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^^^hahahahahahahahahahahaha He makes it sound really sexy, doesn't he?! |
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He makes it sound really sexy, doesn't he?! He do :-) |
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If every other man, thought the way you did, about fat women, the men would leave their women, as soon as she gets pregnant. I think you're a time bomb waiting to happen.
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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Thu 03/03/16 04:08 PM
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I think calling women fat/fluffy/curvy etc and them responding with venom actually tells me a bit about how that women feels about herself and how much of her identity she attaches to that feature.
I've dated all sizes, personally prefer larger women but I'm VERY PICKY about how they present themselves, and unfortunately a lot of larger have personality issues Because of their weight. One of my teachers, straight from south Africa has a PHYSICAL preference for larger women, but he won't date a larger women from America because they lack confidence and don't believe him when he compliments them and tells them that they're beautiful to him, they refuse to see themselves that way and THAT attitude becomes unattractive. This guy has a preference, nobody is going to jump down his throat for saying he prefers large women, but if he says he prefers skinny women, everyone is irked. Same thing with any other preference, it depends on what side you land on whether or not you are going to get hammered. |
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Edited by
realcarebear
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Thu 03/03/16 05:08 PM
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I don't get why people are bothered if someone that doesn't meet their personal criteria messages them. Especially when they don't specify their preferences in their profile. I mean If you don't like something don't go there. Why do people feel the need to say why they're not interested in another. How dare you find me attractive when you have that big mole on your face that reminds me of a rotted hamburger patty. Look its a compliment that someone finds you attractive. .. Just say not interested and go on.
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After being on this dating site for a couple of years now - why is it 99 & 3/4 % of all women seeking a man for dating are fat? I just want to know what the connection is. And why is it women also almost always use a fake picture on their profile picture, a photo stolen from the internet and used by them. Why? Why can't women just be themselves and show themselves as how they really are? As 'who' they really are? I mean men have to be getting tired of all the ********. So how many years have you been on this site by the way...well same goes with men in here 98% are scammers and use fake pics in here, I just realized it after I got scammed just before Christmas of 2015 but I didn't give up on this site because of the forums which gave me a lot of information on how to identify scammers; thanks to them and some good laughs as well in the forum replies and comments....Kudos to all the real people in here and most especially to the site moderators and organizers   |
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After being on this dating site for a couple of years now - why is it 99 & 3/4 % of all women seeking a man for dating are fat? I just want to know what the connection is. And why is it women also almost always use a fake picture on their profile picture, a photo stolen from the internet and used by them. Why? Why can't women just be themselves and show themselves as how they really are? As 'who' they really are? I mean men have to be getting tired of all the ********. Well they can't win with you, you want them real but not fat..got a mirror? Nice one....lolzzz.. I guess his mirror is hanged at the backyard   |
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After being on this dating site for a couple of years now - why is it 99 & 3/4 % of all women seeking a man for dating are fat? I just want to know what the connection is. And why is it women also almost always use a fake picture on their profile picture, a photo stolen from the internet and used by them. Why? Why can't women just be themselves and show themselves as how they really are? As 'who' they really are? I mean men have to be getting tired of all the ********. So how many years have you been on this site by the way...well same goes with men in here 98% are scammers and use fake pics in here, I just realized it after I got scammed just before Christmas of 2015 but I didn't give up on this site because of the forums which gave me a lot of information on how to identify scammers; thanks to them and some good laughs as well in the forum replies and comments....Kudos to all the real people in here and most especially to the site moderators and organizers I hereby second this motion!
