Describe your worst date or romantic relationship & how or why you were incompatible.

eerrr...he was clandestinely chasing after someone else... spending more time with buddies... began using drugs...didnt want to stop smoking and drinking...
apparently, i was too possessive and he needed space...in order to do these things...lol...

but i guess we mostly became incompatible because we were too young and stupid to know any better... lol...

we both separately cleaned up our acts pretty well since

Why?

No.

Relationship
- He was a serious narcissist

Date
- very first thing he said was: "Oh my god, you're really tall!" with a shocked look on his face. * I ain't that tall according to Dutch standards and my height is always in my profile *
Ending a half hour attempt from my side to get a conversation going with "I really want to see the ocean, so at least I didn't come over for nothing!"
Needless to say I decided to sod it and went home.

This is a great topic for me today!
We were incompatible because he had an unhealthy relationship with his ex and son. (not sexual in nature but unhealthy non-the-less)

First thing.

I am not sure if this would be consider a date.I meet this boy was way younger. He lied to a me about his age and what grade he was in high school.

We went awhile first time he kiss me he was a liked that gold fish wet and sloppy about it. I could stand being kiss by him I felt I was being kiss by him in a mouth by a dog.

He apparently thought I was interest in married to a him. And he asked married him over the phone. In which I stall him by saying I want to a do few things before I married anyone. Which then he keep calling harassing me with phone call demanding to a know where I was. I could see now I did not liked his control behaved I had my mom called his mom explain her which he was doing and put stopped. Not to a much calling at night and keep me late at night when I had important things I was tried to a get done for my grandmother.

Though afterward I hope he find someone to a kiss but anyway first kiss. Then finally I found someone who seem pretty cool. He was a better kissing then him. He was a so much better then him in term of kissing. It was kiss I would rate that should been first kiss. I liked the kiss. But I could not stay in relationship because he had drug problem and well he seem to already married which he did not tell me but I figure it out. It was through myspace I meet him which was a pretty bad. I knew if I stay with him I would just end up with so many drama on my end.

Not trying to sound 'holier than thou' or anything, but even the worst date I ever had was still kind of cool. All of the tingling nerves and expectant anxiety that characterizes a 'good' date are still present.

We might have decided not to do that again, but she said 'yes' and that's something wonderful. I'd always give it my best shot. (But, I gotta be honest, occasionally I'd fall on my knees with a heartfelt "Thank God, that's over!")

I had a past relationship with a chick that was purely sex-based. We started off pretty darn good but then we fought, and fought....and we fought.....I think we would fight because afterwards we would have the best make-up sex of all-time. Sometimes I think we got together at the wrong time in our lives, but I also believe that we are "combustible" when together. I will always care about her but I am wise enough to know that it would never work out. Still......that make up sex.....

Me=normal.
Him=psychopath.

If I wanted to be dead, it would have worked just fine.

. I am very compatible.
. think of me as Android...
... I am easy to please
. I'm very patient
. I also am very accommodating.
thoughtful good natured
. and highly..hmm.. sexual shall we say.. I enjoyed doing for my partner.
.. her every wish is my command.
. I eat right take care of myself.
bathregularly and have a good fashion sense.... I'm hardworking and save all my pennies
.. I'm a very good conversationalist.
. I'm confident but not overly.
. and I'm a lot of fun at parties..
. so what's not to like?..


. you on the other hand..
NEED WORK..LOL..
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She was night
I was day
Whenever we were together
The world was gray
I was a duck
She was a goose
Another minute with her
I would have fashioned a noose

Ya ya ya..I know.
This isn't the poetry section.
Well

He was charming at first, Mr. Silver tongue. He turned out to be verbally abusive. He was also physically abusive to his exes but I dumped him before he tried anything with me. He had the nerve to keep calling me, obsessive. I ignored him long enough to get rid of him.

We now know the signs. That saying, " The beginning of the relationship, sets the tone for the relationship "
So true.