It's hard for me to accept that there 2 kind of women for guys; those who want sex and those who don't.

This site is tamer than others but women, in my opinion, want sex as much as men and perhaps even more!

They want the fun, the intimacy and the, hopefully, wildly intense orgasms than can be had.

But they don't want to be treated like crap by guys who believe only males desire sex!

Or that because they take part in activities that guys want they're some sort of sluts for enjoying the same things.

It's a serious disease but nothing at all like the plagues of the past.

It will pass; pay no attention to the media shouting for attention.

It's certainly more significant within a dedicated relationship but it's fun in other areas of life as well.

I would suggest that the eagerness of perfect strangers in bars for sex with each other is evidence of the pleasure we all derive from sex!

Though I do agree that pleasure with strangers in a bar isn't always a formula for success in a long term relationship.

Intimate Encounter indicates a lusty point of view!

Sex is often done with those who've only just met; maybe they will get to care for each other going forward.

Or maybe they'll just have great sex with no love!

Since your partner is OK with it go try it.

Why?

Yes, but over time the relationship will probably get more emotional.

It would be hard not to get closer with each other.

Nothing wrong with wanting sex; maybe you wildly excited them somehow.

It's better though to be with a partner who wants what you want.

The relationship wouldn't be killed but it would be a bit dented I would think.

Clearly the actor/actress should have revealed this up front if they're still in the business.

On the other hand at least you know your partner has a healthy interest in sex; so make lemonade out of lemons!

Or move on.

Clearly porn has it attractions otherwise nobody would pay attention.

I suppose for some watching a movie would be more exciting than the real thing; probably because the watcher is sheltered from being a part of the action also the imagination might make it more exciting form him/her.

For me I can't believe a flick would be more interesting than a real woman but that's me.

Frankly it doesn't matter why as long as you are both getting what you want out of being with each other even if only for a short period of time.

If the size of the woman/women excites you, and they're excited also, then a good time can be had by all!

Well, from my point of view, the issue would be is that life over?

Certainly having sex wouldn't be a problem for her; in fact she (former porn actress) would undoubtedly have had sex in ways I haven't even thought of yet.

The issue, I think, would be how she regarded sex with me; would it be just another scene to get through?

Would it be her having to put up with a guy not up to her previous partners?

I wouldn't say no to a woman with this past career because it might be interesting from a physical point of view.

But I'd certainly be a bit cautious, in terms of a permanent relationship, because it might be like being with a former heroin user in that the activity is still on her mind.

Interesting question; did you ask it because you're dealing with this situation?

I'll be 66 in February so I'm on here in the US while you're in Russia.

I looked at your profile and your flexibility is amazing relative to mine so I applaud you for your efforts.

A bit more room to move around maybe.

There are some activities that require a bit more room in order to give the highest quality treatment to one's partner.

Having sex in cars was never a favorite for me but it was where it happened in my very early days.

Maybe it's time to move on.