging...People who talk a big game.... People who are one-dimensional ... People with a victim mentality....

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 01/05/15 07:11 PM
People that want to meet IMMEDIATELY in person....

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 01/05/15 07:13 PM
People that want to meet IMMEDIATELY in person.... they felt horsy..

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 01/05/15 07:14 PM
People that want to meet IMMEDIATELY in person.... they felt horsy.. Horsy? As in, giddyup horsy?.....

Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Mon 01/05/15 07:16 PM
Indifference...when there is no reciprocation. This person will make you feel invisible. I thought you meant face to face...lol!

467noreaga Joined Thu 12/04/14 Posts: 29	Mon 01/05/15 07:17 PM
People who don't dance

SpicyExcel Joined Wed 10/31/12 Posts: 1622	Mon 01/05/15 07:18 PM
Okay. After social networking for a few years, I still can't seem to figure out exactly what I want? But, there's some definite red flags when I run into people. Here are some things I DON'T want..... 1. Commenting about being bored. This person needs to be constantly entertained. 2. Commenting about being lonely. This person sounds desperate, and desperation is NOT attractive. 3. Commenting with negative thoughts. This person will only bring you down. Anyone else get turned off by boredom and lonliness?..... Number 3; is this included in the overall relationship of the subject matter in this thread. I teasing you a little, because everyone needs someone and many times the postive and negative need to be accepted when finding someone.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 01/05/15 07:23 PM
Okay. After social networking for a few years, I still can't seem to figure out exactly what I want? But, there's some definite red flags when I run into people. Here are some things I DON'T want..... 1. Commenting about being bored. This person needs to be constantly entertained. 2. Commenting about being lonely. This person sounds desperate, and desperation is NOT attractive. 3. Commenting with negative thoughts. This person will only bring you down. Anyone else get turned off by boredom and lonliness?..... Number 3; is this included in the overall relationship of the subject matter in this thread. I teasing you a little, because everyone needs someone and many times the postive and negative need to be accepted when finding someone. Haha....Okay, I see what you're saying. Either way, I am positive that I know exactly what I won't put up with. I'd rather be alone....

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Mon 01/05/15 07:24 PM
People constantly complaining that there are no 'real' men or women. So what. There are some very high quality, lifelike dolls available. BUY ONE

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 01/05/15 07:40 PM
People who assume that you're a loser because you say you're bored or lonely. Must be wonderful to live in your happy little world where you're never bored or lonely but talking to people on the internet anyway.

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 01/05/15 07:42 PM
Also, time wasters that won't make a date.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Mon 01/05/15 07:45 PM
People who assume they know about you when they don't know jack s**t about you or what you've been through or what you do or what you own or how much you're worth just coz you're on a dating site like mingle....

SpicyExcel Joined Wed 10/31/12 Posts: 1622	Mon 01/05/15 07:47 PM
Okay. After social networking for a few years, I still can't seem to figure out exactly what I want? But, there's some definite red flags when I run into people. Here are some things I DON'T want..... 1. Commenting about being bored. This person needs to be constantly entertained. 2. Commenting about being lonely. This person sounds desperate, and desperation is NOT attractive. 3. Commenting with negative thoughts. This person will only bring you down. Anyone else get turned off by boredom and lonliness?..... Number 3; is this included in the overall relationship of the subject matter in this thread. I teasing you a little, because everyone needs someone and many times the postive and negative need to be accepted when finding someone. Haha....Okay, I see what you're saying. Either way, I am positive that I know exactly what I won't put up with. I'd rather be alone.... I knew what you were asking and say. Just wanted to bust you balls a little before you climbed back on the horse and took off. For some reason you made me think of: Jack and Jill went up the hill.

germanchoclate1981 Joined Wed 10/18/06 Posts: 1245	Mon 01/05/15 07:49 PM
Okay. After social networking for a few years, I still can't seem to figure out exactly what I want? But, there's some definite red flags when I run into people. Here are some things I DON'T want..... 1. Commenting about being bored. This person needs to be constantly entertained. 2. Commenting about being lonely. This person sounds desperate, and desperation is NOT attractive. 3. Commenting with negative thoughts. This person will only bring you down. Anyone else get turned off by boredom and lonliness?..... Number 3; is this included in the overall relationship of the subject matter in this thread. I teasing you a little, because everyone needs someone and many times the postive and negative need to be accepted when finding someone. Haha....Okay, I see what you're saying. Either way, I am positive that I know exactly what I won't put up with. I'd rather be alone.... Didn't you just say you are turned off by people complaining about being lonely? You're turning yourself off. Also you're here because you're lonely and bored. You don't know what you want but you KNOW what you DON'T want. That's negative. I see the problem, it's that you don't see the problem. Not trying to play the devil's advocate but your complaints are irrelevant because that's you.

SpicyExcel Joined Wed 10/31/12 Posts: 1622	Mon 01/05/15 07:56 PM
Okay. After social networking for a few years, I still can't seem to figure out exactly what I want? But, there's some definite red flags when I run into people. Here are some things I DON'T want..... 1. Commenting about being bored. This person needs to be constantly entertained. 2. Commenting about being lonely. This person sounds desperate, and desperation is NOT attractive. 3. Commenting with negative thoughts. This person will only bring you down. Anyone else get turned off by boredom and lonliness?..... Number 3; is this included in the overall relationship of the subject matter in this thread. I teasing you a little, because everyone needs someone and many times the postive and negative need to be accepted when finding someone. Haha....Okay, I see what you're saying. Either way, I am positive that I know exactly what I won't put up with. I'd rather be alone.... Didn't you just say you are turned off by people complaining about being lonely? You're turning yourself off. Also you're here because you're lonely and bored. You don't know what you want but you KNOW what you DON'T want. That's negative. I see the problem, it's that you don't see the problem. Not trying to play the devil's advocate but your complaints are irrelevant because that's you. Hay! She's got a good personality and intelligent. It is part of maturing we are experiencing here and the changes in society. Take it easy on people and their feelings.