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 Forget the lurkers, where are all the BDSM experts with the lingo talk and everything on the subject? They're quite entertaining. Just because I laughed my azz off getting whooped with a wooden spoon growing up, doesn't mean I like any of that in the bedroom now. lol Yea, it always escalated somehow, in my case, with a stainless steel long handled heavy BBQ spatula   as someone who knows how to tie a man's tackle ... nothing amuses me more than the god approved ... missionary ... ..grope in the dark ... ...Puppetry of the penis that some call sex .. Winking .... Enjoy .. rofl:  ... "Tackle" see what I mean about the lingo? When Blondey gets a hold of your tackle guys, well, it's not really yours anymore   |
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I just kinda feel the western society is trying to re-write the book on love, when everyone knows, you cannot beat the good ole Kamasutra...just saying...Seriously, making love and having sex just seems to be merging, into one and creating a mega-porn market. I for one stay clear of rough sex...Rough sex for me is having it on the hard cold tiled floor.
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Edited by
TMommy
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Thu 08/11/16 06:23 PM
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lemmme see if I can keep this PG
there is something to be said for being hot for on another tearing off a few buttons trying to get that shirt off nibbles, bites and the occassional hicky all in good fun but you break out hand cuffs better be cause the cops just showed up and I am getting arrested |
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Propriety is a strange subject to bring up in such a loosely defined medium.
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Hellooooo I am also ready Good luck with whatever you are ready for lol |
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Forget the lurkers, where are all the BDSM experts with the lingo talk and everything on the subject? They're quite entertaining. Just because I laughed my azz off getting whooped with a wooden spoon growing up, doesn't mean I like any of that in the bedroom now. lol Yea, it always escalated somehow, in my case, with a stainless steel long handled heavy BBQ spatula If a pot spoon and a spatula dont set your loins ablaze, i dont know what will lol |
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oh man maybe that is why I got hit with the hairbrush, fly swatter and a yard stick got my hair pulled if I tried running away my brother and I used to play chicken with lawn darts and hit for hit just for funnsies As a kid, I hated all hitting games. didn't associate hitting with fun at all. As an adult, I understand that passion has a level of aggression attached to it, BUT there are boundaries :) |
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Not for me, I prefer to be stood in the corner and told off for being a naughty boy  Sensual I like, I like to worship, oh yeeeah There's a time and place for everything Joe. Worship is amazing when you have the time for it, but what about those glorious quickies in between. No time for worship there 
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got my hair pulled if I tried running away No see, hair pulling, I still like that a lot  Not sure , but I suspect a little hair pulling is incorporated into a lot of people's basic sexual repertoire 
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Forget the lurkers, where are all the BDSM experts with the lingo talk and everything on the subject? They're quite entertaining. Their masks are all zipped up tight at the moment. Rough or Ruff! Ruff! RRrrrufff!  I swear if my mate attempted a passionate move with me in this get up, I'd be too busy laughing to make it to the end .
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as someone who knows how to tie a man's tackle ... nothing amuses me more than the god approved ... missionary ... ..grope in the dark ... ...Puppetry of the penis that some call sex .. Winking .... Enjoy .. rofl: ... I can't seem to find the woman who can tie my tackle correctly. When I put my fishing rod into her pond, whether I use slow or fast pulls on the rod, eventually my tackle explodes and my fishing rod won't work again for awhile
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I have been reading the posts on this thread, and the OP. I think about David Carradine that asphyxiated himself for his sexual pleasures. Or the classes in abnormal psychology explain voyeurism or other abnormal sexual behaviour. I mean outside of what the masses of society dictate to be normal. Just as a gay man is gay, or a lesbian a lesbian, or anything else such as the Kama Sutra. It is in the individual. A passionate embrace of two lovers pulling each other close. Whatever their desires, I can only hazard a guess they look for an equal matching the bedroom as well as their other interests. Well said Sea K!  Passion and some level of aggression go hand in hand for most people whether they admit it or not, but the great divide is over how far that aggression should go and what are the boundaries. And ultimately as you pointed out here, only a couple can mutually set that bar in away that they both leave the scene feeling satisfied and respected |
