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Robxbox73's photo
Fri 03/11/16 09:19 PM



An interest in "Penis-Size"? NOT! How about A search on "Brain-Size"[Capacity]...? *Grins*
I wish to hell that someone would invent & include an algorithm that I could use in searching for available MEN that would include a criteria for intellect, honesty, self-awareness,sincerity, empathy, wit, common sense, & compassion.
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I have found that so many men use words to describe themselves in their profiles that are totally untrue. In a way I suppose it's a better thing that most MALE profiles are incomplete, totally vague or are not filled-out at all.laugh


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To The Op:
This Woman of Substance, Quality, & Intellect[Me~Myself~I] finds your pre-occupation with such an insignificant physical attribute to be disturbing. Your selection of such a superficial topic in reference to the female gender serves to invoke in this reader, a suspicion that your intellect may be extremely limited or compromised in addition to a slight feeling of disgusted contempt in reference to your character. It should not have to be stated that most discerning & logical individuals would select to not pursue any further contact & avoid any individuals who would display such overt negative characteristics. Obviously, in the fact that I harbor an unwillingness to have any further discourse with such an individual;the size of his male organ is of no consequence for any further speculation.





Valeris loved your post! On point my dear. Frankly the OP is just a silly man. He is obviously devoid of any human compassion. Good luck in your hunt for a companion. If I were you, I would invest in one of those prosthetic sex dummies. I would imagine that will be the only option left to such a bereft soul. spock

adivorcedone's photo
Fri 03/11/16 11:36 PM




An interest in "Penis-Size"? NOT! How about A search on "Brain-Size"[Capacity]...? *Grins*
I wish to hell that someone would invent & include an algorithm that I could use in searching for available MEN that would include a criteria for intellect, honesty, self-awareness,sincerity, empathy, wit, common sense, & compassion.
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I have found that so many men use words to describe themselves in their profiles that are totally untrue. In a way I suppose it's a better thing that most MALE profiles are incomplete, totally vague or are not filled-out at all.laugh


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Yup, the kind you can seat beside you...just so you can use the HOV lanes, to speed along...lol !!
To The Op:
This Woman of Substance, Quality, & Intellect[Me~Myself~I] finds your pre-occupation with such an insignificant physical attribute to be disturbing. Your selection of such a superficial topic in reference to the female gender serves to invoke in this reader, a suspicion that your intellect may be extremely limited or compromised in addition to a slight feeling of disgusted contempt in reference to your character. It should not have to be stated that most discerning & logical individuals would select to not pursue any further contact & avoid any individuals who would display such overt negative characteristics. Obviously, in the fact that I harbor an unwillingness to have any further discourse with such an individual;the size of his male organ is of no consequence for any further speculation.





Valeris loved your post! On point my dear. Frankly the OP is just a silly man. He is obviously devoid of any human compassion. Good luck in your hunt for a companion. If I were you, I would invest in one of those prosthetic sex dummies. I would imagine that will be the only option left to such a bereft soul. spock

Conrad_73's photo
Sat 03/12/16 12:31 AM
seems Sybaritic has hit a Raw Nerve!


peggy122's photo
Sat 03/12/16 04:40 AM
Edited by peggy122 on Sat 03/12/16 05:25 AM




You're a great catch Sybaritic guy.

Attractive...

Intelligent...

Worldly...

All you're missing is CLASS.

Don't be discouraged.

At the age 66, there is still time to learn it

Good luck to you Sir flowerforyou

A clever but innocuous response that is passive aggressive and in no way addresses the aforementioned ideas but rather seeks to amuse with a social evaluation.. opinions vary....


I don't know if my response was clever, but I agree it was certainly irrelevant to your question OP: laugh:

The attitude you displayed here has become a pet peeve of mine.I actually devoted a thread to this type of scenario last week .

http://mingle2.com/topic/472923

There is nothing wrong with having preferences OP, but if we all decide to criticize the people outside of our preference bracket, everybody could end up feeling picked on and marginalized..

Within seconds of looking at your pictures OP , I identified features on you that do not conform to my preferences. You can no doubt look at my pics and find parts of me that do not impress you as well.

What if I decided to call out the parts of you that are unimpressive to me as you did for the group of women who werent impressive to you, and asked mingle in an open forum to include filters on your features that do not make someone else's grade?

