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| Topic: How Far Would You Go ? Do Or Don't | |
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No I can't get involved with a transgender....ever. I need a real woman...not a modified one.....ain't nothing like a real woman & I personally think transgenders need psychological help....yes & that includes you too Bruce Jenner
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why does this sound like the show bold & the beautiful. With Mya's little situation lol.
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Me I agree I think before my girlfriend I would acquire a real woman. a woman can only give me what I desire not just great sex but emotional support!
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Me I agree I think before my girlfriend I would acquire a real woman. a woman can only give me what I desire not just great sex but emotional support! So you're dating a transgender that used to be a dominant male...but now he's a she..you expect her to be tender & soft...yet that same man lady will make you into he\she's biyatch...even though you're male...that will surely not make you too fly for wings now will it  
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What happened to the how "what's on the inside" that I keep seeing on the other threads. I've know a few transgenders in the past, not sexually but as friends and their mannerisms are that of the opposite sex. If they get the pluming changed that only means the "outside" now closer matches the "inside."
Now I have to speak hypothetically here because I've never actually been in a situation like this, but I'd like to think it would not change the dynamic of our relationship. |
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it is whats on the inside when it comes to character and friendship
when it comes to marriage lots of things matter like gender, age, marital status,,etc,,, |
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it is whats on the inside when it comes to character and friendship when it comes to marriage lots of things matter like gender, age, marital status,,etc,,, All I'm saying is we're living in the 21st century and if you love some one for who they are mentally and emotionally nothing else should really matter. Or are we still living in times of intolerance and fear of things we don't fully understand? |
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it is whats on the inside when it comes to character and friendship when it comes to marriage lots of things matter like gender, age, marital status,,etc,,, All I'm saying is we're living in the 21st century and if you love some one for who they are mentally and emotionally nothing else should really matter. Or are we still living in times of intolerance and fear of things we don't fully understand? I love many people, I don't have a romantic relationship with any of them two different things,,, |
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Sometimes people find themselves in a screwed up situation. ..and do what they feel is right,and the time.
..even knowing others probably won't understand. I'm rambling...  what I mean to say is, go for it!:))) |
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all I can say is.. I have made a few woman rethink their sexuality..
.lol..... flipping pancakes... |
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all I can say is.. I have made a few woman rethink their sexuality.. .lol..... flipping pancakes... Uh huh...I so understand that statement that's probably how I ended up the way I am 
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I really have no idea if I would or not...
So easy to say "No friggin way!", but if you love someone ... would you really dump him/her? The whole thing with transgenders is that they have always felt like the other gender, often their entire lives, just caught in the wrong physical body. So a transgender male, could be far more masculine than a 'natural' male and vice versa ... Must be horrible to be stuck in a body that doesn't match with what you feel and know you are. Why should they have to suffer more? And in a way it's simply amazing that genitals can be 'transgendered' rather easily.. fully functional. But then again, everyone was female up to a point  But again, not entirely sure. Difficult to know the full implications. As for the "cheating" comments, to my mind that's bollox. Would you tell someone something that intimate and personal on a 1st date? Or a 5th? Get real! You wouldn't until you knew the other person had serious feelings and thus there being a chance of getting through the revelation. It's always hard to decide when you best tell certain things. ANd the bummer is, you only have one shot at it ... |
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or maybe the right body and a disturbed/confused mind
there is difference between being masculine or 'feeling' masculine, and being a male |
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I'm always torn about situations like this:
