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| Topic: " I Made MY Decision...We Are Happy!" | |
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Edited by
2Fly4Wings38
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Good Morning on my Sabbath day of Saturday, just like I promise you all. Well all week I been getting mad feedback on the two women that was in my life it was a little messy situation but I needed my Opinion Minions to get me some advice, you all helped. So your boy made a adult decision among this two beautiful ladies. Before I reveal who I chose, I want to take a minute to thank you all and keep following me on my topics, okay. I based my decision on longevity, who was there for me , and care about & love. I also based on who I can see marrying one day & who's good with teenage sons. Plus my mom thought about who's good to me & for me. Okay, here's my revelation decision, your man 2Fly choose " Cindy". Why I choose my Cindy, well lets look at this for a minute. Did you notice when I refer to Cindy all week as " my Cindy". Two, my family loves her & my sons really grew to like her. Now I know you guys thinking she was the obvious choice but " Lacey" was a hard act to follow. I organized a meeting downtown at the dog park( Rittenhouse Square Park) Cindy met up with me and she looking hot as ever. I sat on a bench & your boy 2fly as ever so I brought a boutique of purple roses, a sterling anklet with my name on it, & we had lunch. I was honest with her & told her the whole situation I had to faced. Lucky for me she was very understanding & she asked me who will I choose. so I manned up & her I chose her. I told her I love her and no one will ever put us in a situation like this again I assured her. She kissed me, gave me a huge hug & and a very special" I Love You" to me. Of course I was happy, later this morning I called to meet with Lacey, this time we met at Starbucks Coffee house, lacey met with me and she was looking amazing but never less I had a mission to complete. We sat at a private table & your boy begin to tell her everything. I told her around the time I met you I didn't think my Cindy wanted to continue our relationship, so I had the impression that I was single again. she called me & we talked & realize we both never really left the relationship, it was a miss understanding. So I gently told her I was continuing seeing Cindy. Lacey gave me this face....but she thank me for being honest with her & she said well she wished me luck & if it don't work out give her a call, we both laughed but I assured her oh, its going to work out & I told her to take care of herself....that was it, so my friends I chose Cindy now I need you guys one more time, for those who are in or been in a healthy relationship, could you give me some tips & advice on how to keep us out the red & some friendly advice how continue to strengthen our union. thank yaw so much .....spill it....I'm dying to hear your advice tips & comments.
We will talk soon Thanks Again! 2Fly4wings38 |
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Handled it well with no hard feelings it seems.
Good luck for the future |
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joethebricky
yes thank you for that....well I'm a stand up guy, I didn't want to break anybody's heart and loose a good thing. |
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Good for you 2fly...i must admit, that situation went well. Very well. Give yourself a pat on the back.
Good luck on everything 
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Like I wrote on your other thread, that decision was a no brainer.
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Glad to hear that you actually meet with both face to face and told them the truth.. What a true man/woman would do.. As far as picking Cindy after your input of the situation between you and Cindy then of course I felt that was the one to go with..
But due to the miss communication that lead up to all this....... Best advice I can give is never ever stop communicating,,,,,,People that actually talk to each other about anything and everything are the ones that stay together the longest... Ohh and never forget even when angry how much you love that person and what made you fall in love with them...  Best wishes for you and Cindy... sounds like you almost lost one of the best things in your life.... you were given a second chance. Many do not get those, cherish what you have and don't ever forget how you almost lost someone special... 
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I organized a meeting downtown at the dog park... I brought...a sterling anklet with my name on it I just thought that was funny. It's like you brought her a dog collar. "If lost, contact the name on this collar." I'm just wondering if you met with "Cindy" first in case she got mad and dumped you, didn't accept the situation, that you could then get with "Lacey?" Even subconsciously? Would you still have broken up with "Lacey" if "Cindy" said "naw, I'm not having any of this games and melodrama business?" Oh well, I'll never know the truth. could you give me some tips & advice on how to continue to strengthen our union. Not really. Not very effectively. I have no idea what your current strengths and weaknesses are. At best I can offer platitudes like "ask her for tips and advice on how to continue to strengthen your union, rather than internet strangers." |
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I am happy for you and the decision you made. I wish you all the best during this time
After reading both posting, it sounded like a mills and boon book Or Days of our Lives drama It kept me interested All the best |
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Congrats :) And no matter how hot another woman may look, don't do anything that you may regret later on.