Wouldn't that be tacky of me if I did that?

Obesity is not the only item that makes the list of undesirables for some people.

There are other features considered equally undesirable by others ,that people can easily conceal in their pics , including beer bellies, double chins , bald spots at the centre of the head, problematic teeth, undesirable weiner sizes or boob sizes etc.

Anyone who doesnt have a preference for those features could also go on a thread asking for those items to be included in a filter.

It would be a honest expression of preferences just like you did in this thread, but does that act not seem unclassy and uncalled for to you?


You forgot to mention 'stuck up attitude'... a filter for that would be nice too laugh




To be honest , I have read many of the OP's posts and he really does come across as imperious and condescending, although I am sure it is not his intention. But to be fair , maybe people who read my posts also think that I come across as imperious and stuck up too. Sometimes one's tones and intentions can be easily lost in written words.I can certainly relate to that.

I just wish he would use his intelligence to uplift people more .

In his profile, he says he is a gentleman.

I understand that people will have varying perceptions of what a gentleman is, but I always thought that essentially, gentlemen were considerate about the feelings of others and affirming to ALL women.

I hope the way he came across in this thread was just a misinterpretation on our part, and that he is in fact the gentleman that he says that he is.


adivorcedone's photo
Sat 03/12/16 04:46 AM
I cannot believe this thread is still alive...what with all the ladies getting in on the action. So either it really hit a nerve, like previous poster said, or it all this wild and speculative talk about penis size, being thrown around...just saying....lol..

Frankk1950's photo
Sat 03/12/16 05:14 AM

I cannot believe this thread is still alive...what with all the ladies getting in on the action. So either it really hit a nerve, like previous poster said, or it all this wild and speculative talk about penis size, being thrown around...just saying....lol..


It is not speculative talk.These ladies are speaking from first hand experience.Well on second thoughts maybe some of it is second hand.:wink: drinker

TMommy's photo
Sat 03/12/16 06:13 AM





Mysteriousnameagain's photo
Sat 03/12/16 06:18 AM
You're just being ridiculous it's a fair thing to add. A lot of people are very deceptive about this and I consider my time to have value and I don't want to waste it if someone if falsely representing themselves. If you have a problem with being completely honest upfront that's a you issue.

peggy122's photo
Sat 03/12/16 06:39 AM
Edited by peggy122 on Sat 03/12/16 07:01 AM

I cannot believe this thread is still alive...what with all the ladies getting in on the action. So either it really hit a nerve, like previous poster said, or it all this wild and speculative talk about penis size, being thrown around...just saying....lol..




There are certain physicalities when it comes to discussions on beauty that will always hit a nerve with people , no matter how thick skinned we THINK that we are.

I have also noticed that there is often a link between the battle of the sexes as it relates to judgments regarding beauty superiority .

The value of men historically have generally NOT been measured by their looks or the size of their bodies, BUT they have been judged by the size of their wallets and the size of their penises.

When a woman challenges the size of a man's penis or the size of his wallet, men generally perceive it as an attack on their manhood and immediately get on the defensive.

Meanwhile historically many women have felt demoted by men based on society's limited standards of beauty . Having a thicker body seems to be the most insulted physicality on the beauty spectrum.

I know people will call me to task on this , but I really believe that the word 'fat' has become a very ugly word .

In theory , fat is a generic adjective like any other generic adjective like skinny, tall, short etc.

But unlike those other descriptions, the word "fat" has never been associated with anything positive, and has in fact typically been used as part of insulting conjunction terms such as :-

fat and ugly
fat and stupid
fat and sloppy
fat and lazy
fat and useless

So the word fat , even when used with the purest of intentions will not go down well with the average woman , especially when the word fat is often used to describe people with a 10-15 pound weight gain, which many women are prone to because of PMS , baby weight, thyroid issues or being on certain types of birth control pills . This means that ultimately, women are vulnerable to being one menstrual cycle or one baby away from being called fat, in conjunction with all the other derogatory terms I mentioned above. Doesnt that give women cause for some degree of insecurity in that regard?