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This is my situation:
I can't get anywhere because I am not "Hard" or a Drugdealer I am not Confidence or Cocky I am not that kind of person that beat the crap out of their partner to get her thinking "why are all guys the same" My biggest issue though is the confidence. I can't ask someone out, I have fear of rejection and in an endless circle of wanting someone to spend the rest of my life with but too scared to talk to someone I like. On the flip side when it comes to dating websites (because it seems like every girl in the world is taken and every guy I know is single) The only ones that aren't taken are either Fat (40%) Ugly (40%) Bi Polar (17%) or genuinely F*cking Insane B*tches (3%) or a combination of the above However the only ones that I ever seem to get anywhere with are those on 3%. This has got me thinking though that maybe I need to stop judging a book by its cover on the other 80%. Perhaps Ugly isn't something that can change but Fat is. Maybe I could encourage someone I sort of like that is Fat to lose some weight (not likely) However here is my mind blowing logic. Perhaps the reason the Fat, Ugly ones are left is for a perfectly logical reason. Because those that are taken are the pretty ones on the outside. The ones that aren't I could probably guarentee are pretty on the inside. The big problem for me is that there doesn't seem to be ANY that are half pretty on the outside and half pretty on the inside, This would be PERFECT! Full of extremes and none that are even any close representation on the worlds most horrible word of NORMAL! |
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Edited by
peggy122
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Fri 03/04/16 06:18 AM
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I think calling women fat/fluffy/curvy etc and them responding with venom actually tells me a bit about how that women feels about herself and how much of her identity she attaches to that feature. I've dated all sizes, personally prefer larger women but I'm VERY PICKY about how they present themselves, and unfortunately a lot of larger have personality issues Because of their weight. One of my teachers, straight from south Africa has a PHYSICAL preference for larger women, but he won't date a larger women from America because they lack confidence and don't believe him when he compliments them and tells them that they're beautiful to him, they refuse to see themselves that way and THAT attitude becomes unattractive. This guy has a preference, nobody is going to jump down his throat for saying he prefers large women, but if he says he prefers skinny women, everyone is irked. Same thing with any other preference, it depends on what side you land on whether or not you are going to get hammered. It is not the FACT of airing ones preferences that is offensive to the women here. It is THE MANNER in which these preferences are aired. If a woman were to use a thread to comment on her frustration over the underwhelming sizes of men's weiners and stated her preference for girth in a man's package, I would LOVE to view the men's objective responses to her "honesty" , I started a thread asking "what were the benefits a man offered outside of financial provision and procreation purposes"? .I did this without giving a preamble about how wonderful I perceive their contributions to be, which I do, and interestingly enough, 95% of the men, rather than calmly stating all that they had to offer as men, went on the defensive and responded with sarcasm. It was only when I explained my positive take on male contributions that the men started giving well- thought -out and objective responses. If a woman were to pick the OP's profile pic apart and openly mention the features on HIM and 100s of other men in this chatroom that do not conform to her preferences (from unkempt grooming , to balding to bulging beer bellies) the male respondents would be at her throat in a hot minute. Stop fooling yourselves guys, and get over yourselves... For every flaw that a man points out on a woman in ' honesty' , a woman can find 5 corresponding flaws on him. The more decent female majority among us, are just too classy to point out those flaws/preferences in a public thread, in a DEROGATORY MANNER . |
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golly I am gonna get a t shirt made like this
Fat (40%) Ugly (40%) Bi Polar (17%) or genuinely F*cking Insane B*tche (3%) except that bottom percentage might be higher 
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Edited by
peggy122
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Fri 03/04/16 06:04 AM
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Edited by
peggy122
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Fri 03/04/16 08:05 AM
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This is my situation: I can't get anywhere because I am not "Hard" or a Drugdealer I am not Confidence or Cocky I am not that kind of person that beat the crap out of their partner to get her thinking "why are all guys the same" My biggest issue though is the confidence. I can't ask someone out, I have fear of rejection and in an endless circle of wanting someone to spend the rest of my life with but too scared to talk to someone I like. On the flip side when it comes to dating websites (because it seems like every girl in the world is taken and every guy I know is single) The only ones that aren't taken are either Fat (40%) Ugly (40%) Bi Polar (17%) or genuinely F*cking Insane B*tches (3%) or a combination of the above However the only ones that I ever seem to get anywhere with are those on 3%. This has got me thinking though that maybe I need to stop judging a book by its cover on the other 80%. Perhaps Ugly isn't something that can change but Fat is. Maybe I could encourage someone I sort of like that is Fat to lose some weight (not likely) However here is my mind blowing logic. Perhaps the reason the Fat, Ugly ones are left is for a perfectly logical reason. Because those that are taken are the pretty ones on the outside. The ones that aren't I could probably guarentee are pretty on the inside. The big problem for me is that there doesn't seem to be ANY that are half pretty on the outside and half pretty on the inside, This would be PERFECT! Full of extremes and none that are even any close representation on the worlds most horrible word of NORMAL! There is no co-relation between a person's looks and their personality hun. In the first place, external beauty or ugliness are all the eyes of the beholder. I have pointed out men in movies who I consider to be handsome, while my friends snorted and condemned me for lack of good taste Secondly , there is no major co relation between a person's external looks and their inner personalities. A supposedly "ugly" person could have EITHER a great personality or a terrible personality. We also can not assume that a supposedly "gorgeous" person is dumb or unkind. Thirdly,successful dating is partially about 2 people having mutual feelings and attraction for each other, and that chemistry as we call it, is unpredictable and very much based on perceptions. A man for example ,may perceive himself as handsome on both the outside and the inside, but the woman he likes may not have a similar perception of him and may not be attracted to him in return. The feelings, where looks and personalities are concerned have to be MUTUAL for the man and woman to be a good match. And finally, sometimes mutual chemistry isnt ONLY based on looks and personality. It is often based on common interests, goals and lifestyles. Two people may be a good match in terms of physical and personality attraction, but may want completely different things out of life, or their lifestyles may clash. A person may prefer to stay home all the time for example, and the other likes to go out and socialise a lot, and they struggle to strike a happy balance OR their religious beliefs might be conflicting. The dynamic of dating is way more complex than you have described Lu10nt. And most of the people here including myself are still in the process of figuring it out. I suspect that if most of us had it all figured out, we wouldn't be divorced, or recovering from a series of break ups or even looking for that special someone ON THE INTERNET Try to separate yourself from all those negative stereoptypes you described , and try to enjoy your life and your journey hun. The right match for you may come along when you are not even looking.  |
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After being on this dating site for a couple of years now - why is it 99 & 3/4 % of all women seeking a man for dating are fat? I just want to know what the connection is. And why is it women also almost always use a fake picture on their profile picture, a photo stolen from the internet and used by them. Why? Why can't women just be themselves and show themselves as how they really are? As 'who' they really are? I mean men have to be getting tired of all the ********. Bashing is not good when you yourself ain't perfect!!! To each his own dude....  But I kind of wonder how you got your statistics of 99% and 3/4? Lolzzzzz.... you should have been doing a lot of data entry each day and talking to like almost 100% of people on this site??? Hmmmmmm (guess you're not sleeping at all too....lolzzz). One more thing!!!...I guess you're in the wrong side of the Earth Man, maybe you'll find what you're looking for in Mars, they are skinny and tight over there...lolzzzz... 