purge all over the new date or hold back and wait until the dating situation become a monogamous - long term relationship --- what to do, what to do? And yet when I've read about some politician that decided to have a 'GAY' relationship and got busted visa vie in the media and finally came out to his loving wife and they had to tell their children --- EGAD; my distain for all that horrid drama and the pain that those children were going to endure! Well, it pains me and it just pisses me beyond measure! But then again I hold honesty and TRUTH as a moral code so dear that it would break my heart if someone kept something such as this from me; 1. thinking that I would judge them so harshly and just dump them 2. that I wouldn't try to understand that our miracle in the womb gets f'd up sometimes and mistakes get made... That would be a difficult thing to work through for sure; but I've dealt with death of my loved one and those 2 years I'd have traded up any thing else if it had meant him still being here with me - ANYTHING!!! And having issues with his sexual organs would be the least of my concerns compared to the cancer eating away at his mouth - then his jaw bone - then to come roaring back and into his spine and eventually into his brain 2 yrs later! Isn't LOVE SUPPOSED TO BE MORE THEN JUST THE SEXUAL PART OF OUR EXISTANCE? |
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Scribes, Blue, and 2K come closest to expressing my thoughts and..... they are just thoughts which makes it even harder to articulate...Like Crystal said, being stuck in the wrong body can't be easy, but on the other hand it's not fair to misrepresent yourself either...The only issue I would have with the opening post scenario is this...If as a transgender you plan to date non transgender people, in my mind you would be obligated to tell them immediately...By immediately I mean "before" the first date...Anything less would be dishonest...Having said that, if I was attracted enough to consider dating "him", knowing the facts would probably not diminish that attraction...Plus, by choosing honesty up front, the opportunity for friendship would still exist if I did decide I couldn't handle it because trust would be intact....
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Edited by
unknown_romeo
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Sat 05/23/15 05:47 PM
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or maybe the right body and a disturbed/confused mind there is difference between being masculine or 'feeling' masculine, and being a male Well Ive seen some females that are more masculine then some males yet they straight & in happy relationships  |
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I would absolutely walk through fire for you girl.
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If you could just save me from reading this drivel......save me woman....OH God Save me!
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Good day my fellow people of mingle2, I want to start by acknowledging my loyal "Opinion Minions" that's give me the energy to keep posting the hot tea from my kitchen to the world. shots out to all my minions but I want to hit you over the head with a tricky topic which I very curious for your feedback. After the my last forum on "Tattoo Regrets" which was a hit with you guys but go in hard this time. Okay, what I'm about to post is not based on me or anyone but based on scenario. Let's say you dating a young lady or guy , & like my words in last forum you in love, you feel the butterflies in your soul, you think about them all day even when a song you like on the radio comes on all you picture is them. By now its getting serious, you ready to make it official & become a relationship. But wait!...wait! before you & your lover sit & talk he/ or she wants to come out with a little secret. Okay, what could be possibly that bad ...well, your lover comes out & tell you they want to be with you & even fell in love with you but they come out tell you they had a full sex change literally~! everything snipped..tucked rolled whatever ! legally they are the opposite sex. In your mind, for example, if she was a guy at one point , the mentality of a male will always be with us to a point. But on the other hand its legally a woman & vice versa if she had a legalize sex change. they are the opposite sex in every way. The way they talks, the clothes they wear, the heels or Nikes to prove it. Even how they treat you like its natural& great. Now ask yourself this do you accept your lover with this new revelation of truth? or to you shunned them, break it off with them, get angry, even assault them for deception. I also told myself that's a hard cup of tea to swallow, but that would be a path I have to cross for the answer. so my friends, tell me what would you do if this was your scenario or maybe you know somebody that's going thru this. Lets remember if you would or won't accept this doesn't mean you a certain way or mean, it an honest approach to a crazy situation....so spill the beans, tell me what you think.....can't wait to heaer ! I dont believe there is any way to be a 'woman' except being born with ovaries/vagina, no penis there is no way to be a 'man' except being born with penis , and no ovaries or vagina there are a million types of dress , action, and talk that both men and women can have that doesnt change their anatomy of being a man or woman,, n my eyes so, yes, if I dated what I thought was a man and found out their natural anatomy was actually female,, I would cut it off (the romance that is,,lol),,,,probably as friends, but over just the same I agree with Ms Harmony on this very well said. |
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