Meanwhile, my last boyfriend was skinny with a huge pot belly. He was the one that used to poke fun at himself, but I adored him, even though pot bellies on men arent appealing to me. I know many men with his body type ie slim with a beer belly but they NEVER get called to task on it, although research is increasingly indicating that such physicalities are symptomatic of deeper problematic health issues.

I have even noticed that people will scorn the overweight person for their lack of discipline in their eating habits, whereas a chain smoker gets a free pass for his/her indiscipline of not being able to put a cigarette down. Why is that so? Is it that society is more concerned about the competition between who looks 'sexier' on their way to the grave, whether it be death by chain smoking or death by overeating?

Please understand I am not condemning overweight people or chain smokers here.

My brother is a chain smoker. My sister is overweight . And I used to observe from the sidelines how people would be condemning of one and compassionate of the other. I felt that both deserved understanding, and I hated the unfairness of it all.

I don't care how thick-skinned people think they are. Women will always be PARTICULARLY sensitive to the issue of weight and men will always be PARTICULARLY sensitive to the issue of penis size and wallet size because at the end of the today society often measures our worth based on those attributes.


Robxbox73's photo
Sat 03/12/16 07:53 AM








Oh man this post is funny. :tongue: happy laugh surprised

peggy122's photo
Sat 03/12/16 05:34 PM





An interest in "Penis-Size"? NOT! How about A search on "Brain-Size"[Capacity]...? *Grins*
I wish to hell that someone would invent & include an algorithm that I could use in searching for available MEN that would include a criteria for intellect, honesty, self-awareness,sincerity, empathy, wit, common sense, & compassion.
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I have found that so many men use words to describe themselves in their profiles that are totally untrue. In a way I suppose it's a better thing that most MALE profiles are incomplete, totally vague or are not filled-out at all.laugh


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Yup, the kind you can seat beside you...just so you can use the HOV lanes, to speed along...lol !!
To The Op:
This Woman of Substance, Quality, & Intellect[Me~Myself~I] finds your pre-occupation with such an insignificant physical attribute to be disturbing. Your selection of such a superficial topic in reference to the female gender serves to invoke in this reader, a suspicion that your intellect may be extremely limited or compromised in addition to a slight feeling of disgusted contempt in reference to your character. It should not have to be stated that most discerning & logical individuals would select to not pursue any further contact & avoid any individuals who would display such overt negative characteristics. Obviously, in the fact that I harbor an unwillingness to have any further discourse with such an individual;the size of his male organ is of no consequence for any further speculation.





Valeris loved your post! On point my dear. Frankly the OP is just a silly man. He is obviously devoid of any human compassion. Good luck in your hunt for a companion. If I were you, I would invest in one of those prosthetic sex dummies. I would imagine that will be the only option left to such a bereft soul. spock




This was a great post Valeris.:thumbsup:

I dont think the OP is lacking intelligence though.

I don't even think he is bereft of a soul like you said Rob.

It really isn't wrong to have preferences or even to state them .

The OP is just sorta tacky and hasn't thought out the full implications of his suggestions.

If mingles were to include all the details that allowed ALL users to filter out undesirables, in all fairness, mingles would have to include Chest, waist and hip measurements, as well as length and girth of penis.

I guarantee you there will be a dozen new threads a day whining about the number of men whose profile information about their weiners flattered only to deceive :wink:

metalwing's photo
Sat 03/12/16 05:58 PM
His obvious reply!



peggy122's photo
Sat 03/12/16 06:11 PM

His obvious reply!





laugh

Robxbox73's photo
Sat 03/12/16 06:44 PM






An interest in "Penis-Size"? NOT! How about A search on "Brain-Size"[Capacity]...? *Grins*
I wish to hell that someone would invent & include an algorithm that I could use in searching for available MEN that would include a criteria for intellect, honesty, self-awareness,sincerity, empathy, wit, common sense, & compassion.
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I have found that so many men use words to describe themselves in their profiles that are totally untrue. In a way I suppose it's a better thing that most MALE profiles are incomplete, totally vague or are not filled-out at all.laugh


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Yup, the kind you can seat beside you...just so you can use the HOV lanes, to speed along...lol !!
To The Op:
This Woman of Substance, Quality, & Intellect[Me~Myself~I] finds your pre-occupation with such an insignificant physical attribute to be disturbing. Your selection of such a superficial topic in reference to the female gender serves to invoke in this reader, a suspicion that your intellect may be extremely limited or compromised in addition to a slight feeling of disgusted contempt in reference to your character. It should not have to be stated that most discerning & logical individuals would select to not pursue any further contact & avoid any individuals who would display such overt negative characteristics. Obviously, in the fact that I harbor an unwillingness to have any further discourse with such an individual;the size of his male organ is of no consequence for any further speculation.





