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Another reason I want to get to know a man pretty well before sleeping with him. I am NOT into rough sex and want nothing to do with it and if that's what he likes, he will have to find someone else. In my opinion it has nothing to do with love. He can take his aggression out in the gym but not on me!!
 
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Rough Sex! Yes! What........ What's going on? Oh.... Yeah, I'm not really into that kind of rough sex. I have had a couple girl friends that wanted to be "Fake Raped" but I just gave them a weird look and said that's not going to happen. I'm not interested in forcing anything. Poor Them Girl friends.... 
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Edited by
peggy122
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Thu 08/11/16 10:10 AM
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I think mild rough sex is very enjoyable. Tying up, slapping butt, twisting and pinching nipples, and pulling hair. Hard rough sex is also fun with equal understanding of each other's limits. Hi Krissy!  Ooooh weeeeee girl! Prepare for your inbox to be flooded with some very creepy emails  That being said , I completely understand the point you are making . At the end of the day, the most important thing is for both parties to leave the scene feeling satisfied, and RESPECTED. And some people genuinely do not feel that respect is compromised during scenarios like this. Its important that everyone finds a partner who wants the same thing that they do or who are open to adapting.  |
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I get the azz slapping... and can wrap my head around a lil light choking....but the whole spitting on someone throws me off. Which if strange....because other...umm, how can I say this....bodily fluids are swapped routinely, even saliva, but....spitting ON someone just seems wrong. I'll pass on that one. Im wondering if people are just bored with their lives, and are just going more and more extreme with sex to get the high that they lack in their lives in general You could have a point.... Even South Park did an episode where it explored porn....with Randy getting more and more extreme with his subject searches lol. Art imitating life, so to speak. It seems to be a vicious cycle Reb. Art imitating life, and then life in turn imitating art |
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I think what used to be considered abnormal is now becoming the norm the pron industry has millions of vids depicting bondage and pseudo rape scenes it seems that there is a market for the extreme and this expectation is now bleeding over into the bedroom from a psychological point of view why would a person want something that is supposed to be pleasurable to now involve pain? or want to inflict pain on another person? yes yes I have heard it heightens the senses but there is something else going on it is the desire to dominate, humilate, hurt another human being I have thought about it TMom, and I also think there is something deeper going on here. Maybe its related to the gender evolution issue. Maybe some guys feel powerless in the home and are excited by the opportunity to dominate and release angst in the bedroom, and maybe some women are tired of their leadership roles and are glad to subconsciously dominated in the bedroom. I don't know. Im trying to figure it out myself  ahhhhh...now we are getting somewhere I cannot say if there has been an increase in interest in BDSM lifestyle over the past few decades or if it has always been there but access has increased with internet I think part of it may have to do with changing gender roles over the years of course not all career women want to be submissive in bed and not all men who feel powerless in their job come home and want to tie the wife up Our speculation may have some validity TMom. I personally am curious about the effect of the rough sex trend on monogamy/faithfulness in modern relationships. For example, if some women who are not open to doing that stuff, how many or their partners then flock to sex workers or more "adventurous" women to get their "needs" satisfied. And how many women are now feeling pressured to learn the tricks of that particular trade in AN ATTEMPT to keep their partners interested and possibly faithful to them? |
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The registration forms for your class are at the front of the auditorium Professor Greeneyes , just as you requested
 
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I think mild rough sex is very enjoyable. Tying up, slapping butt, twisting and pinching nipples, and pulling hair. Hard rough sex is also fun with equal understanding of each other's limits. Very interesting observation I am actually teaching a class on this very subject and I'm looking for volunteers Professor Greeneyes <--------Volunteer Congrats Professor Greneyes 
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When I first heard of "rough sex", it was more of an underground movement , celebrated by part of the gay community and the entire sex industry. But it seems like slapping, choking, spitting on each other etc ,has become quite normal in everyday sexual practices. Has sex become too rough in your opinion? Do you feel pressured to learn more "rough" tricks to be more desirable in bed ? Do the guys feel nervous about accusations of abuse/violence when raising the issue of rough sex with new lovers? I remember when "rough Sex" involved a bit well placed nips and scratches.. Honestly people have to set the bar higher and higher so what was disgusting a decade or so ago is now the new thing. My sex life isn't too rough and it is not going to either... I am not a guy but I can tell your from my point of view there would be no discussion... I would just give the a thousand mile stare and say... Wish I could say it was nice knowing you." Heck I dont' mind owning I may be a pervert at times but I will be damned of being kinky.. the old definition... Perverted = feathers Kinky= the whole damn bird[ Good thing History revolves... |
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Edited by
peggy122
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On a side note...when I see a thread like this.... I begin to wonder how many lurkers are viewing....their moms dark, dank basement lit only from the light cast from their computer screen...and a bottle of microwave heated baby oil within reach. Not a knock on your thread Ms Peggy....the place could use more like it....just an observation I had the same concerns you did before posting this thread Reb  But I was trying to keep the thread educational rather than kinky.. I suspect the poor pervs read the first two intelligent responses and went limp with boredom. 
