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Edited by
unknown_romeo
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Sat 05/23/15 10:42 PM
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If you could just save me from reading this drivel......save me woman....OH God Save me!  rofl: rofl: . |
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Okay, lets go back to the beginning on this. By that, I mean lets examine the suppositions more carefully in this entirely hypothetical question, BEFORE we jump to trying to answer it.
Main thing to start with: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT OR COMPLETE SEX CHANGE OPERATION. I don't care what gets snipped or added on, or how well it's done, or how few scars the person has. There is as yet no way to alter the internal genetics of a person so that they become the other gender in all ways. Their internal chemistry will remain that of the original gender they were, and will have to be artificially adjusted to try to make them approximately the opposite gender. Even people with something as relatively small as a natural vitamin deficiency, never reach the point where they are identical to someone without such, no matter how many supplements they take. What that means, is that it's really not that easy to hide such a secret. SOMETHING would "feel off" and have to be addressed somehow. Next, is the allegation that deception is involved. That hasn't been clearly described in the original hypothetical. Just as the physical problems were brushed aside, the exact details of when and how the admission takes place are vague. For it to be DECEPTION, the person would have to actively hide the facts. Not just fail to mention them. And in all serious relationships, a lot of time and interaction would have to take place, before the lack of communication would reach the point of being "deceptive." After all, only unbalanced people confess every detail of their lives to each other during a first date. But sure, if you compare this to someone who waits to tell you that they are actually married to someone else, until after you've had sex, then it's a pretty serious omission. My point here, is that the TIMING of when you reveal whatever to your prospective partner is very important, and that was left out of the setup on this hypothetical. As for how the other person reacts, that's entirely dependent on THEIR personal development. A violent reaction in particular, would indicate that said person should never be allowed to initiate a relationship on their own, regardless. If you injure someone else, simply because YOU are upset about something they tell you, then YOU have big self-control problems, and you require adult supervision and restraint. It doesn't matter WHAT causes you to lose self-control. How would I react? I wont know for sure until I deal with it. I can't imagine being angry at such a person for failing to wear a T-shirt saying "I am a TransGender Ex Male" during our first meet. I can imagine disappointment, again, much as I would feel if I learned that their religion or social beliefs made us incompatible after I got my hopes up. But at no time, would I EVER try to blame another person for my own actions and choices. Even if they DO actively try to fool me. |
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I would not go for it.
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Okay, lets go back to the beginning on this. By that, I mean lets examine the suppositions more carefully in this entirely hypothetical question, BEFORE we jump to trying to answer it. Main thing to start with: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT OR COMPLETE SEX CHANGE OPERATION. I don't care what gets snipped or added on, or how well it's done, or how few scars the person has. There is as yet no way to alter the internal genetics of a person so that they become the other gender in all ways. Their internal chemistry will remain that of the original gender they were, and will have to be artificially adjusted to try to make them approximately the opposite gender. Even people with something as relatively small as a natural vitamin deficiency, never reach the point where they are identical to someone without such, no matter how many supplements they take. What that means, is that it's really not that easy to hide such a secret. SOMETHING would "feel off" and have to be addressed somehow. Next, is the allegation that deception is involved. That hasn't been clearly described in the original hypothetical. Just as the physical problems were brushed aside, the exact details of when and how the admission takes place are vague. For it to be DECEPTION, the person would have to actively hide the facts. Not just fail to mention them. And in all serious relationships, a lot of time and interaction would have to take place, before the lack of communication would reach the point of being "deceptive." After all, only unbalanced people confess every detail of their lives to each other during a first date. But sure, if you compare this to someone who waits to tell you that they are actually married to someone else, until after you've had sex, then it's a pretty serious omission. My point here, is that the TIMING of when you reveal whatever to your prospective partner is very important, and that was left out of the setup on this hypothetical. As for how the other person reacts, that's entirely dependent on THEIR personal development. A violent reaction in particular, would indicate that said person should never be allowed to initiate a relationship on their own, regardless. If you injure someone else, simply because YOU are upset about something they tell you, then YOU have big self-control problems, and you require adult supervision and restraint. It doesn't matter WHAT causes you to lose self-control. How would I react? I wont know for sure until I deal with it. I can't imagine being angry at such a person for failing to wear a T-shirt saying "I am a TransGender Ex Male" during our first meet. I can imagine disappointment, again, much as I would feel if I learned that their religion or social beliefs made us incompatible after I got my hopes up. But at no time, would I EVER try to blame another person for my own actions and choices. Even if they DO actively try to fool me. I agree with violent reaction being inappropriate, except maybe AT The time of an intimate encounter when it may be an impulsive form of self defense however, I do not agree that 'failing to mention' is not deception there are some things you put upfront,, people do have some things that they are obviously interested in like single vs married, or male vs female and failing to mention that one is actually a married person, or not the gender they are parading around as,,,,,is deception by omission,,imho |
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yes the scenario was if they had a sex change ms harmony, but legally they are another sex I mean snip snip or pull pull all the way legally, they no longer there original gender what would you do?
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unknown Romeo
okay let get something straight, I love the female species you won't know anything about that would you . lets face you a down lo bottom boy aren't ? if you are you.....I'm mean, that's what you like the peanut butter over the chocolate.....lol , so0 don't hate me for this forum. i don't have to be into "trannys" to talk about things like this......opppps i forgot you bottom boy, and we not talking Atlanta........lol |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Wed 05/27/15 05:49 PM
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yes the scenario was if they had a sex change ms harmony, but legally they are another sex I mean snip snip or pull pull all the way legally, they no longer there original gender what would you do? yeah, the law doesn't tell me what a man or woman is,,, if you could have laid with a WOMAN And made a child,, you ain't a woman and if you could have laid with a man and became pregnant, you ain't a man anatomy does,,, and if your sexual parts are man made and not God made,,, that's something that should be shared upfront if sex is going to be desired at any point , and before I have any physically intimate moments, from a kiss to a fondle |
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