Valeris loved your post! On point my dear. Frankly the OP is just a silly man. He is obviously devoid of any human compassion. Good luck in your hunt for a companion. If I were you, I would invest in one of those prosthetic sex dummies. I would imagine that will be the only option left to such a bereft soul. spock




This was a great post Valeris.:thumbsup:

I dont think the OP is lacking intelligence though.

I don't even think he is bereft of a soul like you said Rob.

It really isn't wrong to have preferences or even to state them .

The OP is just sorta tacky and hasn't thought out the full implications of his suggestions.

If mingles were to include all the details that allowed ALL users to filter out undesirables, in all fairness, mingles would have to include Chest, waist and hip measurements, as well as length and girth of penis.

I guarantee you there will be a dozen new threads a day whining about the number of men whose profile information about their weiners flattered only to deceive :wink:


Bereft definition:

deprived of or lacking something, especially a nonmaterial asset.
"her room was stark and bereft of color"
synonyms: deprived of, robbed of, stripped of, devoid of, bankrupt of;

Sry Peggy, gotta disagree with you on this. There's an old saying in West Texas. He ain't got no horse sense. He is bereft, of a moral compass. Tacky? Nope that you can let pass. He has a certain tone of a person who's used to paying his way out of a jam. No social graces. Bumps into people and expects them to apologize. Sorry Peggy. You should not make excuses for him. Even at his age, he can learn a lesson.

Kindlightheart's photo
Sat 03/12/16 06:45 PM
I guess if a person wants to be deceitful in their profiles on dating sites they should always expect some kind of negative feedback...it may seem harsh to be specific about what you're attracted to but at least if you do wind up on a date you can be prepared with the thought that you might not be said persons cup of tea...if I read that a guy is into "perfect smiles" or has a foot fetish I will skip right by..lol..:wink:flowerforyou

peggy122's photo
Sat 03/12/16 07:00 PM







An interest in "Penis-Size"? NOT! How about A search on "Brain-Size"[Capacity]...? *Grins*
I wish to hell that someone would invent & include an algorithm that I could use in searching for available MEN that would include a criteria for intellect, honesty, self-awareness,sincerity, empathy, wit, common sense, & compassion.
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I have found that so many men use words to describe themselves in their profiles that are totally untrue. In a way I suppose it's a better thing that most MALE profiles are incomplete, totally vague or are not filled-out at all.laugh


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Yup, the kind you can seat beside you...just so you can use the HOV lanes, to speed along...lol !!
To The Op:
This Woman of Substance, Quality, & Intellect[Me~Myself~I] finds your pre-occupation with such an insignificant physical attribute to be disturbing. Your selection of such a superficial topic in reference to the female gender serves to invoke in this reader, a suspicion that your intellect may be extremely limited or compromised in addition to a slight feeling of disgusted contempt in reference to your character. It should not have to be stated that most discerning & logical individuals would select to not pursue any further contact & avoid any individuals who would display such overt negative characteristics. Obviously, in the fact that I harbor an unwillingness to have any further discourse with such an individual;the size of his male organ is of no consequence for any further speculation.





Valeris loved your post! On point my dear. Frankly the OP is just a silly man. He is obviously devoid of any human compassion. Good luck in your hunt for a companion. If I were you, I would invest in one of those prosthetic sex dummies. I would imagine that will be the only option left to such a bereft soul. spock




This was a great post Valeris.:thumbsup:

I dont think the OP is lacking intelligence though.

I don't even think he is bereft of a soul like you said Rob.

It really isn't wrong to have preferences or even to state them .

The OP is just sorta tacky and hasn't thought out the full implications of his suggestions.

If mingles were to include all the details that allowed ALL users to filter out undesirables, in all fairness, mingles would have to include Chest, waist and hip measurements, as well as length and girth of penis.

