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Edited by
2Fly4Wings38
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Good Day my friends of M2, how you make out today? good I hope , well I'm going back to my format of my blending my hot tea topics of dating. I want to give you a scenario this one is based on me...Okay, about a year ago I was seeing this beautiful woman, she seems to be nice and she fell for me rather quickly. we would talk for hours on the phone. she would wish me a good night sleep & a good morning greeting every morning(aaaaww....so sweet I loved that!)
I met her off a phone chat line, I sent her a few pictures of me & she send a few to me via cell phone. I got to admit I started to really like this chick. One day she said she had something to tell me, so I was a little worried thinking " OMG, she breaking it off with me, she has a dude in her life, or she a man....ILL.... I didn't know...lol. So I listened, she told me in her own words" she really feeling me and I'm a great guy that's sexy and sweet". then she send another picture as we talking, Here it comes, she send me a picture of her in full Islamic garb on. I saw this was like OH S___T, I used to cuss then, at first I felt some kind of way about her coming out telling me she follows Islam. In spite that I still liked the girl so I turned a blind eye to it gave her fair shot with me. Later, it wasn't the religion of hers that I stop seeing her it was her lifestyle. She still wanted to hit the clubs, so-called friendly flirt, still receive calls from past men & men she come across in different cities she visits, Her job had her traveling to different cities,& only god knows what else. She wasn't giving me any reason to keep my mind at ease while we wasn't in each others presence. Another words she was giving me reasons for me to think I shouldn't trust her.She was quite wild for me and I just couldn't trust her the way I should or could. Now I am a newly follower of Christ I think about that and to be honest I don't think I would of gave her a fair shot for the simple fact I'm Christian number 1, #2 I could never be with a woman that follows a religion that think my religion less holy or my Jesus is not a savior. #3 Bottom line she was too wild for my style. Now My " Opinion Minions " what would you do if you was in my skin then..? Would you still date her in spite the dogma difference? Would you be like me thinking back now and wouldn't? How would you handle this if this was you? Telling all, I would love to hear your responses okay,& please be totally honest about this, lets have some fun & laughs on this one...... Later Gator! |
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Would You Do This? Depends on what it is. we would talk for hours on the phone I would not talk with someone for hours on the phone. I met her off a phone chat line I would not meet a woman off a phone chat line. I would not call a phone chat line. what would you do if you was in my skin then..? Exactly what you did. Because I'd be you. Otherwise I'd be buffalo Bill wearing your skin and more than likely I'd put her in a hole in my basement. Would you still date her in spite the dogma difference? No. It's not just "dogma" difference, it's a whole difference in culture. If there wasn't a difference in culture, and she dressed and acted as you imply, then she'd be the world's biggest hypocrite. And I'm only in the average hypocrite category....hmmm...still a cultural difference. How would you handle this if this was you? Stop calling her and stay off phone chat lines? Berate myself for believing I started a relationship on a phone chat line, sight unseen? |
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You could probably be friends if you manage to put your religious prejudices aside. Chance for a long term romance? Odds are no.
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.. Here it comes, she send me a picture of her in full Islamic garb on. Has she seen your getup? |
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when it comes to my faith, its a priority for me to be equally yoked
without a belief in jesus as savior, I couldn't consider anything serious. |
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when it comes to my faith, its a priority for me to be equally yoked without a belief in jesus as savior, I couldn't consider anything serious. This ^^^^ & the culture diffences, not worth even trying. And tbh, it is just too weird & dangerous to meet someone that way. Wait.... We're there any explosions, near bye, did she try to give you a package  ... jk. Sick joke, I know  I just don't understand why a woman of that Faith & in the garb... behave the way she did. From the phone chat line... to the present . 
