Good Evening I knows kind of late for me do host but I had jumping bean in my soul to post another one tonight. its a warm but crisp, clear night in our beautiful city of Philadelphia. I got another bone to throw at you . okay my good friends of m2. Now let me paint a picture for you. Have you ever spent time with you lover and a disagreement comes about, your husband/boyfriend never likes to ask for directions so instead you took a bad right of the turnpike and ended up in fool's country? Your wife / girlfriend brought a beautiful dress, she brought the red one, you know the one that shows off her 5 inch stilettos and her smooth legs that just too hot to handle. She asked you " How do I look in this dress? instead of doing the guy thing & play it safe with a comment like " Oh , honey you look amazing babe" you told her she look fat.....(what)!. Then its the other scenarios like you caught your mate eyeing the booty while you & he/she was supposed to have a romantic walk in the park. then there's pathological one's, " oh baby, I'm just going to Fred's bachelor party for the smoking hot wings", " As soon's the strippers arrive I'll leave" , now we all now that's a lie. Okay , my friends, when is it good to admit you was wrong? is it necessary to even admit fault? or do you make fault just to get the last word but you know you was wrong? As a man of reasoning I believe you should always admit fault but sometimes like to forfeit an argument so we can do the make up....lol. So my people, spill it, what you think?
talk soon!

If you have hurt someone, is when you admit being wrong

and when you share misinformation either intentionally or ignorantly, I woul also suggest admitting your error

.. according to my ex I was never wrong !..she may have been right about that..lol..

Never admit to being wrong, unless you got used to sleeping on that broken down sofa, in the basement...

Interesting..
I will apologize like this if I know I can't agree with someone..

I apologize for hurting your feelings that was never my intention.

I am not saying I am wrong, I am saying I feel bad for hurting them.


Now if I am in the wrong I will humbly apologize for being in the wrong.


Heck I apologize for thinking I may slight someone.

The thing is I never say it unless I mean it.

Actually a person that can't apologize is one of my pet peeves...

ms harmony,


hi you doing? let me ask you a question? Have you ever been in a situation where, let me think like a woman for a minute, you was on a bling date , similar to Mingle2, and they guy had a flaw you just wasn't feeling, so instead of answering his question if there's going be another date? do you be blunt and tell him no! or you breaking it to him gently and say " aahhh haaa.... I call you?"

girl you got to let me know....lol


love ya posts

Adivorcedone,



hey buddy I like how you think. play it safe until proven guilty....my kind of M2 Avenger

SitkRains



hey, I still love ya' posts keep doing it. Opinions are like smartphones, we all have them.....okay

haaa

good one

well, I only did the 'blind' date thing once and it went pretty well,, so I havent had that EXACT scenario

I have had dates that fizzled and I always give it another shot in case they may have had a bad day,,,,,after that, if its clear there is no shot, I slowly become less and less available,,,,until they get the point


Im not good at delivering hurtful news to grown ups...

ms Harmony


lol, so its safe to say you have to use it at its own discretion....lol

ms Harmony


lol, so its safe to say you have to use it at its own discretion....lol

saying Im wrong and recognizing we arent working are two different things,,,

No1phd


lol yes I think she very right!, always listen to your wife/...lol

ms harmony



oh my god I love a truthful woman.......

You seem to be asking 2 different questions.
1. "When to admit you are wrong."
2. "When to admit you've done wrong."

I mean

There's a difference between thinking you're right, have the correct information and act upon it, and lying in order to benefit yourself at the potential expense of another person.


When you realize you are and are willing to accept the consequences and help rectify any situation?

You ask when it's "good."
Different questions if it's "when should you" or "when do you."


Sometimes.
Some people don't really care if you admit it since they know you're wrong. Admission of being wrong doesn't affect their reality.
Some people admit to their being wrong to assuage themselves and other people don't want to be used that way.


Huh? Make fault?
Make her feel she's at fault? Like she's wrong? Even though I know I'm wrong?
Make it seem like it's no one's fault, even though I know I'm wrong?
Make it a joke rather than something I did wrong? Like "I was just pretending to be lost and taking the wrong exit ha ha got you," but knowing I was really lost and wouldn't ask directions?

^^^^ This
Hiya Rains!

If I'm wrong I will admit I'm wrong....

no1phD


well your wife is a smart lady. I don't know her but I can see where she coming from.

wow

a man of many words.......

I'm speechless.

ms crystalrains


I'm glad you bring that point because like me, I hate to be wrong, I mean really hate it but if I cause a fault then its right thing to do is to say. sorry......