I highly suggest getting professional help , as this most likely will only get worse . My o pion is that pornography takes something thats suppose to be beautiful and makes it ugly . There are no true feelings or respect involved at all during these acts . It is totally self-indulgent and watching it over time will / desensitize you . Seek prefessional help . Good luck bro.

Yea , don't you just hate when you are strapped down in your recliner against your will , while you are forced to view and read of the progressions of this transition . L.O.L. Seriously though I agree with you to a point . However I would be interested in seeing the results of a pole of men if asked if they would be willing to have themselves castrated and the remainder of their equipment turned outside in all in the name of publicity and acquisition of dinero . This is so much deeper and complex than that . Also instead of mere opinions , yours , mine , whoever's. I'd like to hear what a trained expert in this field has to say on this matter and bring some facts into the equation .

Perhaps (in this world is not where nice gestures will reap benefits ) . Being nice is taking the high road. which always entails more effort. My personal motto is nothing ever really worth anything is easy . Just a little food for thought .

I could not agree more !

Yea , at one point , I kinda sorta thought that , as it may have saved his family from pain , but then I reconsidered and commended his courageousness for not only himself but giving others struggling with similar issues a voice . And as far as the family goes , he had to come clean with them regardless anyway and those who choose to ridicule family members , as if they had something to do with it are unfortunately cowards anyway . Bottom line is although I find the whole situation interesting it's really none of my or anyone else's dam business

Well , I respect others opinions , however can you honestly say , if you yourself were in this situation , that you would go through all that is entailed as an attempt to regain fame and notoriety . REALLY . Personally , there would not be enough recognition nor money in the world that would influence me enough to change my gender unless deep in my soul , there was a perpetual desire .

I am hetero and agree , just as I support gay or any other variations and I will tell you why . What I consider to be avery wise older gentleman expressed to me the best take on this that I've ever heard . He said you don't choose it. It chooses you . Now think about that for a moment . The last thing I would want to do to someone who has struggled with this issue there entire life is judge and ridicule them . I mean really , who would willingly chose to do this . Especially being in the spotlight , having such an athlectic , male based background if the feeling was not incredibly overwhelming . So lets all cut some slack here , there are so many important issues out there that our efforts should be focused on . I agree with one son that said , of all his father's accomplishments , exposing this situation has been the most courageous . I also think many put so much emphasis on sex here . This is not about sex . Anyway I hope we all would have evolved enough to realize that prejudice in any form is ignorant . So lets just accept people for who they are as long as they are not hurting another . I say kudos to the family for their understanding and support .

Have had some dam good sex and never , ever paid for it . L.O.L.

Does the staff even read profiles ? I specifically state my preferences and it appears the matches and people you say I may be interested in, many times are polar opposites . I don't mean to be disrespectful but it is a waste of everyone's time to view pics and profiles and get halfway through and find out definite deal breakers so please give consideration to this . Also , I do understand the idea of posting pics of ones pets and friends but , frankly I'm not interested in dating your pet and maybe saying , I have and love animals and friends and family are important to me so you should take this into consideration for a good fit would probably be more appropriate than a shrine . I apologize , but backtracking a little , for example , if I say I am attracted physically to dark haired , dark skined women under 5 - 6 and you match me to blond haired , blue eyed women 5 - 9 , wheres the logic . So please address this . Thank You

Unsure and just want to browse and maybe pay compliment . Apprehensive about posting pic , considered very attractive by most with amazing body for age , thats the problem , don't want to be judged for exterior , have had heart broken by a woman who I treated like a queen . Guess im too afraid to put myself out there . Should just forget it I suppose . Very honest , unfortunately deception runs rampant . Thanks