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to ciretom
thank you for your view, I'm totally glad to hear I'm not the only one who stuck to his guns about my decision. don't get me wrong, I respect other religions.....I really do. I even can befriend or co work with Islamic folks rather they traditional middle eastern Muslims or American Muslims but far as being a companion romantically I can't. we would be uneven yolk. |
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To Soufiehere
yes she seen my crazy fashion sense she loved it......lol |
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Good Day my friends of M2, how you make out today? good I hope , well I'm going back to my format of my blending my hot tea topics of dating. I want to give you a scenario this one is based on me...Okay, about a year ago I was seeing this beautiful woman, she seems to be nice and she fell for me rather quickly. we would talk for hours on the phone. she would wish me a good night sleep & a good morning greeting every morning(aaaaww....so sweet I loved that!) I met her off a phone chat line, I sent her a few pictures of me & she send a few to me via cell phone. I got to admit I started to really like this chick. One day she said she had something to tell me, so I was a little worried thinking " OMG, she breaking it off with me, she has a dude in her life, or she a man....ILL.... I didn't know...lol. So I listened, she told me in her own words" she really feeling me and I'm a great guy that's sexy and sweet". then she send another picture as we talking, Here it comes, she send me a picture of her in full Islamic garb on. I saw this was like OH S___T, I used to cuss then, at first I felt some kind of way about her coming out telling me she follows Islam. In spite that I still liked the girl so I turned a blind eye to it gave her fair shot with me. Later, it wasn't the religion of hers that I stop seeing her it was her lifestyle. She still wanted to hit the clubs, so-called friendly flirt, still receive calls from past men & men she come across in different cities she visits, Her job had her traveling to different cities,& only god knows what else. She wasn't giving me any reason to keep my mind at ease while we wasn't in each others presence. Another words she was giving me reasons for me to think I shouldn't trust her.She was quite wild for me and I just couldn't trust her the way I should or could. Now I am a newly follower of Christ I think about that and to be honest I don't think I would of gave her a fair shot for the simple fact I'm Christian number 1, #2 I could never be with a woman that follows a religion that think my religion less holy or my Jesus is not a savior. #3 Bottom line she was too wild for my style. Now My " Opinion Minions " what would you do if you was in my skin then..? Would you still date her in spite the dogma difference? Would you be like me thinking back now and wouldn't? How would you handle this if this was you? Telling all, I would love to hear your responses okay,& please be totally honest about this, lets have some fun & laughs on this one...... Later Gator! I think if I were you I would stop vacillating and either walk the walk or quit talking the talk... 
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What's Up My Favorite Girl Ms. Harmony,
What's up my friend, I read your responses and you & me are on the right page. yeah it won't work and I truly believe in my lord as a Christian. I know some people who would just done the opposite. I do believe Jesus is mankind savior.......riiiigghhhtt |
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Sassy Euro
well I'm not worry top much of my safety on phone chat I very well trained in martial arts and I have my savior to protect me. really I tried to look past the difference but with her lifestyle the way it was she didn't make things easier neither. |
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Hi MotownDowntown
hey you well I don't know, maybe we could of been friends but she was the type if I kept it friends and she was fallen quickly for me If I was to date after her she would feel some kind of way and sabotage my LOVELIFE.... |
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I would just be friends with a woman of different dogma and culture than me. I am a believer in Jesus, too, and I would not give that up for no one either. I am not wild either.
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my other favorite " Opinion Minion " cajunman1985,
lol I feel you on that one.....let me ask you this why any other religion than yours? |
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Friendship with people of different religions and cultures shouldn't be a problem for anyone in my opinion, but a marriage/partnership is a very different matter, and for those that are religious and strong within their own faith it will probably make it impossible for them to marry someone equally religious and strong but of a different faith. Unless one of you is prepared to convert to the others religion, maybe it's better to remain having fun and laughs just as friends, and not become too serious about each other. Good luck, and I hope all goes well for you both whatever you decide to do. |
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^ Excellent points. I will add that converting may not be necessary as long as you both agree that the child will be raised in the faith of either the mother (this would be my preference in my case) or father. Or the children could be raised of mixed faiths but that usually leads to confusion.
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my other favorite " Opinion Minion " cajunman1985, lol I feel you on that one.....let me ask you this why any other religion than yours? |
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to "Mr. Duttoneer "
hi my friend, you know you right that's another way of putting I. I mean I don't have a problem being friends with another religion, I can respect those who are of other faiths but romantically , to me it seem to be a little hard to stay on my faith and learn or fet used to another. now remember I mentioned her fast lifestyle was too wild....so that didn't help much either. |
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Edited by
2Fly4Wings38
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Fri 07/10/15 01:12 PM
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to my boy Cajunman
you know what I feel the same way , let me give you example, you know all Muslims around the world would have to take a trip to the middle east for a huge mass prayer session once in there life. well supposed she wanted to take me with her not to the prayer grounds but afterwards and show me the sites and tourism. then a extreme Muslim or a country that think my faith as a Christian isn't holy and try to cast me out or kill me. I don't think I could accept that kind of treatment. could I honestly fall in love with a woman that her religion looks as mines as a so-call white man's religion, or evil, ot label my Jesus as just a man or prophet? no.....no.....Jesus is my savior, not a prophet! once you get pass the faith part, then its the personality difference. I'm settled, I like to hang with a few close friends, but I don't flirt when I'm involved or dating. I used to drink she drinks like a fish when she's drunk she get real crazy. so can you understand why I had to break it off with her. I mean it s was early so no hearts was broken |
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to my other favorite "Minion" Lamwholam 1
hey you , well I like how you see that too. thank god I haven't made children with her she was just a casual date which I started liking her but nothing too serious....... |
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