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Tommy, Youtube this tune......In complete darkness and listen to the words. The irony is that it is made by a DJ called the Fat controller ;-) Then youtube Orca 4am.....
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everybody...join in !!!
C'mon... Oh...wont you take me home tonight ? Oh...down beside your red firelight.. Oh.....and you give it all you got... Fat bottomed girls you make the rockin' world go round Fat bottomed girls you make the rockin' world go round...........Queen
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This is my situation: I can't get anywhere because I am not "Hard" or a Drugdealer I am not Confidence or Cocky I am not that kind of person that beat the crap out of their partner to get her thinking "why are all guys the same" My biggest issue though is the confidence. I can't ask someone out, I have fear of rejection and in an endless circle of wanting someone to spend the rest of my life with but too scared to talk to someone I like. On the flip side when it comes to dating websites (because it seems like every girl in the world is taken and every guy I know is single) The only ones that aren't taken are either Fat (40%) Ugly (40%) Bi Polar (17%) or genuinely F*cking Insane B*tches (3%) or a combination of the above However the only ones that I ever seem to get anywhere with are those on 3%. This has got me thinking though that maybe I need to stop judging a book by its cover on the other 80%. Perhaps Ugly isn't something that can change but Fat is. Maybe I could encourage someone I sort of like that is Fat to lose some weight (not likely) However here is my mind blowing logic. Perhaps the reason the Fat, Ugly ones are left is for a perfectly logical reason. Because those that are taken are the pretty ones on the outside. The ones that aren't I could probably guarentee are pretty on the inside. The big problem for me is that there doesn't seem to be ANY that are half pretty on the outside and half pretty on the inside, This would be PERFECT! Full of extremes and none that are even any close representation on the worlds most horrible word of NORMAL! You forgot to add that the grapes are sour. 
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This is my situation: I can't get anywhere because I am not "Hard" or a Drugdealer I am not Confidence or Cocky I am not that kind of person that beat the crap out of their partner to get her thinking "why are all guys the same" My biggest issue though is the confidence. I can't ask someone out, I have fear of rejection and in an endless circle of wanting someone to spend the rest of my life with but too scared to talk to someone I like. On the flip side when it comes to dating websites (because it seems like every girl in the world is taken and every guy I know is single) The only ones that aren't taken are either Fat (40%) Ugly (40%) Bi Polar (17%) or genuinely F*cking Insane B*tches (3%) or a combination of the above However the only ones that I ever seem to get anywhere with are those on 3%. This has got me thinking though that maybe I need to stop judging a book by its cover on the other 80%. Perhaps Ugly isn't something that can change but Fat is. Maybe I could encourage someone I sort of like that is Fat to lose some weight (not likely) However here is my mind blowing logic. Perhaps the reason the Fat, Ugly ones are left is for a perfectly logical reason. Because those that are taken are the pretty ones on the outside. The ones that aren't I could probably guarentee are pretty on the inside. The big problem for me is that there doesn't seem to be ANY that are half pretty on the outside and half pretty on the inside, This would be PERFECT! Full of extremes and none that are even any close representation on the worlds most horrible word of NORMAL! You forgot to add that the grapes are sour. Speak for yourself lol Mine haven't been used but they will eventually reach their expiry date if I don't find someone but its not like just anyone will do. Doesn't help things when I was pressured by my dad whilst growing up to "carry on the family name" LOL |
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everybody...join in !!! C'mon... Oh...wont you take me home tonight ? Oh...down beside your red firelight.. Oh.....and you give it all you got... Fat bottomed girls you make the rockin' world go round Fat bottomed girls you make the rockin' world go round...........Queen
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he says 99% percent of the women
so does that mean he met the 99% of the women on this site, otherwise he wouldn't know. wowww  he must be fast. |
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