Topic: If someone...
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Sun 01/25/15 08:25 AM


I'm so prepared to see a bunch of platitudes like, "I have no time to hang around. I'm outta there." or "There's plenty of fish in the ocean."

I think to deny that sometimes we have longing beyond common sense in matters of the heart is dishonest.

Also sometimes there is something to be said for persistence and tenacity. It's not being a doormat either. It's more like waiting or proactively demonstrating to "them" what they are missing.

That mutual feeling when someone finally "gets it" is incredible!

In the case of pre manogamous dating then yes.These days It may not be uncommon to date someone that is also dating many people before they enter into monogamy (For argument sakes) If your one of the front runners and your falling for her and her you
and others, then pursue? So you pursue,one guy doesn't have the stomach for it and drops out.The 'main guy' meets someone else.
So now you have finally entered into a monogamos relashionship by default.
What do you think? a win is a win.
Its a pretty common scenario now adays.

The gorillas in the tryst..lol sounds like a good porn title.

seriously I know many woman on here have said before:
"If he's dating someone else then he's not that interested in me"slaphead I think thats what dating is for? (described above)
It doesn't fit my character eigher though.

I loved the answers on "how do you say goodbye" Expresing ones method Is cool but what a bunch of BS if I ever heard it.

(told ya a had a sheep coat! See how close I am in my profile pic?)


Ref: Pony's profile pic...Nice azz babe!!drool laugh :wink:

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Sun 01/25/15 08:38 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Sun 01/25/15 08:40 AM
Yes if someone chooses their bf/ gf/ spouse over you, then you are just an azz and got what you deserve.laugh

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Sun 01/25/15 08:44 AM

Yes if someone chooses their bf/ gf/ spouse over you, then you are just an azz and got what you deserve.laugh


Was that at me what

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Sun 01/25/15 08:45 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sun 01/25/15 08:54 AM
rofl
The Sheila sheep are horny too!Does anybody know that? well you all do now.
They are "Canadian bigot-horn sheep" laugh I'm studing their ways flowers (Bighorn)

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Sun 01/25/15 08:52 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sun 01/25/15 08:53 AM


Yes if someone chooses their bf/ gf/ spouse over you, then you are just an azz and got what you deserve.laugh


Was that at me what

Idk but if you put lol or j/k or laugh at the end then its cool to tell anyone to f<>ck
off.
its the art of deception at it absolute best. j/k lol no really!

I'm sure he's just f*ing off for a living.
j/k lol..no realy



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Sun 01/25/15 08:55 AM



Yes if someone chooses their bf/ gf/ spouse over you, then you are just an azz and got what you deserve.laugh


Was that at me what

Idk but if you put lol or j/k or laugh at the end then its cool to tell anyone to f<>ck
off.
its the art of deception at it absolute best. j/k lol no really!

I'm sure he's just f*ing off for a living.
j/k lol..no realy





laugh laugh

No Romeo......sometimes these things just go sideways.

glasses We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.

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Sun 01/25/15 08:56 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Sun 01/25/15 08:57 AM




Yes if someone chooses their bf/ gf/ spouse over you, then you are just an azz and got what you deserve.laugh


Was that at me what

Idk but if you put lol or j/k or laugh at the end then its cool to tell anyone to f<>ck
off.
its the art of deception at it absolute best. j/k lol no really!

I'm sure he's just f*ing off for a living.
j/k lol..no realy






laugh laugh

No Romeo......sometimes these things just go sideways.

glasses We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.


laugh x 2.....

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Sun 01/25/15 09:06 AM




Yes if someone chooses their bf/ gf/ spouse over you, then you are just an azz and got what you deserve.laugh


Was that at me what

Idk but if you put lol or j/k or laugh at the end then its cool to tell anyone to f<>ck
off.
its the art of deception at it absolute best. j/k lol no really!

I'm sure he's just f*ing off for a living.
j/k lol..no realy





laugh laugh

No Romeo......sometimes these things just go sideways.

glasses We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
*laughs until choking,...sits up properly and wipes tears from eyes*

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Sun 01/25/15 09:12 AM
I disagree. I'd rather be taxing that asss than be moping about just because my ego wants to feel special.

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Sun 01/25/15 09:15 AM

Doesn't choose you as their first option then you shouldn't be around to be there other option...drinks


hello romeo (are we talking about your ex here)? :wink:

I agree to an extent. As long as a continuing friendship is OK with both parties I see no harm in it. It is a good idea to set boundaries tho' whether it's "not being around" or whatever because those old ties can inhibit the chances to form new intimate bonds

no one wants to make love under the exes' pictures ...lolflowerforyou laugh

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Sun 01/25/15 09:16 AM

true dat!

I would never want to be second choice.

In the past I have confronted all at one time or another when I've felt pushed away and then they come back to you. I guess its our ego and good common sense as what self respecting person would want someone else that was reasently rejected from someone else. especially if she was with you to begin with. drinks


drool with horns like that you'd NEVER be the 2nd choicesmitten



blushing :wink:

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Sun 01/25/15 09:16 AM

Doesn't choose you as their first option then you shouldn't be around to be there other option...drinks

Oh, Romeo, buck up fella.

Dating is dating. Only one will win. flowerforyou

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Sun 01/25/15 09:19 AM

Many people go through their fair share of joys & heartache in life...makes many learn & grow...happend to me too & people come & go....but at one stage in a mans life there can be no woman who can ever weaken him emotionally....perhaps sexually too.... except for that 1 woman that can actually bring him to he's knees


be careful of the ones who leave their leather gloves on in summer AND outside of the gymspock rofl

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Sun 01/25/15 09:19 AM
You know sometimes you may not get what you really want.

nicekid56's photo
Sun 01/25/15 09:21 AM
You know sometimes you may not get what you really want.

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Sun 01/25/15 09:50 AM

I disagree. I'd rather be taxing that asss than be moping about just because my ego wants to feel special.


well we already knew that!

Ref: "selfrespecting human" I mean you just barely qualify on the latter
Red buddy j/k lol

to each their own,and why not if you're just hornier than a two peckerd Billie goat (like we know you are)
If you have fellings for her then something its just easier to walk is what I'm saying
"taxing that azz"laugh I love that one!

like I was saying yesterday.

Don't drop face and 'give hand'
when we were born with two.


That got easier after about 36 yrs old



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Sun 01/25/15 10:22 AM

Doesn't choose you as their first option then you shouldn't be around to be there other option...drinks


This depends on every individuals situation and relationships'. Does anyone here know exactly what they want, when they first start communicating with someone of potential interest.

If they did, those people would not be here, nor would they ever have to look for a partner again in life. Be real about life's and expectations. No one wants hurt feelings, but we all have gone through it in the past.

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Sun 01/25/15 11:18 AM

Doesn't choose you as their first option then you shouldn't be around to be there other option...drinks
You nailed it!!!!!!:thumbsup: drinker

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Sun 01/25/15 05:37 PM



hello romeo (are we talking about your ex here)? :wink:





No i'm not talking about my ex...its a hypothetical scenario yet so true

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Sun 01/25/15 06:19 PM

Doesn't choose you as their first option then you shouldn't be around to be there other option...drinks
lol Romeo in a dating site whether you like it or not you're always an option to someone unless if she'll find you as her Nemo...you know finding Nemo in the sea with a billion fishes. .