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Topic: I lost hope with the right woman..
Wajdi23's photo
Sat 11/05/16 06:03 PM
Is it really difficult to have a little conversations here? I still don't know why most of women don't wanna text back when someone say "hi", i think its called a prejudgment right!??

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Sat 11/05/16 06:37 PM

Is it really difficult to have a little conversations here? I still don't know why most of women don't wanna text back when someone say "hi", i think its called a prejudgment right!??


Best of luck.. send all of the wrong ones my way.. o.k.

sparkyae5's photo
Sun 11/06/16 06:26 AM

Is it really difficult to have a little conversations here? I still don't know why most of women don't wanna text back when someone say "hi", i think its called a prejudgment right!??


have you tried smiling....we all have to judge its a survival system built into

everyone.....smile2 ...

soufiehere's photo
Sun 11/06/16 06:30 AM

have you tried smiling....we all have to judge its a survival system built into
everyone.....smile2 ...

I like this :-)

Boby1983's photo
Sun 11/06/16 06:37 AM


have you tried smiling....we all have to judge its a survival system built into
everyone.....smile2 ...

I like this :-)

Hi

mzrosie's photo
Sun 11/06/16 07:57 AM

Is it really difficult to have a little conversations here? I still don't know why most of women don't wanna text back when someone say "hi", i think its called a prejudgment right!??



Don't just say "hi". Read their profile and mention something in their
profile. Most women get a number of emails. Make yours stand out!

Like if it says in their profile "I like to cook"... say "Great! I like to eat. What is your favorite dish to cook?"

If you ask them a question relative to their profile, it might encourage them to answer you back.... I said "might" :-)

Asking questions keep the conversation going.

Good luck! happy


sybariticguy's photo
Sun 11/06/16 08:02 AM
Actually its a demonstration of one simply choosing their own personal preferences and does not reflect on any specific person as each person is free to have their own preferences as well. Being able to accept others preferences is a needed sign of maturity if one wants to be on a dating site and accept the fact that each is allowed and not obligated to respond to anyone at anytime...

inni_dreamz's photo
Sun 11/06/16 08:12 AM
I get a lot of "hello" "hi"... Even started a thread - here's the thing.... When I wrote back - hello.... That's the end of that so ----

I agree, put just a bit more effort into it and keep trying. There are a lot of possible reasons you don't get a response....

It's really not personal - unless you make it that way.

Good luck!

FredoniaDaydreamer's photo
Sun 11/06/16 08:17 AM
I agree with you. You have to personalize the message. A generic message of "Hi" leads me to believe they did not take the time to read my profile and that there is not any real interest. I will especially not respond, if they do not have a picture in their profile or have taken the time to input anything into their profile.

Hope this helps :wink:

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 11/06/16 08:21 AM
Hummm just saying hi and nothing else is like putting no effort into the conversation and they feel as if they have no reason to answer just a hi... I know I don't anymore if they can't even start a conversation then I'll end it by not replyingwhoa

Besides that those that just say hi need to read profiles you may find out that they are only looking local and those hi's from tin buck two are a waste of their time to even answer hi back...

If you don't end your conversation with a question there is nothing for them to answer back... So when saying Hi read the profile and ask a simple question like I see you live so and so would you be interested in getting to know me even though I don't live in your area ect...

Or maybe the profile list that they are looking local only if so it is best to by pass those for you are not going to talk them into a LDR.. I have seen so many times that someone gets mad at me due to I tell them I'm not seeking anyone or local only...


sparkyae5's photo
Sun 11/06/16 08:40 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 11/06/16 08:48 AM

WHEN SOMEONE SAYS HI TO ME ''ITS ALL ABOUT THEM'' I OWE THEM NOTHING AND THEY

OWE ME NOTHING....MY CHOICE TO SAY HELLO BACK...:wink:..FRITZ PERLS, USED SAY IN

HIS FAMOUS PRAYER ''I AM NOT IN THIS WORLD TO LIVE UP TO YOUR EXPECTATIONS AND

YOUR NOT IN THIS WORLD TO LIVE UP TO MINE ETC'' .......:wink:

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Sun 11/06/16 08:56 AM

Is it really difficult to have a little conversations here? I still don't know why most of women don't wanna text back when someone say "hi", i think its called a prejudgment right!??


How do you know if they are the right woman or not if no one returns your messages.

NotPay4Play's photo
Sun 11/06/16 08:59 AM


Is it really difficult to have a little conversations here? I still don't know why most of women don't wanna text back when someone say "hi", i think its called a prejudgment right!??


How do you know if they are the right woman or not if no one returns your messages.


Not to mention some could be inactive profiles that were not deactivated or cleaned up in the last server maintenance run.

salsaforlove's photo
Mon 11/07/16 02:47 AM
Don't expect to get an answer immediately. Sometimes you must do a little waiting.

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Mon 11/07/16 07:12 AM
hi

shudwe's photo
Mon 11/07/16 02:24 PM

hi


LOL!!!!

It's funny though, & probably a case of double standards but I reply to any of the women who say hi, or hello, or how ya doin' out of common coutesy, but l think women don't feel the need & jump to conclusions too soon, or maybe they're just downright ignorant!?!?!...........................HI LADIES!!! ;-)

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Mon 11/07/16 02:44 PM

Is it really difficult to have a little conversations here? I still don't know why most of women don't wanna text back when someone say "hi", i think its called a prejudgment right!??



It's funny though, & probably a case of double standards but I reply to any of the women who say hi, or hello, or how ya doin' out of common coutesy, but l think women don't feel the need & jump to conclusions too soon, or maybe they're just downright ignorant!?!?!...........................HI LADIES!!! ;-)


Could be the ladies are avoiding prejudgement and assumed conclusions

jacktrades's photo
Mon 11/07/16 05:18 PM
When reading profiles make sure the person you are emailing is someone who you have a common trait with. Conversation flows more freely when it is natural.When someone does not email you back do not be offended, that just means one person out of the way so the right one can move to the front of the line. Best of luck to you sir.

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Mon 11/07/16 05:30 PM
I have no interest in a guy in his 20's. You don't have to send me a nudge or friends request. If you're in your 30's, maybe I don't like you or you are too young.

markc48's photo
Mon 11/07/16 06:40 PM
Are you picking people that are on line. ?
Do we want to respond after the other guy / gal is off line?

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