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Rough Sex Peggy are you indirectly saying you like rough sex? 
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I think if they need all those painful things
to get going we are not well matched. I suspect porn (which I am all for) is the culprit here..they begin to employ what they have seen because it worked in fantasyland, why not in the real world. Not. I would be more likely to offer to tie up his penis, give it a few whacks with a baseball bat and drown it in a vat of jalapenos. |
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I would be more likely to offer to tie up his penis, give it a few whacks with a baseball bat and drown it in a vat of jalapenos. HMMM spicing it up for dinner?
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Edited by
peggy122
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Thu 08/11/16 11:38 AM
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Another reason I want to get to know a man pretty well before sleeping with him. I am NOT into rough sex and want nothing to do with it and if that's what he likes, he will have to find someone else. In my opinion it has nothing to do with love. He can take his aggression out in the gym but not on me!! I don't think I will ever be modern enough to sleep with a man 2 weeks after having met him, like its common to do now . Its cool if that's the norm but I just don't fit in . What can I say? Maybe we belong to a different era TMH1063. 
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would be more likely to offer to tie up his penis, Some lucky lurker just came......
give it a few whacks with a baseball bat and drown it in a vat of jalapenos. |
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Rough Sex! Yes! What........ What's going on? Oh.... Yeah, I'm not really into that kind of rough sex. I have had a couple girl friends that wanted to be "Fake Raped" but I just gave them a weird look and said that's not going to happen. I'm not interested in forcing anything. Poor Them Girl friends.... Hi Twin! Clearly not a dull moment in that bedroom !:) |
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Edited by
peggy122
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Thu 08/11/16 12:02 PM
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When I first heard of "rough sex", it was more of an underground movement , celebrated by part of the gay community and the entire sex industry. But it seems like slapping, choking, spitting on each other etc ,has become quite normal in everyday sexual practices. Has sex become too rough in your opinion? Do you feel pressured to learn more "rough" tricks to be more desirable in bed ? Do the guys feel nervous about accusations of abuse/violence when raising the issue of rough sex with new lovers? I remember when "rough Sex" involved a bit well placed nips and scratches.. Honestly people have to set the bar higher and higher so what was disgusting a decade or so ago is now the new thing. My sex life isn't too rough and it is not going to either... I am not a guy but I can tell your from my point of view there would be no discussion... I would just give the a thousand mile stare and say... Wish I could say it was nice knowing you." Heck I dont' mind owning I may be a pervert at times but I will be damned of being kinky.. the old definition... Perverted = feathers Kinky= the whole damn bird[ Good thing History revolves... The bar is definitely getting higher Sitka. And it makes me wonder if the people who urgently desire it, will quietly sneak outside of their relationships to get it.
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Rough Sex Peggy are you indirectly saying you like rough sex? Ouch! My angel wings are cramping up under my catsuit Romeo!  
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Edited by
peggy122
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Thu 08/11/16 12:04 PM
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I think if they need all those painful things to get going we are not well matched. I suspect porn (which I am all for) is the culprit here..they begin to employ what they have seen because it worked in fantasyland, why not in the real world. Not. I would be more likely to offer to tie up his penis, give it a few whacks with a baseball bat and drown it in a vat of jalapenos. Soufie ! You little minx! Now all the men here have to change their pants. And you have no one but yourself to blame...
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would be more likely to offer to tie up his penis, Some lucky lurker just came...... give it a few whacks with a baseball bat and drown it in a vat of jalapenos. Soufie: the hapless perpetrator of kink
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