I guarantee you there will be a dozen new threads a day whining about the number of men whose profile information about their weiners flattered only to deceive :wink:


Bereft definition:

deprived of or lacking something, especially a nonmaterial asset.
"her room was stark and bereft of color"
synonyms: deprived of, robbed of, stripped of, devoid of, bankrupt of;

Sry Peggy, gotta disagree with you on this. There's an old saying in West Texas. He ain't got no horse sense. He is bereft, of a moral compass. Tacky? Nope that you can let pass. He has a certain tone of a person who's used to paying his way out of a jam. No social graces. Bumps into people and expects them to apologize. Sorry Peggy. You should not make excuses for him. Even at his age, he can learn a lesson.



You are actually very affirming of people in threads Rob, so when you express displeasure , I would definitely feel inclined to stop and think.

Hmmmm...

I try hard to make judgments only on the information I have been given. And based upon other posts from the OP in other threads, he really does seem to use his intelligence to put people down. I can't say for sure if its deliberate on his part or even if he is aware that he's doing it.

But I fully agree that he lacks social graces. There is more than enough evidence of that , which is why I told him that he lacked class and still had time to learn it. We definitely join forces on that one.:smile:

Robxbox73's photo
Sat 03/12/16 07:05 PM








An interest in "Penis-Size"? NOT! How about A search on "Brain-Size"[Capacity]...? *Grins*
I wish to hell that someone would invent & include an algorithm that I could use in searching for available MEN that would include a criteria for intellect, honesty, self-awareness,sincerity, empathy, wit, common sense, & compassion.
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I have found that so many men use words to describe themselves in their profiles that are totally untrue. In a way I suppose it's a better thing that most MALE profiles are incomplete, totally vague or are not filled-out at all.laugh


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Yup, the kind you can seat beside you...just so you can use the HOV lanes, to speed along...lol !!
To The Op:
This Woman of Substance, Quality, & Intellect[Me~Myself~I] finds your pre-occupation with such an insignificant physical attribute to be disturbing. Your selection of such a superficial topic in reference to the female gender serves to invoke in this reader, a suspicion that your intellect may be extremely limited or compromised in addition to a slight feeling of disgusted contempt in reference to your character. It should not have to be stated that most discerning & logical individuals would select to not pursue any further contact & avoid any individuals who would display such overt negative characteristics. Obviously, in the fact that I harbor an unwillingness to have any further discourse with such an individual;the size of his male organ is of no consequence for any further speculation.





Valeris loved your post! On point my dear. Frankly the OP is just a silly man. He is obviously devoid of any human compassion. Good luck in your hunt for a companion. If I were you, I would invest in one of those prosthetic sex dummies. I would imagine that will be the only option left to such a bereft soul. spock




This was a great post Valeris.:thumbsup:

I dont think the OP is lacking intelligence though.

I don't even think he is bereft of a soul like you said Rob.

It really isn't wrong to have preferences or even to state them .

The OP is just sorta tacky and hasn't thought out the full implications of his suggestions.

If mingles were to include all the details that allowed ALL users to filter out undesirables, in all fairness, mingles would have to include Chest, waist and hip measurements, as well as length and girth of penis.

I guarantee you there will be a dozen new threads a day whining about the number of men whose profile information about their weiners flattered only to deceive :wink:


Bereft definition:

deprived of or lacking something, especially a nonmaterial asset.
"her room was stark and bereft of color"
synonyms: deprived of, robbed of, stripped of, devoid of, bankrupt of;

Sry Peggy, gotta disagree with you on this. There's an old saying in West Texas. He ain't got no horse sense. He is bereft, of a moral compass. Tacky? Nope that you can let pass. He has a certain tone of a person who's used to paying his way out of a jam. No social graces. Bumps into people and expects them to apologize. Sorry Peggy. You should not make excuses for him. Even at his age, he can learn a lesson.



You are actually very affirming of people in threads Rob, so when you express displeasure , I would definitely feel inclined to stop and think.

Hmmmm...

I try hard to make judgments only on the information I have been given. And based upon other posts from the OP in other threads, he really does seem to use his intelligence to put people down. I can't say for sure if its deliberate on his part or even if he is aware that he's doing it.