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I been reading your post for a while. I'm glad you meet with both and told them what was going on. Congrats to you Cindy! Best wishes!!
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Edited by
devildog123
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Sat 07/25/15 04:58 PM
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Plus my mom thought about who's good to me & for me
you got your mother involved in you decision making process? |
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^ That comment didn't come out right...
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^ That comment didn't come out right... How's that... better? ;) |
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I would like to commend you for being brave. I believe it is better to hurt a woman with the truth than make her happy with a lie. :) You are one brave man!
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Glad to hear you got your dilemma figured out 2Fly....best of luck on the future with "your"Cindy!
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Good Morning on my Sabbath day of Saturday, just like I promise you all. Well all week I been getting mad feedback on the two women that was in my life it was a little messy situation but I needed my Opinion Minions to get me some advice, you all helped. So your boy made a adult decision among this two beautiful ladies. Before I reveal who I chose, I want to take a minute to thank you all and keep following me on my topics, okay. I based my decision on longevity, who was there for me , and care about & love. I also based on who I can see marrying one day & who's good with teenage sons. Plus my mom thought about who's good to me & for me. Okay, here's my revelation decision, your man 2Fly choose " Cindy". Why I choose my Cindy, well lets look at this for a minute. Did you notice when I refer to Cindy all week as " my Cindy". Two, my family loves her & my sons really grew to like her. Now I know you guys thinking she was the obvious choice but " Lacey" was a hard act to follow. I organized a meeting downtown at the dog park( Rittenhouse Square Park) Cindy met up with me and she looking hot as ever. I sat on a bench & your boy 2fly as ever so I brought a boutique of purple roses, a sterling anklet with my name on it, & we had lunch. I was honest with her & told her the whole situation I had to faced. Lucky for me she was very understanding & she asked me who will I choose. so I manned up & her I chose her. I told her I love her and no one will ever put us in a situation like this again I assured her. She kissed me, gave me a huge hug & and a very special" I Love You" to me. Of course I was happy, later this morning I called to meet with Lacey, this time we met at Starbucks Coffee house, lacey met with me and she was looking amazing but never less I had a mission to complete. We sat at a private table & your boy begin to tell her everything. I told her around the time I met you I didn't think my Cindy wanted to continue our relationship, so I had the impression that I was single again. she called me & we talked & realize we both never really left the relationship, it was a miss understanding. So I gently told her I was continuing seeing Cindy. Lacey gave me this face....but she thank me for being honest with her & she said well she wished me luck & if it don't work out give her a call, we both laughed but I assured her oh, its going to work out & I told her to take care of herself....that was it, so my friends I chose Cindy now I need you guys one more time, for those who are in or been in a healthy relationship, could you give me some tips & advice on how to keep us out the red & some friendly advice how continue to strengthen our union. thank yaw so much .....spill it....I'm dying to hear your advice tips & comments. We will talk soon Thanks Again! 2Fly4wings38 Wait a lot to read and didn't hear the beginning. Were meeting in person with Cindy? Had you talked online through mingles first and for how long? Its a scene from last season with Chris AND a dozen single women . . . THE BACHELOR.. the idea that women will take #2 is crazy to me. |
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to pansytilly,
Thank you very much for the support, that's why I love doing this here it shows me its real everyday people with good hearts....shots out to you! |
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lamwholam1
really, I'm sorry I didn''t read that..... |
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To Txgal3333,
I heed the advice and I really appreciate that. you right, my Cindy was the girl who I really care about. sometimes the host of the hot tea topics needs advice as well.....that's how we communicate and learn from each other. Cindy is the type of girl that do anything for anybody with a good heart. I love that .. you know that old school courting....thanks again |
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to Ciretom
not quite like that, Cindy & I Lost touch with each other then we both assumed it was over. then she calls me and we realized we still loved and wanted to be with each other. then I met lacey , lets just say this it was a ball of mess and I straighten it out now and everyone's supports us and we happy |
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