what kind of character ur personality traits do you look for or expect?

I want a man that is good in decision making.

I want a man to see me as I am. Not a shadow of a do-goeder degree holder Psychologist.

I want a man who can diffirentiate me from Ms. God-fearing Psychologist.
(though I can understand at some point why he got confused, I would expect at least
he would hold back judgement and check properly before he judged me harshly)

I want a man who can see me as woman who does not embrace faith and God but believes in goodness and accountability.

I want a man who can identify me that I HAVE NEVER BEEN A PSYCHOLOGIST.I did not even finish College.
That I always have been who I have presented myself to be.

I want a man who is objective enough to CHECK my IP address if it is even the same as Ms. God fearing Psychologist,
if he has means. And if he doesnt have, will hold back being harsh and let time tell.


I want a man who is objective enough to CHECK the IP addresses of those newbies who sounded pathetically like me and COMPARE it with
my IP address, if he has means to check it. CHECK EACH AT LEAST BEFORE JUDGING ME.
If he does not have a way to check it, I would at least hope that he will not make harsh comments.

I want a man to at least be objective while I am still figuring out,
why there is a MUDSLINGING.
what have i done to deserve it.because as far as I know it was just a petty disagreeement (i still cant figure out what's the cause)
I even reached out in the forum- but no..
Price of reaching out in the forum-MUDSLINGING.

I want a man who does NOT see me as a victim of any manipulation but as someone just misunderstood.

I want a man who knows at least that I NEVER NEVER lead on anyone.

I want a man who knows at least that every time I read a post and it is obvious it is for me,
I ran in the opposite direction and NEVER COMMENTED on it, even if all the good-intentioned women,
flock and praise that post. BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO LEAD ON ANYONE.

I want a man who knows at least by now that when I have a Mingle crush, I go to his thread, ask him if his songs
are for me. Even if I am rejected, at least it was clear. it happened in the forum.

I want a man to hold his judgement AND NOT CONFUSED ME ALWAYS with a God-fearing Psychologist.

I want a man to see that I have PRACTICALLY DONE everything to tell Mingle that I ALWAYS HAVE ONLY 1 ACCOUNT 1 USERNAME.

I want a man who believes me that I am Jane.

(Guess that is too much to ask)

Uh drama over load often?

what kind of character ur personality traits do you look for or expect?

what kind of character or personality traits do you look for or expect?

Uh drama over load often?

i think so..

Me too sweetheart. I have to learn how to post without the dramatics:)

easy, all I want is genuine, genuine to themselves and to others. and preferably they're genuinely kind to others.

but that's harder than it sounds

examples
don't tell me what you think I want to hear,

tell me what you want to say, even when you don't think I want to hear it.

if you hate the TV show im addicted to, tell me so, and understand that while I probably won't give it up....at least I know

and if I know perhaps I'll make a greater effort to suffer through one of your shows that I despise...point is just be true, honest, and genuine

what kind of character ur personality traits do you look for or expect?

You should dig up the vent threads Chronic, they are there for therapeutic rants

i think so..