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slapping, choking , spitting.. I'll pass, sounds like one of the Thanksgiving dinners at my former in laws. But I did take a shot to the ribs one time by my lady.. at that " special" moment. She apologizes up and down later Almost broke my friggin ribcage...Lol Wowsa! Don't think I could do that man. Even if my mate asked me too. I would be too busy worrying about him to enjoy anything else that followed  No, I didn't ask for it. She said it was just a " reflective move of the moment".. she said that happens once in awhile when she is really enjoying it. I told her " that's fine.. but next time I'm tying your hands behind your back."... that actually worked rather well ;) I can just imagine the hi-fives that passed all around the guy's locker room when you boasted about your sex injury greeneyes
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 On an unrelated note, anyone ever wondered why dogs look so bored when they're having sex?  We named a whole damn sex trick after them. You'd think the buggers would be more excited about it
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My theory on bdsm is that besides the heightening of sensation through physical or mental pain and having it bleed through to pleasurable sensation. The underlying motivation comes from seeking purpose When some one is dominating another it gives them a sense of purpose and control. When someone is being dominated they are given a sense of purpose in serving the dominating one. After all life is an opportunity to find and create purpose. The purposes we find in life always have consequences so it behoves us to consider them carefully and always be prepared to question them and their consequence to our selves and others My purpose in life is to appreciate what is. That keeps me pretty busy with out having to go to extremes. Although many consider me extreme in my search for truth. Well said Simplycomplicated. One of the consequences that has crossed my mind , is the crossover effect that really violent sex has on the level of respect and tenderness outside of the bedroom. I wonder if aggression to that level spills over into other areas of the relationship |
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Forget the lurkers, where are all the BDSM experts with the lingo talk and everything on the subject? They're quite entertaining. Just because I laughed my azz off getting whooped with a wooden spoon growing up, doesn't mean I like any of that in the bedroom now. lol Yea, it always escalated somehow, in my case, with a stainless steel long handled heavy BBQ spatula as someone who knows how to tie a man's tackle ... nothing amuses me more than the god approved ... missionary ... ..grope in the dark ... ...Puppetry of the penis that some call sex .. Winking .... Enjoy .. rofl: ... Wow . |
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Forget the lurkers, where are all the BDSM experts with the lingo talk and everything on the subject? They're quite entertaining. Just because I laughed my azz off getting whooped with a wooden spoon growing up, doesn't mean I like any of that in the bedroom now. lol Yea, it always escalated somehow, in my case, with a stainless steel long handled heavy BBQ spatula as someone who knows how to tie a man's tackle ... nothing amuses me more than the god approved ... missionary ... ..grope in the dark ... ...Puppetry of the penis that some call sex .. Winking .... Enjoy .. rofl: ... "Tackle" see what I mean about the lingo? When Blondey gets a hold of your tackle guys, well, it's not really yours anymore and again I say.. Wow!
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I just kinda feel the western society is trying to re-write the book on love, when everyone knows, you cannot beat the good ole Kamasutra...just saying...Seriously, making love and having sex just seems to be merging, into one and creating a mega-porn market. I for one stay clear of rough sex...Rough sex for me is having it on the hard cold tiled floor. You have a point about the sex and love-making merging into one concept in modern society. I think there is a time and place for both in a committed relationship.
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lemmme see if I can keep this PG there is something to be said for being hot for on another tearing off a few buttons trying to get that shirt off nibbles, bites and the occassional hicky all in good fun but you break out hand cuffs better be cause the cops just showed up and I am getting arrested It all has to do with perception I guess . Some couples are into hand cuffs into role-play without anyone getting hurt. Some people cant wrap their mind around " the indignity" of being bound . The topic of compatability seems to be crucial in this conversation. |
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On an unrelated note, anyone ever wondered why dogs look so bored when they're having sex? We named a whole damn sex trick after them. You'd think the buggers would be more excited about it BADUM TSS!! Lol hey Ms Peggy ...pic was just a Lil comic relief...ya know, to cool the horndogs off a lil.....and maybe 'horndogs' wasn't the best choice of words Please continue, good thread BTW. Although, I've seen BDSM brought up quite a bit....To me, there's a difference between bdsm and rough sex....but maybe its just the way I'm looking at it. Idk....just wanted to throw that out there. |
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