But I fully agree that he lacks social graces. There is more than enough evidence of that , which is why I told him that he lacked class and still had time to learn it. We definitely join forces on that one.:smile:


Yes Dear Peggy you are right. I think this is one of the first post I noted you giving a rebuke. It was good. I'm sure from his lack of posts he is thinking over his positions. Your right people can learn!
Ciao baby!

peggy122's photo
Sat 03/12/16 07:35 PM









An interest in "Penis-Size"? NOT! How about A search on "Brain-Size"[Capacity]...? *Grins*
I wish to hell that someone would invent & include an algorithm that I could use in searching for available MEN that would include a criteria for intellect, honesty, self-awareness,sincerity, empathy, wit, common sense, & compassion.
*

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I have found that so many men use words to describe themselves in their profiles that are totally untrue. In a way I suppose it's a better thing that most MALE profiles are incomplete, totally vague or are not filled-out at all.laugh


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Yup, the kind you can seat beside you...just so you can use the HOV lanes, to speed along...lol !!
To The Op:
This Woman of Substance, Quality, & Intellect[Me~Myself~I] finds your pre-occupation with such an insignificant physical attribute to be disturbing. Your selection of such a superficial topic in reference to the female gender serves to invoke in this reader, a suspicion that your intellect may be extremely limited or compromised in addition to a slight feeling of disgusted contempt in reference to your character. It should not have to be stated that most discerning & logical individuals would select to not pursue any further contact & avoid any individuals who would display such overt negative characteristics. Obviously, in the fact that I harbor an unwillingness to have any further discourse with such an individual;the size of his male organ is of no consequence for any further speculation.





Valeris loved your post! On point my dear. Frankly the OP is just a silly man. He is obviously devoid of any human compassion. Good luck in your hunt for a companion. If I were you, I would invest in one of those prosthetic sex dummies. I would imagine that will be the only option left to such a bereft soul. spock




This was a great post Valeris.:thumbsup:

I dont think the OP is lacking intelligence though.

I don't even think he is bereft of a soul like you said Rob.

It really isn't wrong to have preferences or even to state them .

The OP is just sorta tacky and hasn't thought out the full implications of his suggestions.

If mingles were to include all the details that allowed ALL users to filter out undesirables, in all fairness, mingles would have to include Chest, waist and hip measurements, as well as length and girth of penis.

I guarantee you there will be a dozen new threads a day whining about the number of men whose profile information about their weiners flattered only to deceive :wink:


Bereft definition:

deprived of or lacking something, especially a nonmaterial asset.
"her room was stark and bereft of color"
synonyms: deprived of, robbed of, stripped of, devoid of, bankrupt of;

Sry Peggy, gotta disagree with you on this. There's an old saying in West Texas. He ain't got no horse sense. He is bereft, of a moral compass. Tacky? Nope that you can let pass. He has a certain tone of a person who's used to paying his way out of a jam. No social graces. Bumps into people and expects them to apologize. Sorry Peggy. You should not make excuses for him. Even at his age, he can learn a lesson.



You are actually very affirming of people in threads Rob, so when you express displeasure , I would definitely feel inclined to stop and think.

Hmmmm...

I try hard to make judgments only on the information I have been given. And based upon other posts from the OP in other threads, he really does seem to use his intelligence to put people down. I can't say for sure if its deliberate on his part or even if he is aware that he's doing it.

But I fully agree that he lacks social graces. There is more than enough evidence of that , which is why I told him that he lacked class and still had time to learn it. We definitely join forces on that one.:smile:


Yes Dear Peggy you are right. I think this is one of the first post I noted you giving a rebuke. It was good. I'm sure from his lack of posts he is thinking over his positions. Your right people can learn!
Ciao baby!



Ciao Rob! I'm gonna be be giving you thumbs up in my fan corner thread in well wishes. You are wickedly cool hombre ! drinker

Robxbox73's photo
Sat 03/12/16 07:48 PM
Muchas Garcia Senorita!
Hast LA vista!
Handle caballo! Hea!

Thank you very much Young lady!
Until we meet again!
Comon Horse! Hea!

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 03/12/16 07:59 PM
Well that was interesting.

Anybody got butter for this popcorn?

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