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Topic: WHOEVER SAID 3 WAS A CROWD???
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Sun 01/25/15 10:30 PM
I'm a female who has been with her boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. I'm 22 he's 21. We're young and wanna experiment with another female with us... BUT how do you even find another girl? once she's found how do you ask? SERIOUS QUESTIONS, SO SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE. a little joking fun is ok too lol.

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Sun 01/25/15 10:38 PM
Edited by IamwhoIam1 on Sun 01/25/15 10:38 PM
Why does it have to be another female? He talked you into this BS. Typical male. Tell him you want the third partner to be male. I'm sure he'll wish he hadn't brought up the threesome then.

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Sun 01/25/15 10:41 PM
I'm not interested in another male joining. Not a fan of DP.

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Sun 01/25/15 10:44 PM
Are you really interested as a straight female in having another female touching you?

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Sun 01/25/15 10:46 PM
Idk, i've never tried. Just trying new things.

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Sun 01/25/15 10:46 PM
Just wondering if this is something you really want or something your BF really wants and talked you into it.

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Sun 01/25/15 10:47 PM

We're young and wanna experiment with another female with us..

WE are young and WANT TO experiment....

dont listen to others b/s ............do what ya wanna do....

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Sun 01/25/15 10:50 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Sun 01/25/15 10:57 PM
If I where you two I would not expect to just go out a choose someone real quick just to try it, sometimes, feelings,jealousy, and reality can ruin fantasy"s. I would prepare for what happens after you try it. Besides that your both young and if this is what you both truly want then life your life as you please.

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Sun 01/25/15 10:51 PM
No, I wasn't talked into it. You only live once, and there are wayyy worst things out there than experimenting with a girl lol.

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Sun 01/25/15 10:52 PM
Just as a precaution, if you thought it through, realize the consequences. Sometimes, these relationships don't end well. I know it backfired on a guy when his wife dumped him for the girl in the threesome and she even started interacting with his children. He was agonizing over it. I thought he reaped what he sowed.

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Sun 01/25/15 10:54 PM
Believe me I plan on going through a whole process to get to know the girl and everyone getting tested and using protection. If I don't feel comfortable enough around her she will not be picked.

To: Jacktrades

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Sun 01/25/15 10:55 PM
wow she left him... that sucks.

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Sun 01/25/15 11:38 PM

Believe me I plan on going through a whole process to get to know the girl and everyone getting tested and using protection. If I don't feel comfortable enough around her she will not be picked.

To: Jacktrades


I've done both, mmf, and ffm with the first it was with a guy I worked with BAD idea, he started stalking my now ex gf, I've done the latter twice, one with a semi-acquaintance and one was a drunken night in vegas, id recommend either not knowing the person, or barely knowing them...unless it is with another couple who is maybe more experienced in that area...then both couples should be able to maintain without it getting weird. ...in the end alcohol helps too lol.

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Sun 01/25/15 11:44 PM

I'm a female who has been with her boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. I'm 22 he's 21. We're young and wanna experiment with another female with us... BUT how do you even find another girl? once she's found how do you ask? SERIOUS QUESTIONS, SO SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE. a little joking fun is ok too lol.



No offence but you must have a boring sex life to start doing all that experimenting with a 3rd person or whatever

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Sun 01/25/15 11:54 PM
well I'll just say..op.. if you change your mind about the.. third person being a male... I would just like to throw my hat into the ring..
I am very" big". on experimentation..lol..jk... hope you find that perfect girl.

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Mon 01/26/15 12:46 AM
damn...

some act as if she ask something so heinous and dangerous the world might end.

hehehe...

so many self righteous self wise who think they are the elected brain and body guide of others.

since when did the world become so sanctimonious...

woe to those who vote them self as the holy guide of what others should choose and do.




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Mon 01/26/15 01:39 AM

I'm a female who has been with her boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. I'm 22 he's 21. We're young and wanna experiment with another female with us... BUT how do you even find another girl? once she's found how do you ask? SERIOUS QUESTIONS, SO SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE. a little joking fun is ok too lol.
I think that you're playing with fire, if you do this, as what if he goes away with the other lassie? The same thing happened with my mates sister and her husband and the other lassie involved in their menage et trois, were having an affair behind her back and her husband ended up leaving her. Your choice at the end of the day though? :smile:

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Mon 01/26/15 01:58 AM


I'm a female who has been with her boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. I'm 22 he's 21. We're young and wanna experiment with another female with us... BUT how do you even find another girl? once she's found how do you ask? SERIOUS QUESTIONS, SO SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE. a little joking fun is ok too lol.
I think that you're playing with fire, if you do this, as what if he goes away with the other lassie? The same thing happened with my mates sister and her husband and the other lassie involved in their menage et trois, were having an affair behind her back and her husband ended up leaving her. Your choice at the end of the day though? :smile:

In a way agree, but on the other hand side.. if a guy leaves his woman after a threesome, he clearly didn't really love his woman to begin with. Painful way to find out, but yeah ..

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Mon 01/26/15 02:07 AM
If its experimenting,at 22/21 and yet in a 4.5y o relationship....... Huhm!!!! At 22/21,one is basically still experimenting,not usually in ltr!!
But,a snag/boredom at 22/21??? What will you be experimenting with at 32/31?? Just wondering out loud...

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Mon 01/26/15 07:40 PM

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